To successively maintaining a long distance
love vested inter-net relationship

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or story of successful couples who meet online
and the present status of that relationship
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Does it help…??? Me and my guy are having such a hard time and struggling a ton with his lying and my bringing up the past. Its been like this for months and were going to fall apart if we don’t fix this so if we got help from someone would it help any? The problem is were long distance at the moment and have been for the past 2 years so is it possible he could get help for his lying if he’s willing to get help or should i wait till jan so me and him can go together (I really want to but that’s far away and I believe we’ll fall apart if it ain’t fixed soon). Or should I take another chance without help for either just him or both of us?

and has anyone been in counseling and it helped and I mean alone or with someone your with? Do you recommend we do this…together or by ourselves since it ain’t possible until jan to do counseling together.

Does it help…??? Me and my guy are having such a hard time and struggling a ton with his lying and my bringing up the past. Its been like this for months and were going to fall apart if we don’t fix this so if we got help from someone would it help any? The problem is were long distance at the moment and have been for the past 2 years so is it possible he could get help for his lying if he’s willing to get help or should i wait till jan so me and him can go together (I really want to but that’s far away and I believe we’ll fall apart if it ain’t fixed soon). Or should I take another chance without help for either just him or both of us?

and has anyone been in counseling and it helped and I mean alone or with someone your with? Do you recommend we do this…together or by ourselves since it ain’t possible until jan to do counseling together.

I recently moved in with my girlfriend and things are wonderful. We love and respect each other very much. Prior to moving in, we spent one year doing long-distance. Therefore, our relationship has lacked a certain sense of intimacy and trust.

How can I build up this intimacy so we can start sharing the sides of ourselves that we hide?

My fiancee and I am are looking at getting married February because of several facts and we love each other so much. But my family thinks I am WAY too young and her and I would not financially succeed. Here are the facts:
I am going to college on a full ride Army ROTC scholarship and I am a sophomore with a 3.8 GPA.

My fiancee lives in NV and I in MO.

We are both LDS and sex before marriage and living together is out of the question.

The long distance is hurting our relationship because human touch cannot be replaced.

We got engaged in July.

I’m 20 and will be 21 in May.

She is 19 and will be 20 in August.

We plan on getting an apartment and her working full time while I go to school with the Army and maybe get a part time job.

We have saved ,000 for her moving here and starting out.

We have not yet announced our wedding date since money and long distance stuff.

My family does not support the marriage because of "being too young and not financially ready" since they think we will fail.

Her family is not too hot about it but they are supportive. All of her family married around 18.

The Army is going to give me ,000 next November in 2009.

I do know she is the one for me and I want to take her to the temple. We have the same values, have been through our fights and near break ups but we love each other more afterwards. She has completed a year of college. I want the best for us but since she lives 1,300 miles away the long distance kills (we have always been long distance). We are planning on her moving down in January and getting married two weeks later. We plan on announcing it to our families in three weeks. I just want some input because I hate getting into it with my parents thinking I am making the worst mistake of my life but I honestly think we can make it, and once I am a Army officer we will be okay. I am already in my career field and I do have good time management, and discipline, because if I didn’t the Army would not be giving me a full ride to college and a officer commission in 2011.

I would like some advice and comments.

This winter break we are spending 4 weeks together and when we see each other we spend atleast 3 weeks together.

My fiancee and I am are looking at getting married February because of several facts and we love each other so much. But my family thinks I am WAY too young and her and I would not financially succeed. Here are the facts:
I am going to college on a full ride Army ROTC scholarship and I am a sophomore with a 3.8 GPA.

My fiancee lives in NV and I in MO.

We are both LDS and sex before marriage and living together is out of the question.

The long distance is hurting our relationship because human touch cannot be replaced.

We got engaged in July.

I’m 20 and will be 21 in May.

She is 19 and will be 20 in August.

We plan on getting an apartment and her working full time while I go to school with the Army and maybe get a part time job.

We have saved ,000 for her moving here and starting out.

We have not yet announced our wedding date since money and long distance stuff.

My family does not support the marriage because of "being too young and not financially ready" since they think we will fail.

Her family is not too hot about it but they are supportive. All of her family married around 18.

The Army is going to give me ,000 next November in 2009.

I do know she is the one for me and I want to take her to the temple. We have the same values, have been through our fights and near break ups but we love each other more afterwards. She has completed a year of college. I want the best for us but since she lives 1,300 miles away the long distance kills (we have always been long distance). We are planning on her moving down in January and getting married two weeks later. We plan on announcing it to our families in three weeks. I just want some input because I hate getting into it with my parents thinking I am making the worst mistake of my life but I honestly think we can make it, and once I am a Army officer we will be okay. I am already in my career field and I do have good time management, and discipline, because if I didn’t the Army would not be giving me a full ride to college and a officer commission in 2011.

I would like some advice and comments.

I will see him again next month and I am really happy to see him but I am not happy with my relationship.. I want to break up with him in person but I kinda want to drop a few hints in our text message conversations so that when I do break up with him it won’t be a big surprise.. I really do like him but I can’t continue to do the long distance thing.. So what are some hints I can drop until he comes and I can talk to him face to face?

I never thought I’d be asking Y!A, but I just need some advice

We are 24. We dated for 3 years, 2 of the years were long distance. We were absolutely in love, but things started to go wrong due to huge life changes in his life. We broke up about 3 months ago. Went through a phase of thinking it was a break, then a breakup (no talking, not nothing) and now we are trying the friend bit.

He knows I still want a relationship. He keeps saying he does not, he doesn’t have time (new job and school). We regretfully hooked up last weekend when he was visiting the town where I live (still long distance)

His reasoning for it is that he doesn’t want anything. He claims he is too busy. He tells me he still loves and that he still cares. What does this mean? What do I do? I just don’t know anymore
I know there is no different girlfriend. I just don’t know. We both agreed not to see other people for one more month. I’m having a hard time figuring out what is going on and what I should do. I’m not sure if I’m ready to give up, but I also know most answers will tell me this
Also, would it change anything that he will be moving 30mins away from me in 4 months?

To all parents out there: If your daughter/son is in a long distance love relationship what would you advice your daughter/son on how to make his/her fiance/fiancee feel love? even if they are miles and miles apart. Please give examples, if you could.