I want to get rid of him as i think i made one hell of a mistake, and i haven’t said a word to him since we left for the apt. Is divorce possible before 24hrs accrding to US law

My current ex and I dated for more than 5 years. Last year when I got pregnant things went to hell. We stopped talking, we stopped having fun, we stopped having sex. After giving birth we made a pact to try and be honest and faithful to each to other. I later found out that he has been keeping in contact with his ex in a sexual, i still wanna be with u manner. I also found that he has been chatting with lots of other women. Worse of all I found out that 3 months after gave birth he slept with someone else. Don’t get me wrong, I cheated on him 2 times 2 years ago. Nevertheless, he said he wanted to stay with me and try and work it out. I just want to know should I stay around, getting couples counseling, or should just move on.

is being sexually inappropriate ? asking personal questions ,fishing for details about your sexual preferences, dropping hints that you could pay his bill with sex and hugging and trying to kiss you good-bye ?
in the middle of the negotiations for the divorce agreement ?

and would such a lawyer have a reputation with other lawyers that justw alking into court with him makes you look like a whore ?
also calling your house up until 11:30 at night ,6 times in one night until you get home to schedule the after hrs ( because his schedule is full) discussion when no one else in in the office before starting that inappropriate behavior ?
how do I prove it ? could he sue me for liable or slander if I don’t have video or recording ?

also the kiss was on my cheek but it was passionate and trying to work it’s way down my neck so I got the hell out of there.

I adhere to mainline Christian beliefs, though a Messianic Jew.

One area I may differ in is the concept of Hell. I believe it is total, absolute separation from God for eternity. I don’t believe the fire and smoke scenario.

What’s your opinion?

Yet, still wants to play house. He got me to agree to refinance the house to lower our payment which was a success. Now, he wants to sell his truck and dump that payment and purchase an old car that will be paid for.

He tell me he is not pushing to work on us "YET" but, wants the debt paid and if he feels better when the debt is gone he will keep trying in the marriage. He always says he wants divorce yet throws me crumbs that give me hope that it won’t happen. I don’t get it? He says he loves, but not enough to be married. Yet he still has sex with me and I still take care of my duties around the house like its all normal. We have 3 kids and I am currently not working due too having an infant that is 7 months and day care is outrageous in cost. Plus, gas is high. Its cheaper if I am home. We are surving an affair that has been over for 14 months. Yet, he called his affair partner just to get back at me during a fight and said he did it on purpose to hurt me. WTF?!? Now he tells me if I wait for the debt to go away and he feels better about us then he would be happy, but if I don’t wait he is ok with that too. We’ve been through hell since I found out about the affair almost 2 years ago. I had a bed ridden pregnancy and she was 2 months premature and in the NICU for a month. He confessed his love for me on our front porch when she was coming home. I’ve still been working through the pain of infidelity and I am now at a place to give the marriage one more chance, but he says he is not in that place anymore and just wants our debt gone before he decides. He confuses the crap out of me. He wants us to join a gym together and he makes other future plans that he involves me in. But, he has filled out divorce papers himself and sits on it and wants me to fill out my side of it. I don’t want too. So is he cake eating or terribly confused??? He says we’ve done to much damage to each other over the years and that’s why he wants out. Yet, he cooks for me, talks to me kindly

I can’t believe it, but I’m seriously considering walking away from my marriage of 27 years. I love my husband dearly, but he has hurt me so bad and I just can’t quite get over the pain. We’ve been together since middle school. He’s (or at least was) my best friend. Our marriage was almost perfect except for the fact that we couldn’t have children. My husband was told by 3 specialists many years ago that the chances of him having a biological child were impossible. We tried everything under the sun including adoption, but nothing worked. Every opportunity smashed, every door slammed in our faces. 7 years ago, we had a heart to heart and agreed that we loved each other and that if we had to live our lives without children, it would be okay as long as we had each other. Its so weird looking back on that not knowing that even though we were suffering, it was some of the happiest times in our marriage. The hell started the April of ’09. I discovered I was pregnant. I can’t explain how happy I was. I wanted to have a baby so long and finally at 42 I was getting one. My husband was surprised but happy, or so I thought. I first noticed the distance after I had our daughter. He just wasn’t the sweet loving guy he normally was but I thought he was just trying to adjust to fatherhood. We started fighting and we pretty much never fight. He became very suspicious, looking through my phone, my mail, throwing all out fits when I went out. I couldn’t understand why it was happening. He’s always been a but jealous, but his behavior was getting out of control. I got pregnant again a couple months before our daughter’s 1st birthday. He left me after that and accused me of cheating. I mean, he left. Took all his things and filed for divorce. I felt so hurt and angry. He said he’d been suspecting me of cheating since I had first gotten pregnant. It all made since, his paranoia, the fighting, everything. I couldn’t believe after everything we’d been through he’s accuse me of cheating. I was so over all the crap he put me through and I told him if he wanted out, I wouldn’t stop him. We have 2 beautiful children. This was supposed to be the highlight of our marriage and he has f*cked it all up. We don’t live together, but he does come over to see the children. I’ve already proven that both the children are his and now he wants to come back. I’m so angry at him, more angry than I’ve ever been. Why couldn’t he trust me after 27 (really 31) years? He could have at least talked to me instead of keeping it bottled up for almost 2 years. I get it, he thought he couldn’t get me pregnant so when I got pregnant he thought I was cheating, but that doesn’t make me feel better.

What the hell do I do (besides grow a pair) when I want to break up with my girlfriend and she flips her **** and does nothing but cries and gets all obnoxious. Whats the easiest way of ignoring it and just ending things. It has been 2 years so my feelings are strong for her but its time to move on.

Because women marry for the house, car, kids, child support, alimony, pain and suffering, his pension, his social security, hell, if women married for love, divorce lawyers would be non existent.. Every men that feels the need to fall into the marriage trap should have a prenup in place to protect himself.. Am i right??

Truth is, I let social anxiety get to me and I made it to the age of 40, while still remaining a virgin. I know they made a comedy about this but my situation is real life. I want to conquer my anxiety and someday have an intimate relationship but I am so worried that women will freak out over my lack of experience.

What do you think? Is there hope or did I shoot my chances to hell?

Truth is, I let social anxiety get to me and I made it to the age of 40, while still remaining a virgin. I know they made a comedy about this but my situation is real life. I want to conquer my anxiety and someday have an intimate relationship but I am so worried that women will freak out over my lack of experience.

What do you think? Is there hope or did I shoot my chances to hell?