When I suspect my wife’s infidelity I am full of anger, but I also have a powerful urge to sleep with her. It makes dealing with the situation much more difficult. Why does this happen? Has anyone else experienced this?

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I got pregnant right out of high school and had our son who is almost 2 years old. My husband and I got married only 7 months ago but we have so many problems. I always heard the first year is the hardest but I am in tears almost every day. When we got married he haad just joined the marines. I feel like now that we are living together near base that he brings his marine life home. Just the other night, I know this is TMI but I had started slowly starting my menstral cycle and told him we wouldnt be able to have sex. He got extremely upset with me and we argued the entire day. Then that night he kept saying…all i want is sex… all i want is sex before i go to bed. I refused.. then he said "well my friend is married and he goes to strip clubs and has these girls numbers in his phone and texts them constantly but HE still has sex with his wife". then he proceeded to loudly argue with me and I told him to please stop before he woke up our child. he then said "I dont care, Im not the one who rocks him back to sleep". this greatly upset me… so last night I brought it up to him and he told me he "hardly cared" about how i felt.

he always thinks I cant have my own opinion and if i ever disagree with him or say something he doesnt like, he brutally puts me down. can i get advice from someone please? I dont know what to do… he also yells at our son for little stuff.. and when i mean yell, i mean yell (obviously because hes in the military). I hate it when he does this because our son isnt even 2 years old yet, and he doesnt understand.

I am a very quiet person, and I never raise my voice at my husband, nor do I nag him about anything he does… I feel so disrespected because our fights are ALWAYS over sex. I have honestly lost my sex drive just because he wont leave me alone about it. and when we got married and i moved to his base, i quit both my jobs and my school… i feel ridiculous. i dont want a divorce, all I want is for things to work for once.. i mean, 7 months of marriage and im already fed up? how do I make him understand that i need help!

no hate mail… but please help.

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I know my 14 month old has been going through separation anxiety lately during the day, but she is also suddenly waking up in the middle of the night and will not let me leave her sight until she falls back asleep. Before, every once in a while, she’d wake up at night, but she always went right back to sleep after tucking her back in. She still doesn’t wake up every night, but now, when she does, she freaks if I leave the room before she falls asleep.

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see my husband is a forestry firefighter and right now he is out on a fire he just texted me saying that he can’t talk to me only text. do you think that is suspicious?? and to mention he has girls on his crew. he always says he’s not like that (the player type) I think I trust him it’s just the girls that I don’t trust. He called me last night and the night before so I don’t see why he can’t now. the only reason he gave me was that his phone is F’d up. or do you think I am just traumatized from my last relationship?My last relationship was REALLY bad.
The girls on his crew are not "manly" they are like any other well maintained woman it’s just that they are using the gear that they are stuck with. I know the girls and trust me thay are not 100% angels with the stories i have heard about them and men.and when some of you said he shouldn’t even be calling me they do get to sleep at night mind you in tents on the line. and you never know he could be lying to me about some things. I guess it’s just all up to me huh? a big trust issue

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I was just notified by a woman I dated a little over a year ago that contacted me when she was 4 1/2 months pregnant to tell me so. She stated she wanted nothing from me but always wanted a child. She is 35 and stated when we were together that she couldn’t have children and wanted to adopt. She has now notified me (baby is 4 months old) to tell me she wants support. I have a 5 year old son that I pay 0 a week for since his mother doesn’t work and I live with my fiance and her two children. I make about 65K a year as does my fiance’. My question is this 1. Besides taking a DNA will my child support be 0 for one and an additional 0 for the other or does my fiance (soon to be wife offset the formula since she will eventually be a dependant and effect what they call the cost of living) or not considered?. I appreciate an advice or something to soothe me.. I don’t know if a attorney is necessary with this matter or if it is about formula and I feel taken advantage of by this woman and worry that my current fiance and her children will now suffer due to this situation. What is included in the formal to insure we don’t end up homeless because an old date deceived me very badly. Thanks in advance.. Losing sleep . The lady has not filed yet and paternity will be completed first. However, it is the next step that worries me plus her uncle is handling and he is an attorney or is requesting I complete a CSI form now or when he does file with the courts I will pay his fees. Can he do that?

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RE: My 7 month old son
breastfed and solid fed (fruits & vegetables)

He used to sleep through the night. For the past 2 weeks he has been waking every 3 hours. Because I’m sleepy, I put him on the breast and he goes back to sleep. But I believe it is separation anxiety during bedtime. How can I get him to sleep through the night again?

Thanks!

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Hi everybody, i am currently on a trail separation with my Wife, it’s her choice. She wants to see how life is without me. We live with her in laws, i actually moved to the US to be with her, and i am starting school here. So regardless if we split or not i will be going, but i don’t want to split.

We sleep in separate bedrooms, work different schedules, we occassionally eat together. We still cuddle, kiss. Although sometimes she doesn’t want to, she says it doesn’t feel right, she loves kissing me but she isn’t ready to be romantic again yet. She still wears her wedding bands and asks me to do so. She is becoming friends with her old best friend who tried to break us up, and i want to know how to handle everything and how to get her back as my loving Wife.

She wants a trial separation, how do i show her during that trial that i’m the one for her? Do i shower her with gifts and kisses, or quite the opposite?

Help me please, women primarily!

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Ok so i have recieved a summons that i must submit a written response to a petition to establish visitation in florida, i have 15 days to submit my response and i am at a loss here…….. i am already having financial issues so getting a lawyer is really almost out of the question, i have a free consultation today however im not sure how much they can help being as though i have no money to obtain thier services. My question here is, how would i write my response in reguards to this summons? what information should i include, is there a certain format it should follow? and should i include an offer of visitation or just wait for the actual mediation process to see what the judge proposes? And in your experiances what kind of visitation has a judge granted for a 15month old child? I am all for him seeing his daughter, i have actually talked to him and he seen her this weekend. It was not until all of this that it was brought to my attention that he had a genuine want to see his daughter, now knowing it’s something he wants im open to that. However, i am a bit concerned because i think she’s a bit young to be gone every other weekend for the entire weekend. She’s at the age that im beginning potty training, and trying to get her on a healthy schedule so that she will sleep good through the night. I am concerned that by up rooting her every other weekend that is going to not only terrify her because im all she has known for 15months of her life, and will completely mess up her schedule and get her confused and make things difficult on us when she’s home. If anyone can give me any advice or input as to how this could go, or maybe what has happend in your situation. Or if anyone has any advice as to where i can get legal advice or help i would appreciate it! I’ve contacted legal aide but due to budget cut backs you can no longer get ahold of anyone in the office, and even then they do not assist anymore they just give you advice, they will not help me write the letter.
Thanks in advance!
I have contacted legal aide…. due to budget cuts they are no longer available to help in this situation. You have to call a telephone number that i have been calling all day everyday for 3 days (excluding the weekend and holiday). It’s impossible to get through, and i was already told that even when i speak to them they can only provide advise but will not help me write the response or anything else.
And i am happy he wants to be a part of her life, i think visitation is a wonderful idea. But i think that overnight or i should say weekend visits for a 15month old is a bit overwhelming. She has stranger anxiety and is a very tempermental little girl, if she is out of her enviroment where she feels safe she will not sleep and will likely cry constantly. My job as her mother is to protect her and that’s all i want to do, i want her to be in his life but i want it to be on terms that will not put her through stress and anxiety. Shes not old enough to understand or reason with. Can you imagine being 1 and suddenly being ripped from your moms arms and taken to this strange place with people you don’t know, and you have no clue why your mommy left or when she will be back? that would be devastating wouldn’t it?

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I was awarded sole legal custody and physical due to mothers neglect and proving drug usage child services gave me a letter to take to family court and i won mother did not even show up my daughter was 7 at the time now 4 years later she asked for a modification of custody her having physical and joint legal she says she bettered her life and obtained custody of her 2 other kids from some one else the other father never went to court for his i did i knew Better what can i do to prevent her from getting physical custody of my daughter will judge go for her favor or mine we have a mediation hearing tomorrow she has not had any contact in 4 years IM offering visits 1 saturday every other weekend 10-7 no sleep overs now till they built a relation ship again i think she wants to much what should i do to get this court Stuff over with i do not want her to leave my home it will crush my new family can she win this or what will happen to me and my daughters relation ship if i loose this legal matter

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Ok so i have recieved a summons that i must submit a written response to a petition to establish visitation in florida, i have 15 days to submit my response and i am at a loss here…….. i am already having financial issues so getting a lawyer is really almost out of the question, i have a free consultation today however im not sure how much they can help being as though i have no money to obtain thier services. My question here is, how would i write my response in reguards to this summons? what information should i include, is there a certain format it should follow? and should i include an offer of visitation or just wait for the actual mediation process to see what the judge proposes? And in your experiances what kind of visitation has a judge granted for a 15month old child? I am all for him seeing his daughter, i have actually talked to him and he seen her this weekend. It was not until all of this that it was brought to my attention that he had a genuine want to see his daughter, now knowing it’s something he wants im open to that. However, i am a bit concerned because i think she’s a bit young to be gone every other weekend for the entire weekend. She’s at the age that im beginning potty training, and trying to get her on a healthy schedule so that she will sleep good through the night. I am concerned that by up rooting her every other weekend that is going to not only terrify her because im all she has known for 15months of her life, and will completely mess up her schedule and get her confused and make things difficult on us when she’s home. If anyone can give me any advice or input as to how this could go, or maybe what has happend in your situation. Or if anyone has any advice as to where i can get legal advice or help i would appreciate it! I’ve contacted legal aide but due to budget cut backs you can no longer get ahold of anyone in the office, and even then they do not assist anymore they just give you advice, they will not help me write the letter.
Thanks in advance!
so i should include in my response kind of like an offer of visitation? for example stating in my response offering; 1 day visit per week

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