I have an extremely annoying and abusive ex-girlfriend that continues to harass both myself and my current girlfriend. This occurs in person but also over the phone and internet. It currently has been going on for the past three months. I was wondering exactly how extreme the case needed to be for a restraining order to be granted?

She hasn’t threatened physical harm. Just continued verbal harassment.
Also I have told her around seven or eight times(firmly) to leave me and my current girlfriend alone.

My daughter is 17 years old. It’s hard enough in this world being a black teenaged girl yet alone a pregnant black teenaged girl. Three months pregnant. She still didn’t tell her father yet. My no-good ex-husband would lose his mind(and probably blame me). But I told my daughter I’ll support her if she keeps the baby but her best bet would be an abortion. I’m struggling to raise her and a 10 year old boy already.

My divorce was hard on my daughter, it changed the lives of her, my son and myself dramatically. My daughter likes to attend this support group to cope with her emotional pain, trying to find ways to stay positive. Now, she’s been coming home from the meetings saying more and more that she’s considering keeping the baby. Fine. She can listen to all them white people who have no sense of reality if she wants to but I warned her, THAT’S what’s going to get her life messed up. Again, I still love my daughter and I’ll support my grandchild if I absolutely MUST. Am I having the right attitude as a mother?

I have been dating a sophomore for a little over three months now. I am a freshman. I really want to break up with him but I don’t know what to say to him. I know I have to do it face to face so please don’t tell me to do it over email or the phone. I don’t want to hurt him and he is really emotional so I know he would most likely cry. Help? Thanks.

Lately my parents have been fighting more and more often. Before they would only fight about once every three months. Now it has been getting worse. My father is a alcoholic and my mother isn’t. This is what they usually fight about. The alcohol. My mother and father have both started abusing each other physically and emotionally. Me and my others sisters try to help but it’s tiring everyone out. Are they going to divorce? Are there some signs? Can I help stop it?

Three months ago, my wife and I got married. We were doing just fine. Until she started stripping. I wasn’t ok with it, but she started doing it with a friend. I was never ok with it, but I accepted it because I love my wife more than anything in this world. And it was her decision. But a little over two weeks ago, she had a break down after telling her dad what she was doing. She started blaming me for her stripping because of where I work. I dont make enough money where I work to comfortably support us. Which is why she started stripping. Before we got married, I had promised her I’d get a new job. But I kept putting it off. I had every intention of getting a new job, but I just put it off. And that happened a couple of times. This time, she left. She is staying at a friends house and has been ever since. Ive changed the way I do things. I use to be lazy, but Ive changed that. Im taking resposibility and doing things that I should have done a long time ago. I sold my truck, so 300$ a month goes back into our pockets. Ive been constantly been looking for a job. Got a couple different options coming up. one possibly with the school system. She wont come home because she is afraid I’ll quit searching for a job. And she doesnt trust me when I tell her that I promise to do everything I say im going to do. But after what Ive done, can you blame her? Saturday, she talked to me and said, she wanted an Anullment. But a couple hours later, she tells me that she is going to hold off on the anullement because she loves me. And I know she does. She said dont call or txt her. She’ll call me. She called me after 3 days. Today. She said she was calling to hear my voice and to see how the job search was going. ive been looking for a Fulltime job that pays more than minimum wage for over 2 weeks now. Its hard to find somthing like that. And believe me, ive been looking as hard as I can. I have a few connections and maybe able to get a job with the School System here as a Custodial/Maintanence engineer. I guess you could say, Janitor. Im in college but they are all online classes. Thank god. But i cant convince her to come home and let me show her how much ive changed. And im afraid that if I cant get this job fast, she’ll get tired and leave for good. I love my wife. I know ive made some mistakes in the past. But I am human. And i want to make up for all that. But How can I show her if she isnt home and I cant call her? Any suggestions?

I got married on November 0f 2008 My wife is from New Jersey, Im from New York City we got married in New York and our marriage papers are filed in New York. The marriage is not going well we got married to soon we met online and rush in to it in three months. Some times love makes you do fullish things, When your head is up in a cloud. My wife agrees to sign the uncontested divorce papers there is no children involved and no property and no combined assets. Questions: Can I get a annulment and what the process? What are Divorce Lawyers Legal fees in New York City for uncontested divorce? Are Divorce Kits do it your self reliable slower verses a Having a Lawyers legal services?

Heres the thing, I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and three months, she’s 16, a bit alternative, but not a hardcore goth, emo or punk and she thinks that Valentines day is a huge commercial excuse to squeeze money out of stupid lovestruck people. I am a stupid lovestruck person and I want to get her something. What do I do?

Oh, and she hates pink, hardcore girliness and ANYTHING remotely teddy bear-like.

Help!

I got married three months ago and can’t stand to touch my spouse.At the moment,we barely speak because the issue hangs around like the smell of something burning.

Where can I find one on one counseling, I am struggling with myself in my new relationship and would like to get to bottom of it, got married three months ago and I am feeling overwhelmed and emotionally detaching from my wife.
Any suggestions, will prefer it free but I am willing to pay per sessions a reasonable amount.

My ex and I broke up almost three months ago. We started dating a year and a half ago; then she had to move a few hours away for a new job. This is the third time we have broken up; and she says that she only wants to be friends. However, she said the same thing when we broke up previously, and we ended up back together. I am really torn up about what to do. I am still madly in love with her; yet, I have gotten over most of the emotional pain from the break up. Ladies, should I try to work things out, or should I let it go? And if I try to work it out, how should I go about it?