My husband and I have been married for nearly 3 years. He lost his job; suffered the loss of 2 close friends; and has had several operations (3 rotator cuff operations). During all this, we have lost our sex life and sense of joy and fun. What do I tell him to get him motivated to get help and see a counselor together?

I have a problem regarding to sex in the relationship. i was in sex less marrige for 7years and that gives me huge impact to my sex life after divorce. it makes me feel that i’m not wanted at all, not attracteve to my partner, i can’t initiate sex becasue of fear of rejection, too much frustration and anger occur when my partner is not willing to have sex.(i think i have a high sex drive) i always feel so insecure about if my partner is bored with me and lose interested in having sex with me someday soon, and since i have pretty high sex drive, i always get depressed too much when my bf didn’t want it.

I am currently dating with this man and he has lower sex drive than me. i need to make love to him as much as possible(we see each other 1 or 2/week and im happy if i get 1 or 2) but sometimes he is not in the mood even that number so it makes me really dissapointed.

then even though i don’t want to but we start argue about sex. then our sex get awkward…

should i seek sex therapist to get an advice or should i stick to looking for a man who fillful my need?

My fiance & I rarely have sex. It’s been a year since intercourse & oral is every 3 or 4 mos. I’ve talked to him before, he does take meds that interfere w/ this but always says we’ll work on it. I’ve never been in this position before. My past relationships weren’t based entirely on sex, but it was at least a factor.

I decided to have the "major talk" w/ him yesterday & asked if we could go to counseling b/c nothing improves. He was totally shocked. He says he understands it’s not that frequent, but thinks we are a "hot couple" & our sex life is great. I asked how he was in other relationships, he says it’s always been the same. He rarely had sex w/ his ex girlfriend (they’re still friends, but more like buddies) & the girlfriend after that was obsessed w/ sex which was a turn off to him so he didn’t sleep w/ her much either. He says all he knows is what he sees on TV & doesn’t think couples are that sexual in real life. So, what do I do? Is counseling an option?
BTW he’s not gay just in case this is coming. When I was working a lot, I would find internet porn but always very mild, always female, and always BJ’s. He says all he likes are BJ’s & intercourse makes him feel uncomfortable, like he’s taking too long & hurting me.
No, nobody else. He works from home & only leaves once a day for a 20 minute drive on the beach. We’re here together all day. Not cheating.

My wife and I enjoy a rather strong sex life. After being married three years we still have some type of sex every night. We would like to help others enjoy sex a bit more often.

I want a job where I can help people with relationship problems. I’d like it to focus possibly on sex therapy. Or some kind of sex education. I think sex is a important part of any monogamous relationship and that a happy sex life leads to a happy home life. Also informing people about the benefits and dangers of sex. Is there any job that would suit these interests?
Something I can go to school for. (Not a prostitute.)

I need to know how to spice up my marriage sex life. we need new ideas does anyone have a website where i can get advice on ideas. I don’t want to order any books i just want a site where i can get answers write then. Thanks

A doctor had the reputation of helping couples increase the joy in their sex life, but always promised not to take a case if he felt he could not help them.
The Browns came to see the doctor, and he gave them thorough physical exams, psychological exams, and various tests and then concluded, ”Yes, I am happy to say that I believe I can help you. On your way home from my office stop at the grocery store and buy some grapes and some doughnuts. Go home, take off your clothes, and you, sir, roll the grapes across the floor until you make a bulls eye in your wife’s love canal. Then on hands and knees you must crawl to her like a leopard and retrieve the grape using only your tongue."

He continued, ”Then next, ma’am, you must take the doughnuts and from across the room, toss them at your husband until you make a ringer around his love pole. Then like a lioness, you must crawl to him and consume the doughnut.”

The couple went home and their sex life became more and more wonderful
They told their friends, Mr. & Mrs. Green that they should see the good doctor.

The doctor greeted the Greens and said he would not take the case unless he felt that he could help them; so he conducted the physical exams and the same battery of tests. Then he told the Greens the bad news. ”I cannot help you, so I will not take your money. I believe your sex life is as good as it will ever be, I cannot help.”

The Greens pleaded with him, and said, ”You helped our friends the Browns, now please, please help us.

"If you insist. Ok, go to the store and buy some watermelons and a box of Cheerios…”

me and my girlfriend have a good sex life but sometimes i want to change it up a little bit what are some ideas?

I don’t know if I’ve just been raised to feel sex is wrong and a dirty thing but I’m now 20 and sexually active but everytime I have sex I feel disgusting and shameful, like I’m doing something wrong. I want a book that’s almost like going through my own sexual therapy without going to see a sex therapist. Something that will help me get through this and something to help with my sex life. Any suggestions on books??

plus i have bi-polar and im not on medication either as of yet we only been married for six months and we already have issues but we had them issues while we was dating(3 Years) trying to keep from getting a divorce cause i think we love each other in our own way but we need help plus she not the same since we got married plus don’t have much of a sex life with her anymore that part of the relations is dead plus more things.