(Married 21 years, no kids, I’m disabled. Divorced in Alaska)
I just received my divorce decree & the Judges ruling. It is SO obvious that this Judge is so in the wrong! I swear he was paid off or something. My ex is a contractor & has on more then 1 occasion worked out deals with lawyers & a judge in Montana to take care of his legal problems, like he did some building on the Judges house in exchange for him excusing all of my ex’s traffic violations. I have no doubt he’s capable of doing this again.
What happened at the trial was unbelievable enough (ie. when my ex was exposed for ILLEGALLY selling our house in 8/09 & took & spent 0,000 from it, never accounting for most of it, he did it without my consent & against court orders, to which another judge was considering holding him in contempt of court for, but this judge didn’t care, he got irate with me saying I was "wasting the courts time by even bringing it up" & that my ex "just made a mistake & it didn’t matter anymore…") When I tell anyone any of what happened, they think like I do, this Judge is not just unfair & bizarre, he’s outright WRONG!
The rulings however, is so outrageously unfair, I was SO SCREWED, I can’t begin to list the absolute insane rulings by this judge, who was 100% in my ex’s favor & 100% against me. I believe its at least in part because my ex could afford his lying lawyer & I couldn’t find a lawyer who would help me since I had NO $, so I had to do all the research myself. Trust me, I did NOT want to represent myself, but I had no choice, so I used whatever means I could, still having to spend 00 in legal & research fees (that I had to borrow because I have NOTHING since my ex financially abandoned me 16 months ago, before I even left him! Which BTW, I left him because of his abuse & neglect, I’m also disabled & often bedridden for months at a time, which I also proved in court that my ex contributed to my illness & harmed me physically, even poisoning me. All of it, according to the judge, "doesn’t matter.")
I filed EVERYTHING correctly & even presented my case exactly as I was supposed too, my ex AND his shyster lawyer both admitted at the trial that their records were incorrect about several things, admitted that my ex DID sell the house illegally. I proved this & so much more, I proved everything!!!
6 hours worth of a crazy trial, I was married for 21 years, I’m sick, my ex is an abusive lying mentally unstable barbaric dishonest JERK & I proved it all in court!!! & I still got screwed royally! I just can’t believe it.
I didn’t ask for tons of money, I just needed help with medical bills & some security, something??? After 21 years, I’m sick & he’s an admitted lier, he is in possession of hundreds of thousands of dollars (in $ & in marital property & assets,) ALL of which was proven in court, I’m in possession of a broken down 12 year old car & my laptop & 2 barstools, & I begged the courts for help, for 10 months I begged them, & I got NOTHING!!!!! Not even help to pay for medicine. I just don’t believe this!!!
So…. what can I do? How do you fight a judge?
Can you appeal a divorce case?
Can I have the judge investigated some how? Someone told me I can file a complaint, but then what? What happens after a complaint is filed? Does anyone care about complaints filed like that?
Someone else suggested I contact the newspapers in Alaska about this Judge, what do you think?
I got the court transcripts just sent to me too, BUT they’re just summarized, all of it, there isn’t ONE complete sentence in the entire thing, & some of it is even missing??? They’re not even full transcripts!
Everything is so blatantly obvious to me that something fishy is going on & I don’t know what I can do about it. Is there anything I CAN do? Anything at all? (Please don’t tell me answers like "Get a lawyer." I need real answers, this is my life, my whole life, this isn’t petty! I need some advice!
Help me, please, someone?
Cliff: Don’t talk about what you don’t know! & trust me, you DON’T have a clue what you’re talking about!