After marriage questions..HELP!?!!?

I know these questions might sound stupid but I need help….

I live in NY
I got married yesterday.
How do I go about changing my name on my Social Security Card, Birth Certificate and License?

I am also on Univeria Plus Medicaid….does that stop now that I’m married. My husband was in the Air Force, got a Honorable Discharge, and is now on unemployment. He doesn’t have health insurance. How do I keep my health insurance?

I am starting a new job today, so what name do I give them? I know they are going to ask for two forms of ID, but i don’t have any with my new last name…..

Don’t judge… I don’t anyone to ask these questions and I really need answers.

Thank you.
**I don’t have anyone***^




Question on Divorce and Auto Insurance?

Background:
My wife left me and is filing for divorce. She took her car which is a marital asset that both of us own. She has since left the state to move in with a friend and I cannot get a hold of her as she will not return my calls.

Update:
Our current auto coverage is set to expire on 10/17. I have taken out coverage on myself through a different company, set to start on the 17th. As of the 17th she will be uninsured unless she takes out her own policy. Is is my responsibility to make sure she is still insured on my policy? She won’t return my calls or the calls that my new agent has left for her so my hands are tied. I just want to make sure I’m not doing anything that may bite me later. I also don’t want to have to foot the bill for her portion of the insurance given that she doesn’t live with me anymore and doesn’t even live in the same state.

Anyone have any thoughts or has anyone been through a similar situation??




Insurance Law – beneficiary after divorce?

According to Colorado State Law – if a couple is married, and the wife is named beneficiary on a life insurance policy, and the couple divorces – but the policy is awarded to her in the divorce decree – does it still go to her if she has re-married upon his death – or does it default to his children? The policy was paid into for 30 yrs while they were married, and she is listed as the sole beneficiary. The insurance company is trying to fight it saying that the form that lists her as beneficiary lists her relationship to him as "spouse", which she is no longer. Thank you for your help




I have medical insurance, but I am looking for something cheaper. I am in grad school and can receive free counseling through school. I went in to discuss a possible appointment, but I found that I am not comfortable being so vulnerable in my school environment. Does anyone know how to get in touch with counselors-in-training who may offer cheaper services? Or any other ways to get cheap or free counseling?




Hi, I live in Central New Jersey. I am trying to find some resources for a friend who is currently suicidal. She does not have insurance. Are there state agencies or local agencies that can help her?? She does not have much money. She is not a student. How can I help my friend before I lose her? She needs COUNSELING and THERAPY ASAP. Please point me to some resources, I need to get help today. Thank you.




The judge ordered the life insurance to me and my brothers in my parents divorce but my dad at some point changed the benifciery to my aunt who has taken everything in my dads passing and I mean everything we didnt get 1 thing of our dads is there anything I can do is she aloud to take everything? I have the divorce papers and death certificate i had to pay for Please looking for some help on this issue thanks




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I’m mainly asking should men ask their women to sign prenups before getting married. Because divorce is rampant and women are divorce-happy.

I don’t see prenuptial agreement as a trust thing. It’s for insurance. Do you think prenuptial agreements should be encouraged for modern couples who want to get married?




Say insurance won’t pay or you don’t have insurance. Are there any places that offer free counseling services for depression in the Harrison, AR (72601) area?

I don’t live on an army base, or even close to one.




I am getting married to my fiance who is from a foreign country and comes from a poor family and education. Although I don’t think I will ever have to worry about it (I hope), I want to protect my assets in the event that things don’t work out between us.

Before, I go on with the question, I know that there are some who believe that you shouldn’t even get married if you have to consider a prenup, but to me it is just insurance because no one can predict what will happen several years down the road. It’s like questioning why we buy auto insurance. Might as well not buy a car if you’re not going to be careful with it right? Anyway, a divorce may not even be within an individual’s control, since it takes two to make the relationship work. So please just answer my question regarding the prenup and not your opinion regarding the need for a prenup in a healthy relationship… Thanks!

OK, FINALLY ON TO THE QUESTION:

I know that prenuptial agreements can protect an individual’s property which was obtained prior to marriage, but I was wondering whether prenuptial agreements can also specify how post marriage income and property will be separated. During our marriage, I expect that I will be bringing in 90+% if not all of the family income.

Also, in the event of a divorce, do the divorce proceedings depend on the state that I was married in or is it only the state where you are filing the divorce a factor? I know that you have to make the distinction between community property vs equitable distribution states. Will my prenuptial agreement carry the same level of validity whether I get married/divorced in one state or another?

Also I know that rules differ from state to state, and I would need to consult a lawyer, but I’m just hoping for some general answers here to get me started.