This isn’t particular usual of me, however I require some formidable form of counseling or advice. My girlfriend and I have broken up on mutual terms- or rather, her decision was made and I omitted the fatal decision. Apparently she "fell out of love", and was uncertain of her feelings in regards to me. We had been together for ten months, and had broken up six months prior, however returned the day subsequent. This was my first relationship, and thus I am not particularly surprised at the outcome. However, she contacted me the day subsequent our breakup, as she was immeasurably emotional and wanted to "inform me" of her feelings. I had perceived a partial chance- a third chance- however, was frightened of acting upon it in precaution of a third breakup. However, she later rectified that this was impossible, and unfortunately, it phased me. She’s present in two of my classes in Senior High School- and is within my Peer Tutoring and Peer Support group (I will not elaborate- it is simple enough to derive from the name). What advice can be provided? How to I endure her presence in my classes, and her relationships with my friends? How do I move on? I’m finding it increasingly difficult, and have no avenues to turn to… How do I "get over" this girl who I loved immeasurably, and experienced infinite "firsts" with her. She has experienced relationships prior to this, if that helps in relation to advice…
I know this is typical, and mundane, however no other avenues of advice present themselves… I want diverse advice, not solitude, etc., and hence I inquired here.
My logic transcended into transparency when I become infatuated with her… Thank you for your responses. I’m not of adequate level to rate, etc, however if possible you would receive an astronomical volume of praise

My wife has left USA for her country for good.
I want to file uncontested-no-agreement divorce.
since there’s no agreement, the judge will decide the community division.
but that’s will gimme a 50% haircut.
has anyone got into this problem?
even if she signs the paper, it still needs notary. and notary requires her presence. so, that wont work for my case.
i have some properties that have to be declared in the FL-150..the judge will know everything i have. If i dont’ give anything to her, then the judge will do the splitting..
am i correct?

I’m hoping to locate a reputable attorney dealing in less-than-ordinary divorce situations… here is the situation.

How can a Brazilian get a divorce from a U.S.-performed marriage without traveling to the U.S.?
My good friend is trapped. He married in Florida but now in Brazil. Because he is married to a U.S. resident alien, he cannot enter the U.S. again unless divorced/single, or residency papers are filed by her (this she is unwilling to do, OR to give him the divorce). The courts in Florida seem to require his presence in the U.S. to simply begin the process. How can it be done in his own country when Brazil does not recognize his marriage in the first place?

** This is not about wanting U.S. citizenship, just a divorce as he wishes to marry another and move to Central America without being married to two people **

He is a good guy.. she was cheating on him, so please.. no racist rants about foreigners in this country.. thanks so much.

Okay, one of my sister’s friend is facing a lot for trouble from her husband who’s having an extra marital affair, but he is neither agreeing in giving divorce, the in-laws house is in Gujarat, but the wife is originally and presently in Hyderabad, another problem is that the guy used to work in Middle East, but after his return to home he ran away and his presence is unknown ?

Are there any laws that help her get divorce or force her in-laws to attend the court on behalf of their son?

Also can anyone one tell me what is period of Iddat, that she is to complete, if its a must is their any way it can be avoided ?

Consider this: our country is only one of two–the other Malta–which do not have a divorce law. Even Spain, Italy, and Latin American (catholic) countries already have divorce laws. The Catholic Church, even in very special cases (especially those who can afford the cost) allows a divorce.

We do have Art. 36 of the Family Code, referring to psychological incpacity as ground for annulment. Note, its annulment, not divorce… there’s a big whale of difference. So far, that’s the way out for couples, and many had to invent, and worse concede to transgressions just to establish the presence of psychological incapacity. And it costs a lot, too.

My fiance and I are going to court for custody of his daughter. We are asking the court to give us temporary full custody based on the living conditions she is in when she’s with her mom.

The mom shares a one bedroom apartment with seven other people and an eighth lives in a garage. The mom sees nothing wrong with these living conditions and feels insulted that we are trying to get temporary custody because of this.

The little girl says that the people in the house hit her and that when she rides in a car with her mom that she sits on a pillow between the two front seats and ducks when a police officer drives by because all other seats are full. The problem is we haven’t seen any obvious bruises and have no way of proving that these things are happening. We did file a report with Social Services and they interviewed the family in the presence of the little girl and determined that she didn’t always do as she was told so if she was being hit, there was probably a reason (I’m not kidding, this is what the man told me.)

My fiance and the mom went to mediation and were unable to come to an agreement so the case went back to the judge. The judge requested that they come back because the mom hadn’t brought a translator, didn’t have money to hire a translator there and hadn’t served a response.

Since they were unable to come up with an agreement in mediation (the mom refused to budge at all, she thinks that his fri night to mon morning is too much time already and sees nothing wrong with her environment) the mediator suggested a custody evaluator which he said could cost up to ,000.00.

My fiance and I both work and make enough money to support ourselves, take care of his daughter’s needs and pay for a two-bedroom apartment so his daughter can have her own room. We aren’t using lawyers because we really can’t afford it and I’m totally fine with working extra hours and doing whatever we have to do to get a custody evaluation done, but don’t want to get so far in debt that we can’t support the little girl if we get her. We’d like the mom to pay for half of the evaluation, but she doesn’t work.

Are we better off taking our chances with the judge and hoping that the judge sees her environment as unacceptable and paying for the evaluation so that a professional can determine what’s best for this child? Or would we be better off giving up on getting her a bed in a bedroom (that’s all we’re asking the mom to provide for her) and trying to get a little extra time and stipulations stating no corporal punishment?

I think the living conditions are unexceptable and that the little girl deserves every opportunity available to her and that she’s worth fighting for. But if the courts, social service, cutody evaluators, mediators and all other players involved don’t see anything wrong with where she currently is, I don’t want to keep fighting a battle that we won’t win. I’d rather pour that money into a family vacation fund and college fund for the child and just make the most of every minute we get to spend with her. Advice????