Have been married 6 yrs getting a divorce not a good relationship hubby cheated and got his ex. wife pregnant our first year of marriage along with another affair. I had a long standing on and off affair with an ex.bf that resulted in my 3 yr old son(hubby new this) and to my suprise i just found out my ex.bf fathered my 5 yr old daughter(i had no clue).The divorce has the potential to get very nasty.To avoid this i am considering hubbys deal to liquidate all marital assets 50/50?I would be walking away with nothing but a check and personals but i would also have to drop hubbys name from kids b-certificate or else he will sue me?He said he would be willing to give alimony for 6 months but wants nothing to do with my kids. Take the deal or not?
I had no clue till after the paternity test that my daughter as not my hubbys .

I am going through a nasty divorce after 6 yrs of marriage cheating happened on both sides. My current home is worth 500,000 we live in N.J here the taxes are really high and so are the prices for housing.We have two cars he drives the mercedes and i drive the volvo.We have 3 dogs and a cat.The furnishings in our home are worth about 25-30 grand some of them were bought over sea’s since we travled a lot our first year of marriage. Hubby is 38 yrs old and i am only turning 26 yrs old next month so he is set in career makes 95 grand a year while i have not worked in 3 years what are my chances at alimony?
I have two kids a 3 yr old son from an affair that i had and 5 yr old daughter thats getting a paternity test because of same affair .My hubby as cheating on me with his ex. wife and he has 2 kids with her wants to move in with her and sell our home?

I wasnt there for the childs birth. I did not sign the voluntary establishment stating that i am the father. And the child support agency never gave me a paternity test.

I have a son, the result of a one night -stand, very mutual…The mother didn’t contact me to tell me she was even pregnant, I imagine she just wants my money now, since I got a paternity test order through child support div. But I actually do want to be a part of his life. He is 9 mo already and I haven’t ever seen him. I have only known about him for a couple of months now. I have no contact info on the mother anymore. Okay, so I have agreed to pay child support, but how about some kind of visitation. I have no money for an atterney, so how do I file a petition for visitation through the court myself? Like where do I find the forms, or do I have to have a lawyer to do this? Not what is best, but by law, can I petition myself? Could I hand write one and have it notarized? And don’t judge me, I already have two kids who I am fully involved with, my kids mean everything to me, it shouldn’t matter how they were concieved!

Dude wants to go to court to begin making child support payments (which the mother does not want. Get this! She does not want a paternity test to see if the kids are his). However, Dude has warrants (speeding tickets) in Austin, TX (which he will resolve after the custody hearing). Can Dude be arrested for the warrants during the child custody hearing?

I’m pregnant and I don’t want to deal with child custody battles, but I don’t want my baby’s daddy involved at all. I don’t even want to put him on the birth certificate, but I don’t know if he’ll try to get a paternity test done… So how does all of that work? And what happens after paternity is established? Am I required to allow a paternity test?

I live in oregon and I had a paternity test done if proven the father I would like to have visitation and/or split custody the baby will be two in february 2008. I haven’t been able to see the child and I was just notified of this August of 2006 and I am just worried that I may not get visitation rights does anyone know if I will be able to get visitation rights even though I haven’t been in the childs life due to me not even knowing about the child until last year and if so where should I start.

The father of my one year old denies that she is his daughter. He moved to canada and got married, I live in the U.S. How do I get a paternity test to make him pay child support? He refuses to take a DNA test. Also, if he does pay child support – how much would it be? Would that could as my earned income if I apply to other state programs to help?

Back in 2003 I was contacted by Dakota County of Minnesota to take a paternity test to determine child support obligations for the child in question. I was determined to be the father and met with an attorney that help set up mediations for me and the mother to determine an amount of 0/month for support. Medical was not included in that amount… I was ordered to take care of that as well.

I have never missed a payment and the amount is now up to 0/month with the cost of living adjustments and medical is now included. I have been out of work and on unemployment for over a year now and the amount is really starting to make things very difficult for me.

Since the law of 2007 that states that both parents’ income is to be factored in the basic child support obligation, would anyone know if it would be worth having this amount recalculated? The mother currently makes about ,000/year. When I do get a job, it will more than likely be for a similar amount of money.

Please help

Thank you!

(I have used the child support calculator that the Department of Human Services provide on their website, but it seems unclear as it says I would only be obligated to pay ?? That doesn’t seem right.)

The mother has 100% of the parenting time and we have joint custody.

I live in Texas and I need to know of a way to get a cheap divorce. Mediation is not going to work because I do not want to be in the same room as him. He is very dangerous and I fear for my life if I ever see him. We have no children together, no land, homes or cars. We have nothing together but debt that is all in my name and I am willing to take care of the debt myself to make an easier divorce. I just want out and away from him as soon as possible. I will add that he continues to say he should have custody of my son which is not his son and I have a paternity test from the father and the father pays child support. So let me know any advice you can give me please. I know every state is usually different so just a reminder I do live in Texas.