To anyone who are older and married, what age did you get married? How long have you been married? And what are the best tips to making a marriage work, especially when you’re young?

My husband told me that he is attracted by other womens and have a hard time to show me love. I feel like i needed separation from him before thigs get bad. I don’t even want to try, to work things out with him. I am just desapointed,,,Is it worth trying to make this marriage work?

My wife and I have been seperated since august. We got married with only 8 months of dating and I know that was fast. Our marriage has really seen its troubles. I am 28 and she is 27 we both been married before and we both have children. I found that she was talking to another man, a man who I knew since childhood, but I cant say I was perfect, I did my share of envolving other women in our marriage in which I got caught red handed atleast with 4 other women. I blame it on my job, policeman, and the fact I was still young and could not resist the attention from other women. But now that I am pushing thirty I feel a chang has coming over me where I am not intrested in otherwomen but making my marriage work. But we been seperated now for almost 7 months. We date and do things together on occasion and she stays some nights with me, but does it appear there is any hope with this or is it time to let it go? I admitt my faults but I just need some advice PLEASE………………………….

What did you do right? What did you do wrong? Anything you regret doing about marriage? Does marriage work in today’s society?

I know i wouldnt cause if he/she couldnt make their own marriage work then their the wrong person to seek advice from..And yea i know what everybody is gonna say that they have experience and you can learn from their mistakes but i still wouldnt..
Ok yea "would"