ok, not sure how to start this…. um, ok, so me and my Girlfriend broke up about a month ago, more or less. I’ve done my best with the whole " time heals everything" deal. I mean hey, dont get me wrong the time is helping, but im a senior in Highschool and i see her everyday for a hour and a half. I competely understand that the whole thing is over, she said and i quote " Im just not ready for another relationship". Makes me feel like a rebound….. Getting another girl isnt that easy 4 me, i mean im no brad pitt or robert patterson, so yeah they arent excatly lining up at my door. What should i do? Should i try to get another girl? stay single for awhile? WHAT? Advice from both sex’s would be great, thanks

How long after a separation from a marriage is it OK to date again? I don’t think I will really get over the ex and I know I will love him forever in my heart. But I know I need to move on. However, I don’t want to go into a relationship on the rebound. At the same time, I feel so lonely.

When is it "too soon" ( a rebound) to start dating someone after a recent breakup and when is it no longer considered a rebound?
Oh no no, nobody broke up with me. I like someone who just got out of a relationship but I wouldn’t want to just be his rebound.
I don’t think it was love either, we’re 17, afterall.

Okay, I just need a little break, nothing too long. I don’t exactly want to be dating anyone else. I just need to be free of relationships.

Here’s the problem. My best friend is obsessed with my girlfriend. So how do I let her know I wanna take a break for a little while, without him picking her up off the rebound?

Is there anything I can say/do to her or him?

I just went through a breakup, and this guy Elliot started hitting on me and things like that when it got rocky between my ex and me.
He’s not the first guy to do this to me.
I know I won’t be a rebound because I’m not hurt, but still.
Why do they do that?

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVICE

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to remain friends. I kept asking her i wanted her back because my heart said dont let her go. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is way outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sicking and now she says she will never be friends now and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just want to be friends. Any advice thanks
She just had gotten out of a 2 1/2 year verbally abusive relationship ending in a restraning order. Am i a rebound? lol She told me initially that she lost feelings and still wanted to be friends. Just to give her time. Now she assumed that i lied to her about things and that i tried to fool her during our relationship. She thought i was doing drugs, i was trying to buy her love etc. I was not doing drugs and i told her that i want to prove to her. Her reasoning to give me reasons was that she did not want me to have the satisfaction of thinking i fooled her. Is she nuts?
She also told me not to try to prove myself different then what she called me. She called me a liar and would never want to be my friend. I didnt lie, just acted extra nice cause i did not want to lose her, that was my mistake. I told her that i want to be friends when she was ready and she told me no thanks. Can she reallt stay mad at me forever when we both agreed we had a good relationship??? ANY ADVI