Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I pushed to far? . Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why would she if she wanted it over!
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text/talk him again, nothstarted while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this?She said she will regret the breakup. Why would she if this is what she wanted? Any helpful advice to move on or what could come of this. Thanks so much!

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the texting started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this?

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the texting started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this?

The breakup happened on October 24 so it has been a little less than 2 months, the relationship lasted for 2 years and 3 months. There is this other guy I like, but I don’t want him to feel like a rebound. How much longer should I wait or is it ok to date now?

I don’t know all the facts but I know they had a big fight. I think they were together for about 6 months. I wanna ask her out but give her time to deal with the breakup so I don’t turn into rebound. How long should I take before asking her out?

In case my marriage doesn’t work out, I’m thinking a hot attorney in key west would make a good rebound date. I’m already scoping out oceanfront real estate and collecting ernest hemmingway books so that I have something to talk to her about on the first date.

Serious replies only. Please include attorney’s name, photo, and email address. Thanks.

There is no such thing as rebound..I asked for the divorce..and that didn’t answer my question.

7 years ago I went through a divorce. It was war and it was Hell! It took me months before i could even function again. I couldn’t so much as do the laundry anymore for weeks on end. I would lock myself in the place i rented for days and days hoping I would die or something but I didn’t. God took me through that hard process of deep inner healing. Its been 7 years now.
I called my daughtor and she cries out in my ear things that just rip a dad’s heart out. things a little girl doesn’t normally know but are fed to her by a bitter ex!

Now, my friends are trying so hard to "fix" me up. I( am afraid to allow another woman get her "claws" into me again. its scary! They all play headgames.

So what would you all do in my situation. I’ve already joined a divorce care support group for people like me who have survived divorce.
Life isn’t balanced. I’ve gone from job to job, haven’t slept well in years. I mean its a real struggle. So what would you do if you were me?
In the divorce care support group I go to we have 2 rules.
1. No dating in the group. The most common mistake made after a fresh divorce is to get into another relationship before you are completly healed or on the rebound. Its not healthy.
2. Whats said in the group stays in the group. So the suggestion of finding a lady in the group is out! Way out! But it has helped me to see those who have just gone through divorce and relate with them offering some help for them. Thats been nice and they appreciate the shoulder to lean on, but no one gets romantically attatched. Thats a rule! Its for our protection, besides, do I want to face an angry ex husband who may have a gun? No way!!!

My friend said her friend got remarried already after her divorce….I told her I would ask Yahoo what a reasonable time allowance would be between divorcing and remarrying especially with children.

You can not end up in a good marriage on the rebound. ISSUES NEED RESOLVING FIRST before any ones life can be on the straight narrow of any future choices for any part of the family.

My older brother is currently going through a separation from his wife of four years. Their marriage was extremely volatile and contentious. He never worked a full time job in his life and mostly stayed home and never did anything with his life which his soon to be ex wife seemed to accept. They argued and fought constantly, occasionally in public.

Since that time, he was forced to move back in with my parents. He landed a job as a delivery man and attends a divorce support group where he met this girl who he has spending a lot of time with. Outside of the fact that they are both recently separated single parents, they really don’t seem to have much in common and it seems like he is rushing things along. He recently spent a weekend at her place. Does it seem like he is interested in her or is this more of a rebound thing