hello
my prob is that my dad iwants to leave with my uncle in phoenix because my mom does not like stayin home
they argue alot
and i think my dad is tired of it but with out my dad we can not do anything because my mom cant drive
what do i do?
i don’t whant him to leave =[
and he wants a divorce from my mom

Ok I really need advice on my marriage. I have been married to my hubby for 8 yrs. He is a loving, kind, generous, thoughtful, giving, trusting person. He treats me like a princess and loves children and will be a great father someday. I married him young b/c I was under pressure since he didnt have a U.S. greencard, which he now has. We married for love, not for citizenship as he has been a citizen for a few yrs now. English is his second language. I thought when we got married, he would keep learning english, but he doesnt want or try to learn anymore. He says things wrong and gets mad when i correct him. Sometimes i feel like i have to dumb down what im saying for him. I tried buying him books to help him learn, but he doesnt take interest. This prob has afffected our intimacy level. I sometimes want to talk about things with more substance then he is capable of. Now here is where it gets really confusing. My best friend is a guy and for the past yr, ive been having feelings for him. We both go to college and work together, so i cant escape him. He satisfies my emotional needs. We have a similar sense of humor and can talk for hours. I have never acted on anything and never would. The thing is, he can be self-centered, stubborn, judgemental, and controlling at times. I just noticed these things from observing. He is also a little immature. I’m attracted to him for alot of reasons <similar goals,humor,attraction>, but not sure if it would work out in the long run. He has feelings for me too and has made it clear. Should I try to make things work with my hubby or should i leave b/c of my bf who i also love>??