me and my soon to be ex wife have were married for 5 years. We never had any children, and we have been seperated for 3 years. I never filed for divorce because fiancially it was easier to just stay "married" but not be together. Now I am set to deploy.. I am in the corps, and I want to marry my fiancee before I set out, because I do not trust my soon to be ex wife. The last time I deployed she ran up 20,000 dollars worth of debt. I need to be divorced by march 10th. Which is under 2 months away. The divorce will be uncontested, we have already divided property, and like I said no kids. Just need a divorce.. can someone lend advice?

Okay I’m going to re-phrase this question and add in more details I left out
In my understanding when a mother walks out on her children, she gives up that right. I’m just wondering if that is a legitimate law. My parents are in a messy divorce right now which is giving me a lot of stress and my dad asked my mom nicely if she would give enough notice ( a month). Because my sister is handicapped so she has health care providers that come in and they already made up the schedule for the month. My mom only calls if its necessary for her. Shes trying to make it look like my dad isn’t allowing her to come over or take us for a weekend. My mom left the house last year and has only come over for like a few visits lasting 5-10 minutes & last time my mom asked a few days in advance, my dad told her no, unless we had more notice and she threatened for things to happen..the reason I don’t want me or my sister to go over there is because my Mother was physically abusive to my sister and threatened me everytime I got in her way. I was 8 when this was going on, I was scared and didn’t speak up until recently. My mother is twice my size, I am honestly afraid of her and the fact that I don’t trust her should be reason enough not to allow her to go, I hold the memories of hearing my sister cry because my mom was abusive and there was nothing I could do at the time..I ended up in counselling from stress and I don’t think my mom deserves any right to us anymore. She lost that right the day she walked claiming she was afraid for her life when shes the one that endangered ours. She sat and packed her bags for almost an hour then called her friend to pick her up. My dad didn’t do anything, he told her to stay because there is another lawsuit that is unreleveant to this question. Shes an alcoholic, abusive, and used to be afraid to get in the same room as her incase she ever went for me, I’m small so I can’t defend myself. I told my dad about this as soon as he found out that my mom was cheating. I’m speaking up in court I wish I did a long time ago but I couldn’t. I had oppertunities, but my mom was always in the room. I belleve the law in canada states that when a parent abandons their child and abuses them, they no longer have thier right, Is that true? And with that being said, Doesn’t my dad have a right to protect me & My sister from her by telling her no she can’t take my sister for a weekend, until this is fully settled in court. She knows I won’t go to her house anymore, I’ve made it clear I want to be left alone. Everytime she comes over its for 10-15 minutes, she walks around the house, calles me and my sister "Hello Puppy" and leaves. My dad doesn’t stay in the same room as my mom; he sits down the hall and listens. I’m afraid that with my moms past and current state of desperation she could attack my sister and blame it on my dad, I can’t go with her because just hearing my moms voice or seeing my moms face brings the memories of the screaming and yelling back, it makes me upset and I can’t be around her anymore. All of this is being stated in court as well. Now my real question is: Did she not give up her right ? If it helps to know what area we are in, its canada

I have a friend who is trying to find out how much it will cost to file for divorce and fill out the paperwork on his own, no attorney involved. The last time the question was answered, was 2007, and the price was 3 for Florida. Its now 2011 and this is Hillsborough County. Does anyone know the answer?

The last time we chose a moderate candidate (John McCain) we lost big time. And last time I checked Ronald Reagan was about as conservative of a President that we ever had and he won landslide victories in 1980 and 1984.

So thanks, but no thanks for the advice.

Hi im 23 m my gf is 23 also. Her parents divorced 2 years ago and it still affects her greatly to this day. We started to date 6 months ago and from day one she has not been very affectionate at all, no hug or kiss whenever we see eachother (which is only once a week). I find this very odd but she tells me that shes not ready to give me 100%. Her mom is starting to seriously date some guy and she says it affects her greatly and makes her extremely sad. Her dad is also a mess he has nothing together and lives with his sister. Could all of this be preventing my gf from getting emotionally attached to me? She shows no affection at all and it really bother me that I cant get much of a hug, let alone a kiss. Last time we kissed was on valentines day, that kinda bothers me. Im trying to understand what she is going through and im hoping that she can pull through it and accept me. I also went through a parent divorce and I can relate to her and she knows this. What is something I can do to help this situation?

ok im a give it al to ya my fiancee got married when she was 15 and the marriage didnt last two weeks they have been apart for ten years, hes in prision and the last time she tried to get him to sign the divorce papers he wouldnt . hes doing twenty years day for day , is there any way i can get a cheap divorce any legitimate advice would be appreciated ?

We live in FL and my daughter in law has been having an affair with another man. She has been leaving them with her mother every night to go be with this man. My son works off shore and while he was out this last time, she took his checking account and wrote checks all over town and over drew his checking acct. She did not have the authority to write checks on the account and she signed his name at the bottom of the checks with her handwriting. What can be done.

Im not sure what reason allow you to file for an uncontested divorce are or not, but here’s my story. My husband and I got married two months ago. We argue about stupid things, this last time he moved out, changed his number and that was a week ago. Since, he’s been verbally and emotionally abusive and is signed up on all of these singles dating websites. Are these grounds for an uncontested divorce or would I be better off trying to get it anulled?

Me and my husband used to fight allot! The first time I left him was because he got really nasty when we used to fight. I realized how much I loved him and asked him for another chance… eventually after long hours of tears we were back together again. It went great the first month, then we started fighting again. We knew we should have gone to a marriage counselor, but we never did! After I asked him the one night if he want me and his kid or his alcohol he said his alcohol. I know he just said it because he was mad at me, but I was so stubborn and I left him again. It’s been 6months now and I still love him with all my heart, and I know it could work if we just get some counseling. But i’m afraid he’ll ask me why I left him and why I suddenly love him again… I don’t want to give him wrong answers or screw this up. Please help me, I love him.
He isn’t an alcoholic… Every weekend he would buy alcohol, and the last time he did it with our last money.
But he doesn’t need the alcohol every day or minute….So it doesn’t make him an alcoholic does it?

My wife and I when we were dating couldn’t seem to go more than a day or two being around each other with out wanting to have sex. We were creative and had fun with it. Now we have been married for almost 7 years and for the past 4-5 of that time we go weeks and sometimes months without having sex or being intimate. I feel like my wife does not want to be with me anymore because when we do get intimate I always have to initiate it…I can not remember the last time she came to me and wanted to be with me sexually. What should or can I do to help the situation?
Some good advice so far but just to help everyone to help me I am a good husband I do what I am asked to do I am very loving and treat my wife like gold…also, I have spoken to her about this and let her know how I feel about it a couple times and things get better for a week or so then it is back to the same old thing. I do not feel I should have to start things up all the time. It makes me feel like I am not wanted or that it is more of a chore than a want.