dating…?

what’s a good age to start dating? how do u know if ur ready? i sometimes feel like i want to start dating but i’m never sure. my parents won’t let me start dating until i get to university, but i’m just wondering.




What would be the usual visitation schedule for a child whose parents live in different states (for example, the primary parent lives in Florida and the secondary parent lives in Texas)




10week old baby and husband problems….?

i’m not sure what to do i need help and advice!

me and my husband are young only 19 we got married when we were 18 and i got pregnant the month after with our daughter.we were both really happy even thought we weren’t really trying.but he liked to drink occasionally 2 or 3 times a month.then when his best friend turned 21 it got to be 4 or 5 time a week and he started smoking again.we talked and he said he just wanted to get it out of his system before the baby was born and then he’d only do it on rare occasions. well our baby is now 10 weeks old and he’s going out partying till 1 2 3 o’clock in the morning because when he says he’ll be home at 12 it’s like ok you really mean a few hours later.also when he is home all he talks about are his plans to go out or his computer game if he’s not playing it. im hurt and ive told him but he hasn’t changed he’s tried but not really hard.and i’ve lost all trust in him and that hurts him but i can’t help it.i know he’s not cheating on me but there’s still that fear, especially when at 2 in the morning he says it’s just all guys chilling and the next thing i hear is a girl in the background!although hes said its just a guys girlfriend sorry i didn’t even think about her.i’ve had enough i love him but none of this is fare to me or our baby!we agreed to try a trial separation two days ago and are trying to work out the details, but i just don’t know if i can do it.my parents are willing to take me in until i can get on my feet with the baby but they don’t think we should try a separation they say we should get a devoice because in the long run it’d be better.but i love him so much it hurts!i just don’t know what to do…please help
I’d just like to say i am a good mom i do everything i can for my child she has never gone without and she never will!

i come from a very grounded family and faith in God, i just happen to be struggling right now.struggling does not make me a bad parent, for you who have had negative things to say!and for the rest thank you!




The judge ordered the life insurance to me and my brothers in my parents divorce but my dad at some point changed the benifciery to my aunt who has taken everything in my dads passing and I mean everything we didnt get 1 thing of our dads is there anything I can do is she aloud to take everything? I have the divorce papers and death certificate i had to pay for Please looking for some help on this issue thanks




My mother has been acting like a child with my dad and new stepmom. It’s like she’s back in highschool. Anyways i called her on it. she flipped out about how she’s my mother and can’t tell her what to do( i’m 22) then she decided to tell me that it was my brothers, sister and my fault for my parents divorce ( she had an online affair and she was the one who filed for the divorce 2 years ago). now i’m just curious. Would you ever blame/tell you children, no matter how old they were, that they were the reason for your divorce?




Divorce with children?

If one party has already been granted sole custody of the children due to the other parent being named unfit, does a contested divorce still need to be filed to state the custody information of the children? Or does the custody decision superceed the divorce and an uncontested divorce can be filed. Also, in Georgia, the divorce laws state that the parents must attend a parenting class before the divorce is granted. If one of the parents has been awared sole custody of the children for 6 years now, does that parent still have to attend the parenting seminar.




Has marriage counseling worked for you?

So, my parents are in the beginnings of splitting up. My father is moving out of the house (into my spare room). I’ve agreed to this as long as both of them go to see a therapist for couples counseling. He’s really pessimistic about the counseling, but my mother and I are optimistic that it will at least help them communicate better, seeing as how they have 3 children together, 2 they are still raising. So my question is: Have you tried counseling? Has it worked? Or has it failed? What was the most helpful part?
Boundary issues or not, the question still stands. Your answer was not an answer sir.




Feelings have returned for husband?

I’m not sure what to do, I cant stop crying, feel like the separation was the worst mistake I’ve ever made.

Got married in 2005 all was fine, we had our ups and downs then we were pressured by his family to buying a house, I was ok with it as it meant moving forward but things changed. We saw less of each other, after a long commute we’d argue a lot, sex was non existant and I felt more isolated.

Coz I’m from another country he insisted to get my parents over to stay with us, it worked wonders we became a lot closer, things were going well after a year of worry (my side) then I was told by a stranger he cheated on me. I confronted him – it was true.

Naturally I freaked out, tried living together but argued and fought daily, constantly in tears, then I suggested a trial separation for 6 months to find ourselves. We were still in contact, but never really saw each other. Every time we talk we fight. I met someone – yes I know, and things are ok.

My ex then started dumping all debts & mortgage on me, I had no other option but to get my boyfriend to move in to help me out. I sought legal help and am now taking him to court for maintenance. I’m not coping financially and even now I still love him deeply. I cant lose my ex, it’ll be the first time seeing each other – in court. What can I say or do when court is over to make things right, even to try being friends? I love him sooooo much and it kills me to be apart. I hate my life now and everything in it. He was the one I married, how to get my marriage back? I tried asking him back but he’s still angry. I haven’t heard from him since 5 December.




Marriage separation advice……….?

My husband and i been married for 3 years the last 2 years of my marriage life is hell on earth …
he’s not willing to compromise for anything .

our problems and fights mainly consists on life basics needs he never gives me any money to buy clothes for the kids emotionally abusive and very controlling .

i had put up with him only for the sake of our 2 kids .

ive tried everything with him talking nothing seems to work
we live in one bedroom apartment (me /him and my 2 kids sleep in the same room )he has been promising to move to a bigger apartment for the last year now

i have endured his imaginary promises but i can not take the emotional abuse anymore
he owns a real estate company and he can still find a decent apartment for the same price yet he does nothing
i’m not allowed to work or do anything i live in different country
every time we have a fight he tells me to pack my bag and get the FCUK out of the house still i hang around for the sake of my kids

nevertheless i can live much better with my parents back home

the last incident when we had a fight and he threat me with divorce and call my parents he told them that he will send me back home

after all of his manipulative emotional abuse than he acts like nothing happened
the last 2 days he raised his hand trying to knock me out in my face he didn’t touch me but he wanted to i guess the only reason because he knows that i can call the police

this is the first time i told him i’m done with his emotional abuse he doesn’t respect me at all adding stingy bot good in bed and the list goes on

i can not continue with him or even for the kids i will take the kids now and leave
he tells me that im a bad woman because i didn’t standby his side when he is in crisis not like he gave a sincere apology

he never apologized for anything he buys him self a 1000 dollars shoes and drives a 2010 car i know he is not in crisis as he pretends however he wants his 6 month old baby to wear the same clothes since newborn it’s killing me to see my babies living less than they deserve

finally i came with a solution with him that i cant take it anymore and i’m leaving just like he says to pack my shit and fuck off

because ei know deep inside that nothing well going to change i can live with a poor person if he is good to me but there is nothing positive about him
social life zero love life zero
i need advice if i’m taking the good decision or should i wait more and give him a chance after 100 chance or am i just wasting my time
and just today he told me that he will not move to a bigger apartment just because he doesn’t want to .

i strongly believe that marriage is for good and for worse
im just want to give him a lesson that he i will not allow him to terat me in this manner he says if i leave he will not have us bacj anymore still i want to leave nothing will change
any expeience or advice would be helpfull thank you in advance




Sims 3 help about divorce and children?

My 2 sims have split up and are about to live in different houses. They have 2 children and I would like to know if both of the children could live with both parents and swap parent every week or something so that all the sims get to see each other regularly.