Does anyone know any good family counseling, for married couples to be specific, here in the Philippines? I’d love it more if you can suggest something that’s free (the one’s that run on donations, `cause we’re really on the edge of budget) Thanks in advance people!

My fiance and I are getting married sept. 7th while I am on leave after completing AIT. He just finished AIT and is now stationed at Ft. Carson, Colorado while my orders are sending me to Bragg. I read somewhere that we wouldn’t get our orders changed to be with him (or vice versa) for at least a year. Is this true?
Can someone please explain the whole army-active duty married couples thing? I know there’s no guarantee that we will be stationed together. That’s all I know really.

In past couples of years, we have experienced married couples easily cheating on their spouses though they appear to lead a happy and properous lives. Some of them are even regular church goers. Please offer help.

Just trying to find out from married couples who have had premarital counseling if they feel like it really helped them in their marriage

My fiance and I are getting married sept. 7th while I am on leave after completing AIT. He just finished AIT and is now stationed at Ft. Carson, Colorado while my orders are sending me to Bragg. I read somewhere that we wouldn’t get our orders changed to be with him (or vice versa) for at least a year. Is this true?
Can someone please explain the whole army-active duty married couples thing? I know there’s no guarantee that we will be stationed together. That’s all I know really.

I understand that a nuptial protects each others assets; but why marry then if both people want to protect themselves from the other, just in case of a divorce?

Personally, if I want a prenup and so does the other, then it obviously means we both know something WILL go wrong. So why marry?

Most married couples do have prenups. What does that tell you about the mindset of these marriages out there?

It’s so contradicting to take a Vow for Life, yet sign a prenup!

SO MANY PUBLIC FIGURES DO IT. WHAT KIND OF EXAMPLE ARE THEY SHOWING TO THE PUBLIC?
I’m going to have a prenup, no matter how in love I am! My parents divorced, but when they first took those vows; they were MAAADLY in love. Really would not like to say, why they divorced.
hotdogse: I hope your not staying with her because your afraid of losing a lot of assets. It’s only been 3 years, and you will lose something, but If you wait longer, she could get even more than you imagined.
Yes, I do agree the prenup overshadows the vows of I Do, "for richer for poorer till death do you part".
This prenup, I conclude is like having a 3rd party in the marriage. "The medium, between the two". IT is always there to protect yourselves from the one you vow to love for ever, and prepares you for just in case it’s not forever?!
I agree to them for both parties, and it just leaves me with a big headache.

If the "richer for poorer " is taken out of the vows, it would make it quite clearer where both parties stand.

But this still leaves some room for contradiction, to the whole idea of the moral standards in one’s marriage today, that have prenups.

Bottomline, you got married to your prenup first, before you made the vows to the one you want to love forever. There’s still a reason for debating this. Talk to your lawyer first, before you talk to the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?!

This sais alot about the institution of marriage.

michelle

How many ways can 4 married couples be seated at a round dinner table if no one is seated next
to their spouse?

I know of a few married couples who have it. They have their main bedroom where they sleep together but also have their own "personal room" in addition.

They say it’s for when they "want to be alone", listen to music / watch tv without disturbing the other, and having their own space.

Do you think this is a great idea?

I know ‘fireproof is a good one, but we recently watch it as a congregation.
I am starting a marriage ministry at the church to meet monthly at first.
The first night is simply going to be a night of fun and fellowship with little ministering.
I would like to provide dinner and then a movie for all that attend.

I am searching for a movie that is enjoyable, sends a good message to married couples, and
at the same time is appropriate to show in church.
Any suggesstions???????

I need ideas of boring things that married couples do. Like sit home and watch TV together.