hi, i need alot of advice.
my girlfriend is coming home on leave in a couple of months and we want to get married. Her unit is already planning on deploying and we dont know for sure when she is leaving but we want to get married before she leaves. We know it will be soon so I know that after we get married i cant move up to her duty station with her. The only problem is she lives in the barracks and if we get married she needs to move offpost. shes trying to find an apartment currently so she can get a roommate and still try to help me with bills on our old apt down here in new mexico. Will she get bah & bas after we get married? we are in our early 20′s and dont know much about marriage so any and everything would really help us out. she is an e-3 and has about a year of training under her belt so i know she doesnt make much. financially im a little worried. but i love her and im trying to do anything in means to make her the happiest woman in the world. would i have to go up to her duty station after we get married to get me enrolled in deers ? to turn in the marriage certificate? her sgt told her to get some papers for me to sign before we get married saying i wont leave and and take off with her money while shes deployed. i will sign those no matter what jsut so she knows i wont leave with anything of hers. hes just tryin to be cautious and look out for her because his first marriage failed when he got deployed. can you help me figure out what papers we need to have or should have? some advice on marriage. i understand it will be difficult because she will be in a whole other country but im more than willing to stick by her side! please help outt ASAP

I got married in New Mexico and now live in Pennsylvania. If I want to get a divorce do I need to follow the divorce laws in New Mexico or Pennsylvania?

So my boyfriend is going through a divorce. He was married two years ago while he was in jail, within the first 2 months of his marriage his current wife committed adultry and conceived a child who was born within the first year of there marriage. He was un aware of her pregnancy until she gave birth to the child. The only reason he stayed married was because he was in jail for those two years and they are now going through a divorce and am wondering if there could be anyway he wouldn’t have to pay alimony?
I live in New Mexico
Also she has been living with her boyfriend for the past year.

okay my gf is 16 and prego and im almost 18 do we need parent consent to be married or does the pregnancy void the consent thing we live in new mexico

My grandmother was married over 25 years, had signed a pre-nup (haven’t seen it so don’t know if it is legit), lived in New Mexico. Grandfather’s family member obtained a power of attorney for grandfather, took all funds from their accounts. My grandfather has now passed away.

My "husband" filed legal separation, his lawyer sent them through the normal mail, not certified. He knows exactly where I live and has my address and send me a 0 check every month. Is this a legal way to serve me. He is in New Mexico and I moved to Washington State he has several family members who live up here if that matters. He is in the military and I have heard the military doesn’t recognize legal separations? Is this true? Thank you for your help.