My current ex and I dated for more than 5 years. Last year when I got pregnant things went to hell. We stopped talking, we stopped having fun, we stopped having sex. After giving birth we made a pact to try and be honest and faithful to each to other. I later found out that he has been keeping in contact with his ex in a sexual, i still wanna be with u manner. I also found that he has been chatting with lots of other women. Worse of all I found out that 3 months after gave birth he slept with someone else. Don’t get me wrong, I cheated on him 2 times 2 years ago. Nevertheless, he said he wanted to stay with me and try and work it out. I just want to know should I stay around, getting couples counseling, or should just move on.

Scared for valentines day. Im scared im gonna be really depressed know that my ex left me for someone else not along. Know he will be loving her and being happy with her and having sex. What am i suposed to do?

OK, guys, help me out here, cuz I feel very confused.

Im 30 years old, and Ive been thru the ringer as far as relationships go….

I was 22 when I first lost my virginity. They guy was really abusive and nonetheless, it didnt work out. Up until I was 28, I attracted men that were terrible, cold and very inadequate in bed. They either turned out to be gay, bisexual or extremely mental by the end of each relationship, I have a 4 year old daughter now.

Qhen I was 28, I met this guy that was incredible in bed, and I also started having sex with multiple people. For the first time in my entire life, I was experiencing, decent/normal to awesome SEX, and it was like, one of the best things that ever happened to me, like something inside myself that was so essential lost to me my entire life.

Judge me or not guys but I LOVE SEX )-

Howver, I couldnt find a relationsip. I got hurt a few times too, cuz a couple of these guys didnt want me for anything more than sex, and I felt very lonely, jealous and sad.

So, I met this great guy, and hes awesome. We get along great. He could be my bnest friend, and I didnt think I could connect to anybody on this level. Hes overweight, but I can c if he lost the wieght(which I dont expect to happen ever) he would be a very good looking guy.

I know he would treat me right, and hes just and all around, awesome person. Hes funny, hes smart, hes moral. Very cool guys, but he made it clear to me that hes not sexual in that way……

He has problems with sex, prolly cuz he used to be obese when he was younger.

Now, Im upset, angry, and sad, cuz once again, Im gonna be in a relationship where I cant be satisfied sexually, ever.

Only now its gonna be harder, cuz befroe I was sheltered but now I know, so when temptation comes around again, and….I know it will….I will end up cheating….(Just being honest with myself) I know I sound like a whore, but hey, it is what it is

Having been cheated on , and seen it time and time again, I look down on it. I hate it.

So, Im trying to keep this situation frineds, so if I need to , and choose too, thereis the exit sign for me. I already know he will be hurt, but Ive told him from the beginning , I need to sort things out in my head, before I jump into a relationship.

I know, eventually, in my life, its gonna come to me, choosing what I am willing to scarifice to be happy.

I can eithger continue to have strictly sexual relationsips, and booty calls with whoever, or get into a loving relationship. with NO SEX at all, or terrible sex.

I dunno…Am I being an idiot. Is God showing me that Im being stupid by not going for this guy, what should I do…amd I WRONG??????

what is wrong with me???
Sorry for all the misspellings, guys

My hubby wants to have a 3 way with me, my mom & my granny…he says he would be like having sex with me in different stages in my life so he can know what to expect in the future and to better prepare him. He seems so sincere….HELP!

All my friends are having sex and doing sexual acts with their boyfriends at the moment but I want to save myself for marriage, am I weird? I want to be able to give my husband my virginity to prove my love for him, and I don’t want to regret having sex with the wrong man/men. Is this weird? I’m a girl, 15 in august.

I’m planning to save myself for marriage. Did you? If you didn’t, did you regret having sex?

What is your opinion on having sex before marriage?
This thought came across my mind just recently because I am dating this guy that I am not serious about but very sexually attracted to. I have only had sex with one guy my entire life and told myself the next guy I do it with will be my husband. But now I think Im having a change of heart. Why do you think its so important to save yourself? or is it? What do you think I should do?

My wife is about 55-60 pounds overweight and it sickens me to no end. Would if really be wrong to leave her for a few months to see if she gets the picture and loses her weight. I need some freedom and the chance to be with other women where I can be happy. If my wife loses her weight I will come back home, but if she dont I wont. I dont want a divorce her weight is really the biggest reason I am unhappy, the rest of the things I can deal with. I am a good looking fit man and I attract many women and I am ashamed to go anywhere with my wife because she is SO FAT! When we go visit my family I make her stay in the car because her "fatness" makes them uneasy. I understand that, her family isnt rude to me and she says that I can come in no matter how dumb I act. But she continues to eat and be a COW. I stopped having sex with her about 6 months ago except when I really need it. I would think that would have got her on her way to being thin but it didnt This seems like my last resort to get her to thin back down, if I leave and date other women then maybe she will stop with the elbow and lose the weight. A wife has a duty to look good for her husband

we’ve been together for ~6years. At first all was good. Then things turned ugly when he started cheating. We split many times, I went through deep depressions. He would beg to come back and we did, each time. He was the perfect man in every sense except I didnt trust him and would think of other women with him. This started affecting me sexually through time where I could not focus. About 1 year ago he made a drastic change in which he decided to be non-cheating, homebody husband. The problem is that now, my sexual evolution has gotten worse to the point where I dread having sex with him. I dont think about the other women anymore. I am just NOT excited by him anymore, though I find him physically attractive. I’ve tried a romantic getaway, and new ways but still hard for me to get into the moment. I cannot enjoy myself with him – get aroused.
Is this reason enough to leave my marriage or am I being unrealistic?

If you spoke about not having sex with others and are only using birth control for protection (had std tests and it is guy’s idea) and had 6-7 dates, would people consider the relationship to be exclusive? Is it better to let the guy bring it up again?