she has no job and no money he might try to kick her out of the house and sell it. can he kick her out after she signs the papers? or cant she live ther till the house sells. she has no money for a divorce lowyer.

I have seen a lot of support groups (online and off) for non-custodial parents who feel they are getting ripped off by the system. Is anyone aware of support groups for custodial parents who are trying their best, but not collecting any support from the non-custodial parent to help take care of their child. I am referring to a middle-class hard working divorced custodial parent and an irresponsible, spiteful, lazy non-custodial parent who has blatantly refused to pay, but there seem to be NO CONSEQUENCES for his actions. I know that in the end he will lose, but that isn’t helping to pay for food, clothes and childcare. My thought is that I should not try to "reinvent the wheel" if someone else has figured out a good way to get the system to help them. Besides, I always thought that more could be accomplished when you have more people putting their heads together.

Thanks!
I have been working closely with the child support agency – they said that they are back-logged almost one year on reviewing criminal child support cases. He falls into that category. The only other option is to hire an attorney out of state & take him into court with no guarantee that the judge will take a hard position with him. I am trying to find a way to get what the court has ordered by working within the system – impossible to lay out a lot of money that you already don’t have with no guarantee you’ll get it back. An attorney has been involved. The support group approach is more to find out how other people may have succeeded. It’s sort of a last ditch effort…
Driver’s license suspension – no big deal to him. This has happened more times than I can count. He makes one payment, gets the license back and quits his job. If he spent as much time and effort working as he does ditching child support, he’d be very comfortable financially.

Today I decided to look for psychological help, I didn’t before because I didn’t know where or how to obtain help. I was doing some research online and found this great website that you have. I was wondering if you can please help me or guide me as to where I need to go or who can help me and my partner. We have been in a relationship for almost 5 years. We were so young when we started, he was only 15 and I was 16 years old, we moved in together after 2 years. I have been through a lot in life, when I was small i saw many things that a child wasn’t supposed to see. I saw my father cheating on my mom for many years, but worse of all with my mothers sister, I would see them having sexual intercourse with each other wield I slept in the same bed with my other brother when I was 9 years old. Throughout the years, my father was a drug addict ever since I can remember he worsen when I was a teenager. His reactions and actions would scar me emotionally, but I just never let that anger out of me. I would kick him out of my house because my mother and brothers would see the effects the drugs would cause him to do. When I had just turned 17 my mother was dating a guy my age that really affected me emotionally because of what people would say since my mom, dad and her boyfriend would work together. A few moths after she left with a different guy and made me suffer a lot emotionally because she took my brothers, and left me with my dad. My dad had worsened, and I wasn’t able to help him. That’s when I moved out with my boyfriend he was just turning 18. Our relationship was the best ever, but after I got to know him I found that he had anger problems that would cause him to show his anger by hitting me. I found comfort in a guy at school when I was a senior; it made it difficult because I had no place to go or a job. I wanted the relationship to stop because I had never thought I would have been one of those girls that would be in a abusive relationship. We ended up staying together as a couple until now, both have mature in different ways. He asked me for help as well, abusive relationship runs in his family circle his grandpa, his dad and himself. He wants help and I do to, I believe we want to make things work and not give up on one another, he’s scared in having kids or getting married because he feels that his kids will suffer like both have suffer as we were growing up. He tells me he’s traumatize because he would see his father kit his mom and because his mom cheated on his dad with his brother. He wants to form a family in the future but needs help in overcoming the fear that his family will not suffer if he gets help first. We both need to become better persons, we some counseling in our relationship, anger problem, depression, and fear. I think finding help was our first step. Do you think you can find any help for us? Please let me know.

Spanish counseling is available English will be ok
Weboth have lived difficult lives with our parents. His dad was an alcoholic and use to hit mom, they would fight a lot as well through out the years he never saw anything like it until one day she got out of work at 2 am since she was on the night shift and when they were coming in we saw his mom crying she had her face all beat up badly as well as her body she had a panic attack after that and he called the police and his dad left. Few months after she left to San Francisco with his 2 brothers and he stayed with his dad because he knew his dad was going to be depress. His mom then had an affair with his brother and that really affected my partner as well. Few months after his parents got together and they just had a baby boy. They seem happy for 1 yr but they started having economical problems and they fight a lot.

i have a great job and a big bank account and i don’t like being with women that like my money

so i want to be with this lady and i asked her if she would sign a prenup! she said no so i got and told her to get in the car i was taking her home! we were at dinner!

Alight guys I need to give you guys a little bit of background for you to understand the situation, but i really need some serious advice on how to deal with this.

So 3 years ago I started dating a guy I had been friends with for a little bit. after about 3 months or so of dating my mom kicked me out at 17, him and his family took me in and let me stay there. soon after that I became pregent with our daughter. we had our problems as most couples do and now 3 years later we broke up. 3 months ago he lost his job and we had to move out of our apartment and I blamed him for that because it felt like he wasn’t trying as hard as he could to provide for his family. I feel like I took out all my stress out on him. and now he’s broken up with me and says that he doesn’t even enjoy spending time with me anymore. Its only been 2 days since the breakup, and those two days a mutual friend of ours was over, we were tying to stay in the same house and I felt like my friend (who happens to be a girl) was spending alot of time and it was making me really uncomfortable. I feel like because of that I couldn’t give him the space I think he needed and now I;m scared the damage is too much. I don’t want to see my family not be together. he says he still loves me and I believe that, i still love him dearly and all i can do right now is try to give him space( the girl has left and I have removed myself and my daughter from the house) he was asking for hoping that maybe he’ll come around after some time to blow off steam. but he tells me the rs’s no hope for us. I cant tell if hes just saying that because the whole situation has upset him or ithat’sts really the truth. Itextremelyly hard for me tbelieveve someone can give up on something that admit to loving and a family. I’m just not sure how to handle the situation.

please guys i’m all ready down I don’t need anyone being rude. I know I need to move ountilll he’s ready to work on things and in time I think I will accept if he doesn’t
we moved in with a mutal friend and had been there there almost a month before this, this girl along with a few other people happened to be there when it happened. the plan was for her to stay for the weekend when she came and to hang out with all of us. however after the breakup she didnt leave his side i tried to explain him that it was just making me feel worse and I was haing a hard time dealing with it beacause of it but it just made it worse beacuse trust, and me giving him soace were basicly why we broke up.

My husband has a habit of finding the prettiest girl he works with and becoming "close friends" with her. This has happend 2x and both have been behind my back. The latest was the worste. It was with a woman we have fought over before. When he started working with her she would flirt with him constantly. He came home with stories of how she would wear his sweatshirts and make sexual comments. It upset me that he wouldn’t tell her off. She invited my husband and I to a bar where she proceded to get tipsy. She told me how much she appreciated my husband and that I should really work on my flaws as a wife(which she specifically listed off). My husband appologised and even offerred to get another job. But why? I don’t trust him any more. We normally have such a great marriage. It seemed like we were best friends. Of course right now I feel very far from him. Ive even considered getting a "close friend" of my own but I know its wrong and I dont think I could bring my self to do it. Advice?

Have been married for almost 9 years (have two children). He cheated on me for the first time while away with army during the time around our first anniversary..tried to work thru it and then cheated on me again after 4 yrs of marriage. He even left me for her only came back when I got a job (before this was a stay at home mom) and started having lunch with co-workers. Well last year I made a HUGE mistake and cheated on him. I have begged for forgiveness and said I am so very sorry. But, every day since I am belittled and treated like dirt. I cant go to the store without him or he accuses me of cheating. I am tired of being called a slut or whore, etc. But I don’t want our marriage to end because there was a time when we were happy. Any ideas how to deal with a jealous and controlling husband?
I need to admit I was super selfish and wrong for what I did. I just want forgiveness and to "start over".

I live in Illinois, and want to get a divorce due to several reasons. We have a house together, and i am worried that it will make the process even harder. Above that, he told me that he won’t sign any papers! I don’t know if i can get an attorney because i only have 0 in my account, and no job (because he didn’t let me work!!) Does anyone have any suggestions as to what i should do in this situation?

The US Census Reports and US National Divorce Statistics at present show that the religious group with the highest divorce rate are Christians in particular the evangelical and southern baptist sects. Their rate of divorce is even HIGHER than couples professiing no relgious affiliation or to be atheist. Even more surprising its the conservative RED state- Texas and not California, New York or even Nevada that is the LEADING divorce state in the USA.

Now the reason I ask this is because CHristians LOVE to proclaim their religious standards of family life the HIGHEST ones. How come the facts don’t support this? Secondly, is their problem that they’ve completely outlawed pre-marital sex for their followers resulting in their young people getting married TOO young in order to have sex? After all, waiting till you finish college, get a job, house and then getting married will mean being celibate till you are around 25-29. That’s a LONG time when your hormones are at its peak. Opinions?

I’ve tried a variety of dating sites online over the past few years (such as eharmony, yahoo, match, matchdoctor, and christian cafe). It seems like its all the same users on almost all of the sites and some I’ve tried contacting but don’t they respond. I am looking for a dating site that is legit and where the people are quality professionals. I do not want to waste my time trying to hook up with someone only to find out that they don’t have a job and live with their mother. If anyone knows of an internet site that fits the bill, please tell me about it! I look forward to checking it out. Thanks!