I want to meet people, dating, or hang out friends. I have had quite few people suggested that I should go on line. But I feel quite embarrassed about it. especially when you have to show your photos.

I like this one someone told me: Just touch his toes with your toes.

Meaning – When you are in bed together, reach over and touch his toes with your toes. You will start to feel so much love for this person laying beside you and gratitude for him being there. And this gratitude is what gets you through the hard parts, and to see the bigger picture without sweating the small stuff.

What is the best marriage advice someone told you?

Me and my fiance are having a lot of problems. It would be easy for us to split if it were just him and I, but we have a 9 month old baby in the mix which makes things really really hard. We are not affiliated with any church and I would feel odd calling random churches asking for a minister to counsel us. Could someone plz tell me how I would go about getting this started and how much does a minster charge. I also would like to know if they would be judgmental of us since we have a child, live together but are not married.

he cheated prior to marriage, during marriage and ongoing affair while separated. He is expected to come into a large amount of money and provides a good lifestyle. I don’t want the title of a single mother so I am putting aside emotion for my children. I want him to fix our broken family. Any tips and suggestions on counseling or therapy to reform a cheating husband?

Would you ask your fiance to sign a prenup?

I was just wondering about this recently and wonder what you all think.

One other thing I was wondering is; some people say that prenups aren’t necessarily a sign of mistrust in the relationship. Some feel that it genuinely helps, and if the partner involved agrees with it, it means they really love their future husband or wife.

I think it’s a sign of mistrust for this reason; with a prenup, if the couple feels that they may divorce in the future, then they don’t trust that they will be fair with splitting the money, etc, with each other. Why marry someone that you feel may cut throat you after a divorce? That doesn’t sound like trust. Shouldn’t one marry someone they know would never do that to them because they really do love and care for them?

If not, shouldn’t everyone just get long term girlfriend/boyfriends with preparations to trade spouses like trading cars after 10 or 15 years?
Thanks for all of your well thought out answers. In response, you’ve all generally stated that Prenup’s are good and not a sign of mistrust. I think Prenup’s or marrage isn’t for everyone. I think it all depends on the individual and what they want in life. I think it takes a very strong bond for a couple to know they will never divorce or need a prenup. A bond with the same strength that some parents have for their children for life..the bond of knowing you’ll always be family and will never harm one another in any way including finacially or physically, etc. Not all families have that bond, some do and they are lucky. Clearly many spouses don’t have that bond, but some do, and it takes a lot to know you even have that bond to begin with. Some couples try to act like they have that bond when they clearly don’t, and get divorced. It’s probably the most difficult thing to obtain in life, which is why I think many people may find it unbelievable to achieve.

Just my thoughts.

why or why not? If you don’t, I’m forced to assume you’re just in it for the money?

He left his 2 year old son here for me to care for while he is running around with a girl that is shooting up drugs. I think he is shooting up drugs also. He has threated to burn the house down. He took my truck. I just want him out of my life.

I love my fiancee dearly, but I’ve been burned really bad from previous divorce, have kids and there is a significant asset difference in terms of what each party is bringing into the marriage.

My wife and I have no agreements on how to divide properties. She doesn’t care and doesn’t live here any way.
I am planning to list everything i have, and divide 50/50.
but does the judge require any evidence that i give her 50% ?