Firstly thank you for taking the time to open this query. I truly appreciate it even if you can’t offer assist.

Sadly my husband has died after a long period of illness that lasted 6 years. He died of natural causes . We had no children and my family has now all gone home. I do not know what I am feeling. As yet I have not cried that much therefore some think that I see his death as a blessing. I think I am afraid to cry as I know that I may never stop. Even although he was very poorly this last 6 months he was only in hospital for the last day of his life. He died within 24 hours after admission. The funeral was on Wednesday 13 April He died at 11pm on Sunday 3 April.

I do not think I need assist with benefits as someone from Social Security ( I think they are called Work and Pensions now) is coming to aid me filling forms for benefits next week. I just don’t know what to do or feel now. I am in sheltered housing and feel very alone at present. When someone is ill and you choose to care for them at home many friends fall by the wayside. The remaining few were a lot older than my husband and I and have since died.

I do have a dog and cat so I do have to force myself to get up and go out for their sake. I only have my brother living close by and I am sad to say that as much as I love him he has his own problems not least being that he is alcohol dependent.

Simply because of his problems I am rather wary about opening a bottle of wine but in all fairness I must state that my husband and I very rarely indulged in alcohol and even when we did it was only ever two or three glasses of wine each.

I am very deaf therefore phoning Samaritans is out to the question. I do not believe in a God therefore going to churches is not an option . I have lots of faults but hypocrisy is not one of them I will not go into a church and talk with the clergy. I truly respect all those who do believe too much for that. Another reason I would not go to the clergy stems from mistrust for a large potion of my childhood I was in care along with my siblings after our mother died. I was nearly 16 when Dad remarried and we all left the children’s home to live with him and his new wife. The home was run by one of the Christian Churches and suffice to say that has coloured my perception of Christianity and all clergy in particular.

Can you please offer me any websites that are genuine and not asking for money or conversion to a religious belief,

I have also posted this query in marriage and divorce as I am unsure if I am in the correct category

Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you for your answer.

Like the latest scam, where people’s intestines are full of pastey, gross clogged up waste, and you can lose 30 pounds if you take this pill that looses up all this stuff.

Maybe i can say that the reason people are tired is because their brains are full of worms and if they take my pill, the worms will die and everything will be ok.

Or maybe i can say that the reason people are going bald is because their blood is full of urine and if they drink this special potion, it will fix their kidneys and their hair will grow back !

Help me get rich and give me more ideas please.
It’s not a federal offense nor practicing without a license. I see ads for this quackery on Tv and hear the ads on the radio and read the ads in magazines CONSTANTLY.
Therefore, i want to get rich doing this too.

My Sister in law had an 7 month affair that was exposed to everyone who known these people.
The divorce was my bother (1/2) who has challenged the NOFAULT RULE in Ca., stating the affair was the primary cause of divorce and asked the JUDGE for a CAUSE OF ACTION with detail so as to sue his wife for custody, and majority potion of the community property!

HE GOT IT on all counts and got 90% of the community property as well as physical custody of the children because he proved that his wife started to CO- habituate with individual who she was having the AFFAIR WITH and did not want his kids around the man!

Now let me say this I think the whole think STINKS to high HEAVEN, and both party’s need to grow up, that said I can’t fathom how this woman had the affair, how the LAWS of NO FAULT could be side stepped like this.
I practice Financial Meadion so I’m out of element on subject .

HAS ANYONE HERE HEARD OF THIS BEING APPIED TO DIVORCE LAWS?

My Sister in law had an 7 month affair that was exposed to everyone who known these people.
The divorce was my bother (1/2) who has CHALLENGED the NOFAULT RULE in Ca., stating the affair was the primary cause of divorce with evidance and asked the JUDGE for a CAUSE OF ACTION with detail so as to sue his wife for custody, and majority potion of the community property!

HE GOT IT 90% of the community property as well as physical custody of the children because he proved that his wife started to CO- habituate with individual who she was having the AFFAIR WITH and detrimential to kids well being.
Now let me say this I think the whole think STINKS to high HEAVEN, both party’s need to grow up.
That said I can’t fathom how this woman had the affair, how the LAWS of NO FAULT could be side stepped like this.
I practice Financial Meadion and contract negotions so I’m out of element on subject .

HAS ANYONE HERE SEEN THIS KIND OF CHALLENGING NO FAULT TO DIVORCE LAWS LIKE THIS?

My Sister in law had an 7 month affair that was exposed to everyone who known these people.
The divorce was my bother (1/2) who has CHALLENGED the NOFAULT RULE in Ca., stating the affair was the primary cause of divorce with evidance and asked the JUDGE for a CAUSE OF ACTION with detail so as to sue his wife for custody, and majority potion of the community property!

HE GOT IT 90% of the community property as well as physical custody of the children because he proved that his wife started to CO- habituate with individual who she was having the AFFAIR WITH and detrimential to kids well being.
Now let me say this I think the whole think STINKS to high HEAVEN, both party’s need to grow up.
That said I can’t fathom how this woman had the affair, how the LAWS of NO FAULT could be side stepped like this.
I practice Financial Meadion and contract negotions so I’m out of element on subject .

HAS ANYONE HERE SEEN THIS KIND OF CHALLENGING NO FAULT TO DIVORCE LAWS LIKE THIS?