will I have to pay them in order to keep from getting my credit ruined?
Last night a collection agency call my work asking for me but I was gone so the owner(talk about embarasing) left me a note to call them today, which I did. The collection agent told me that since I live in WI which is a joint propery state I am responcible for the bill too and that they already posted it on my credit(without even consulting me before hand) and that if I wanted it removed I would have to pay them. I payed them immediatly. It was for her apartments electric bill and for a doctor bill neither of which I signed for or had any knowledge of until today. I have three questions: 1. Did they pull a fast one on me and trick me in to paying her bills? 2. May I sue her to recover the the money I am now out since when we filed for divorce I distinctly remember the lawer telling us that one of the papers we signed stated that from that moment on we were responcble for our own finances his example was
that if one of us purchased a new car the other would not be responcible for paying for any of it? 3- Was it wrong of the collection agency to report that on my credit without even attempting to contact me first? I asked the agent who took my phone call why they did not call me before reporting it and she it was because we are divorced and that she did not have my address, which was not entirly true since they had my address listed as a previous address for my ex. I bought my ex out of the house we owned together. The agent admitted that they knew as much since my ex stated that we were divorced and did not want them to call me about her bills. Truth be told I enjoy laughing at her financial failure but do not gossip about it with anyone other than both her mom and my mom since I do not want to be percived as bitter. Back to question number 3, may I report them to anyone for posting it on my credit and may I sue them for defamation or something like that since they did not
contact me before posting it on my credit. I paid the bill within 24 hours of them calling my work and within 4 hours of first seeing the message from my boss, I would have called them earlier but wanted to wait for them to open up. I will be calling a lawer on my lunch hour tommarow but want to see if anyone has any experance simular to this or has knowledge of the law and can tell me what to expect. I always choose a best answer so anyone who helps me stands a good chance at an easy ten points. Thank you in advacne for any and all of the help you will provide me.
Here is the timeline of what occured.
Oct. 2006 we seperated. We prepaid a six month lease for her in order to be seperated and see how things would go.
Dec. 2006 we filed the paperwork for a divorce
Feb 2007 is the month both debts that I paid today were occured in. One is a something electric bill and the other was a something doctor bill.
May 2007 our divorce was finalized.
Sept 10 2007 the collection agency reported her debts to both of our reports.
Sept 25 2007 The collection agency called my work after hours and spoke with my boss. This was thier first attempt to contact me and they told me that today
Sept 26 2007 I returned their phone call and paid the bills.
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Divorce, Mother in law issues?




Situation: The son is in the process of divorcing. His mother believes everything her son says about what’s happened without hearing his wife’s side of story? If you are the wife and your mother-in-law judges you based on the lies her son told her, how would you deal with her? They are making stories like the wife walked out on her kids. When in reality the kids are staying with her 5 days a week with little or no child support. And the wife still deals with the ex-husband as peaceful as she can although it’s breaking her heart and emotionally drained. How would you face a mother-in-law like this? What are the things the wife can do to lessen the stress brought by it? Should you explain yourself or just focus on the divorce?

The Mom and son can be both arrogant when being defensive. The son is spoiled brat he’s used to getting what he wants. The wife knows her husbands family’s stinky side because she’s there when they gossip about other family members, judge and call them names as though they are so clean – the wife knows how they can be arrogant and self-righteous. She also know they are a loving family in a way that they are affectionate and pretty loyal to each other.




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its about my parents..they dont want to get divorced beacuse of me..but they often fight…my dad cheated on my mom a couple of times…but she kinda "forgave" him and just never talked about it anymore…my dad puts my mom and me last for everything…when someone else need help or something hes always there for them…he puts my mom down and curses her…not all the time..just when tey fight..i have no idea what to do…i want to tell my mom that its ok if they dont live together anymore and that i would live with her..cause im really sick and tired of all the fighting and screaming…but i dont know how to tell her…what should i do??? just dont tell me to talk with someone else cause nobody cant know about it…i just dont want peple to gossip and i dont trust anyone…