If a man messes up in the relationship and wants to make up is it best for him to gift the woman with flowers?

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I have a relaive.She has lived with a man for 18 years.They filed taxes as "married"the whole time.There are a lot of assets involved.Now,the relationship has busted.The house is in "his name"although she has bank records where she has been involved with the payments for the entire time.Now,the man is telling her she must leave,it is HIS house.So,how would the dissolution of a common law marriage work?I mean the division of assets.Should she see a divorce atty?They were never legally married.Anyone familiar with the law please help.Somehow,I am the "answer man"in the family as I know a lot of things…The law isn’t one of them.I’m thinking divorce atty,but am stuck on the fact that there was no marriage.18 years of building assets together though,seems she should be entitled to half?What to do?What is the first step?Thank you in advance

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Ok, i’ve been with my husband now for 2 and a half years and lately i’ve been feeling a little disconnected from him. we haven’t had sex for 3+ weeks and i know he isn’t cheating on me. i’m 110% positive he isn’t so don’t reply if that’s going to be your answer. He says he doesn’t see anything wrong with our relationship and that he had so much sex before we got together that it’s like nothing to him now and he doesn’t crave for it. well that kinda stinks for me cause we only have sex when he feels like it. i feel like a guy!!! and he uses it against me if we are in a disagreement he says we cant have sex cause i was being a bitch. or that something was my fault. we don’t snuggle anymore the only time we actually touch is before he goes to work in the morning and we peck kiss. no tongue no intimacy no nothing. what is going on here. again i know for a fact he isn’t cheating and he says he doesn’t see anything wrong with our relationship and he says he still loves me…. what’s going one? what can i do?

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How would this benefit a mother over making the father child support? When her daughter is born instead of not making her father pay child support, she basically allows her daughter to live with her father who still lives with her parents. She knows that if she were to abandon her with, him & his parents will take good care of her, and will go out of there way so the child can see her mother. The mother can basically see her any time she wants to and she knows that. He (her boyfriend) broke of the relationship before she was born but the mothers knew that he would be a good father.

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Is it possible? Some people say, that it is nearly impossible sometimes, and even if the relationship goes on, the trust is forever broken. What do you think?

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My ex and I split over two (2) years ago. We ended our relationship very uneventfully. We were just not right for each other. He told me that he will sign the divorce papers without any problems, since I don’t want anything from him but my freedom. Now, it is two years later and he is still making up excuses about signing the papers, which I have sent him repeatedly. How can I get him to sign the papers without having to travel to the state that he lives in? He is in the military.

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I can’t do this by myself, i really need advice from a group of people, esp muslims.
in Islam , i know we are not supposed to be having relationships before marriage. Last year during my sophomore year i fell in love, or should i say lust?, with a boy. Mind you, he is madly in love with me. NOT the good love, the scary, obssessed, shaytan whispering love. I never had a relationship before him and now that i do i hate myself and i feel very scared and "dirty?".
We were NEVER physically affectionate. I never let him lay a hand on me. ever. Its been a miserable year.. and i hate it. I feel so trapped and i feel like.. i feel like my soul is so ..idk.. dark//?
Everytime i pray i ask Allah subhana wa ta’ala to give me strength and to tell this kid who is madly in love with me that i dont want this anymore. Of course i care aobut him, but who cares? Allah swt and my parents love me way more.. But im so quiet, and im the type that is afraid to say "no" to things. I finally did it 2 weeks ago, i told him i dont want to talk to him anymore just hi and bye. i took it well, i was happy, i felt like Allah swt was finally happy with me. But then he contacted me and called me crying and he didnt take it well. And of course, my weak self.. i fell for it. And now im miserable.. and i have class with him and im always depressed in school and im so angry with myself.
also on saturday i went to a lecture, by Baba Ali, a realllyyyy inspirational Muslim comedian, if you dont already know.
I want a HALAL marriage, i just want a man who is good in deen, has a good heart..
Please tell me what to do
i just dont know what to do or how to bring it up
He is so deep into it
i feel so depressed and i feel like i’ll never find anyone because i feel like a dirty person even though i never even had physical affection with him
if youve ever been in this situation, please tell me what you did
jazakallah khairan

i would appreciate no insults, no body is perfect i just need help and im obviously willing to give up what i care for to please Allah swt
I cant even be guarenteed that im going to get married
please make duah
and please say inshallah :/

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He owns a house the in the deed has his name and uncle, there no equity. Can i get alimony if a get divorce, its 9 years but legally married for 4 yrs got 1 child in comon. Also, have 3 more kids of previous relationship. i’m collecting unemployment. I don’t know how im going to make it. any advise.

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Hey, question. I have two Sims I want to get together, but I’m not sure if they can, thanks to a previous relationship.

Devon had a child with Monroe, whos [other] son [with a different man] is Finn. This connects their tree’s through mother - relationship, but it’s NOT direct. Monroe got old and because I switched between age on/off and seperate houses, she’s dead. Devon & Finn sorta kinda fell in love with each other (Uhm, YEAH) and have full love, and full relations (100 for each). No Going Steady option, no proposing to move in or anything. Woohoo is able though.

Can they ‘actually’ get together or not?
In Simple:
Devon want’s to be with Finn, but is related in his tree via being the father to Finn’s brother. But NOT his.

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I’m not in a relationship or anything, and i know it’s wrong but do you think there’s a time where cheating is ok depending on the relationship if it’s weak or strong? What if you wanna try it as an experience just to know how it feels? And do you believe in the saying ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’? Personally, I don’t. If you want to conversate about this, IM me or message me if you want.

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