I’ve had trust issues since I was a little girl and was the one that discovered infidelity in my parents relationship. I’ve been crushed ever since. I don’t trust men and I went through a phase where I just plain hated men. I never saw myself as married, but now I am. Although we started a little rocky, since our first issues, he’s never given me a reason to doubt him… I just do. How do I keep from imminent failure in this relationship?

so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 1/2 years. I am 18 he is 20. We had our wedding set and things were getting real serious. However lately things have been rocky. =/ We are desperately trying to fix things but we just don’t know what to do anymore. We tried having a break, but that didnt work out. We really love each other. So we both are wondering on taking couples counseling. We know we are not married so will they still take us? or would they still take us being so young? i dont know what to do. i dont want to pay someone just so they can tell us we are too young and give me the parental lecture. will they take us seriously?
prom queen- our communication and trust issues are breaking us apart.

Boyfriend wants to take me to couple’s counseling because he feels I have trust issues. What does this mean that he wants to go is he just playing or could he be serious?

i got married to my high school sweat heart after 2 yrs of long distance relationship we both love each other…but one day i was checking his mails and i found a mail where he had written to some escort service asking for rates…the date was like when we were in long distance relationship….when i confronted him abt the mail he said…he was curious…and he mailed to knwo how much they may ask and stuff…we fought a lot regarding that and he kept on explaining and i kept on building up suspicion…its been alomst 1 1/2 yrs and i still keep worrying…and he gets mad now if i ever bring up ane trust issues..he has been extremeley loving and he adores me and he puts up with me..he is a real sensitive guy.
but i keep wondering this.if by ane chance has he cheated on me while we were having long distance relation..?i know he has used lots of porn and stuff..?
what would u gals think ?if he has cheated then would u break up ur marriage now?or u forget the whole thing &focus on present

I’m 18 and my boyfriends 20. We’re having really bad arguments and trust issues but we love each other to much to even break up with each other. But when i think of counselling i think of married couples and wonder if i’m to young.

Also where would i go for about it? where do i look?

About a year ago my wife and I hit a rut in our marriage. We seperated in January and I started seeing a woman who happened to be my wifes ex sister in-law. It was the worst mistake of my life. My wife started seeing a guy during that time also. In April my wife and I decided to try and reconcile. In May I found out she was still seeing the guy. She apologized and I forgave her. It happened again, and again I decided to forgive her. Now we both have really bad trust issues with each other and I am not sure how to pull this thing together and make it work. I really want things to work and she insists that she wants it to also It has been extremley difficult and I don’t want to keep hurting each other and our three kids. What should I do and how would I go about making this thing work?

How can I bring up the idea to my husband of me and him going to counseling? I have a lot of trust issues with my husband and everytime I try to talk to him at home about it, he gets real defensive and angry, so I want to try counseling, but I think he won’t want to go. Also, about how much does marriage counseling cost?

My Husband wants to try counseling to save our Marriage. Thus being the second time around with the same Trust issues yet now only deeper then the first time, I am again as always willing to try to do something to fix our Marriage. So if anyone out there can direct us the right way it would be nice. Funds are very low financially so any help would be greatly appreciated. I really think maybe this time he is serious about keeping his family… Thanks