i date like get lunch with girls i have interest in to get to know them. if i like them i’ll date them some more. however people tell me i should date for marriage. how do i know if i like someone if i don’t date them first. on my first date my heart isn’t set on marriage i don’t even know them. so how is a christian suppose to treat dating.

Hi guys… I have been out of the "dating game" for some time now and recently accepted Jesus into my heart and became a Christian. I would like to find others in my area who share the same faith as I. Which is the best Christian dating Site on the web currently? Bless you

Alright well, my boyfriend and I broke up yesterday. He felt that he couldn’t commit himself to a relationship even though we’ve been perfect and he broke up with me. He felt that he needed to find himself and that if he ever dated anyone again that it would be me. I really don’t understand how this just randomly came up. But we’re friends and I still really care for him. I know it’s going to take time to get over this, but everytime I see him my heart breaks even more. Does anyone really know how I can get over this faster, or anything? Please help

Ive been dealing with his disease for 6 yrs now and I feel like im gonna have a nervous breakdown. Every 3 months he has an episode, he stays home and takes care of the kids and I work 40 hrs a week. He doesnt like for me 2 go out with girlfriends once in a while but he goes off with his friends alot, he gets mad about spending money on anything, he blames all of the fights on me that he acts the way he does cause I make him act that way, its always im the one who needs 2 change and im psycho and crazy and there is nothing wrong with him, he feels like his nightmares and flashbacks of killing are more important issues than anything im going through. I have no one 2 tlk 2 cause my family and freinds dnt wnt 2 hear it cause they beleive I shld give up and file 4 divorce, I need a support group or something before I do go crazy, he has flipped out so bad that now he has moved into our sons room as if were just roommates now! Please help me cause I love this man with all my heart and I know this isnt the real him!

Ok,I am very religious and my boyfriend doesn’t want to marry me.He claims I am mean to him and he don’t care if I stay or leave.Also we have a cute little 17 month old girl,I love Joe so much but it makes me cry to think he don’t want to marry me.I have been with him since March 8th 2006 and that is nearly 6 years and you think he would want to marry me.Also I am 26 and he is 47 so he ain’t getting any younger and he is only been married once and that’s it. I want to also get married and go to church because I don’t feel right going to church knowing I ain’t married to him.I don’t know why he don’t want to marry me but he just don’t.I swore that I would never be with another man other then him whether I am with him or not cause I don’t want nothing to do with men after him cause I have had my heart broken too many times.If I were to write a book about my life it would be the best seller. So answer me what would you do? Should I stay with him or leave him? I want to go to church and live a good happy life but if he wants me to stay with him he would have to marry me so I feel good knowing we’re living right.Not just that but I love him very much and deep down I don’t want to leave him but I love God more then anything and he wouldn’t like the way I’m living right now.So I am terribly confused,should I stay or should I go? All I want is to live a good happy life with a nice family. I just fantasize about me and Joe getting married and we’re going to church and living happy knowing we would have a chance for heaven.But Joe just don’t want to marry me and he says it in a hurtful way too.Also he has schizophrenia so he says hurtful things a lot.But I ignore the things he says, so tell me should I stay with him even though he don’t respect my wishes or should I go and live without him with just me and my baby? He don’t want to marry me cause he also claims we fight too much and stuff but I told him every couple fights,and most of the time we fight its cause he starts it.Always accusing me of things I’m not doing but eventually he learns that I didn’t do whatever he thinks I did.So that is about all I have to say and please answer soon.

He keeps wanting to get back with me after we officially have broken up over the years. Just when I leave him, he can’t seem to stay away from me and I the same. These aren’t petty break ups either that last for months. They usually are about serious adult issues yet he keeps coming to me? I have tried to date other men but my heart is still drawn to him for some reason. Is this really love or what? Men I need your help?

My son is turning 18 soon and has recently begun dating. However his first girlfriend has very small breasts, probably an A-cup. Now god bless his heart, he loves her ever so much, but I’d like to set a firm precedent to avoid future heartbreak.

I wouldn’t want him to be ridiculed by his friends and classmates for ‘going out with a flatty’ as I would have been back in my younger years. Unendowed females are also generally emotionally unstable due to low self-esteem (I don’t want a teenage drama queen on my son’s hands!)

My biggest worry is that many years down the line, their female children would be ‘flat chicks’ as well. I’d like my son to be a spittin’ image of his old man, and to help him avoid some obvious mistakes.

Should I forbid him from dating her or let him figure it out for himself over time?

I’m going out with this guy, and he’s really nice, but lately, he’s been being very jealous and controling and I can’t take it anymore. I need to end things, and the sooner, the better. But I really don’t want to hurt him, because he tells me VERY often how much he loves me, and that he wouldn’t have a reason to get out of bed if he didn’t have me. How’s the best way to break up with him without hurting him or breaking his heart?

I know this probably sounds pretty whiney because people have much bigger problems but here it goes: I can"t get me husband to stop criticizing me and telling me I am stupid or ugly. He puts me down almost everyday about soemthing big or small. If I show that my feelings are hurt or I cry he ends up putting that down too. I don’t cry in front of him anymore unless I really can’t help it. I sort of got used to a lot of the put downs, but lately he’s been saying kind of mean things about the way I look. I used to be really pretty but I am almost 50 and have 4 kids. I still work out everyday but everbody gets older, right? Also, since I got laid off I haven’t been spending money on the things I used to do like expensive salons for hair coloring etc. I do the best I can with at home tricks and stuff. about a week ago he was in a bad mood and said that I used to have good looks but I don’t even have those anymore and today he actually called me ugly. I know it shouldn’t matter this much but i feel like that was the last thing i could stand hearing. I just always thought that even if no other guys looked at you anymore at least your husband was going to always think you were beautil even when you were ninety! anyway, please don’t tell me to leave because i can’t at least until the kids are older: 2 yr old, 6 yr old twins, 13 yr old. and please also don’t tell me to talk to him whan he’s in a good mood because i’ve tried that. if anyone can help me i’d be really thankful because lately i just feel like my heart is breaking. thanks

Well really i’m in love with this guy. He could be an asshole sometimes but he is always for me when i’m sad. I could tell he really loves me but i just cant be with him so im please tell me what are some good ways to break up with him without hurting him or breaking his heart ): </3