I just moved from foley,alabama to denver, co. Me and my X filled as married on 08 taxes. So we where common law married but i had to get out of the relationship i was afraid of going to jail again, or being physically abused, again! Within a weeks time i moved across the states. Now i’m wondering if i need to take any legal action or through the I.R.S. i really need some pointers. Im still on a shared bank account with her in Al and they said i need to be there in person or she can close the account. Im in the dark here!!!




online counseling?




does anyone know a good, free, online counselor that wont call you just email you?

please i really need one my best friend just started drinking 5 days ago and now is going to jail becuz he got drunk and broke into a store. so please i really want a counselor for not only thing but all the stuff that goes on in my life. please please please! help me.
by the way my friend is only 15




ok does this seem fair in a divorce settlement ?




hi there i am going through a divorce and my ex husband and mind you the only reason why he is my ex husband is because he decided to take out his anger on my one month old daughter. well this is the divorce settlement and if i object which i do we will have to go to mediation he is going to be going to jail for at least two years do you think i will get anything out of this divorce i am not asking for alot i am just asking for insurance to be covered on me and my kids. for all medical bills to be payed by him for the kids right now due to social services i cant work long story dont want to get into it but i can work soon but my daughter has 1,000.00 a week in medical bills due to her physical theripist ocupational theripist, due to him shaking her. and i want his profit sharing to go into a trust fund for my daugther and son i am not asking for money for myself i am not asking for the house or car or anything like that i am just asking for my kids and myself to be on health insuarce mind you that he doesnt have to pay for a prenim every pay check his job does that for him so he gets free health insurace basicaly through his work so i dont see the point but here what he wants to see what happens Dear Ashley,Thank you for your offer, I have reviewed it and I am responding to you with my settlement offer. At your convenience please review and let me know if this is acceptable as I have tried to incorporate some of your previous requests in this all inclusive settlement offer.
1. The marital home of Christopher and Ashley Dahl at 71. E. Ilex Ct. currently has a loan to value deficit of approximately -,000.00 1/2 of which (00.00) is Ms. Dahl’s responsibility. Christopher Dahl will keep the house and relieve her of the 00.00 amount owed from the loss.1A:Personal Loans from Henry Sarja to Christopher and Ashley Dahl during the length of their marriage:New Carpet: 00.00Monthly Loan of 0.00 for 26 months: ,400.00Emergency Loans of 00.00 (asked twice by Ashley Dahl to cover the house payment for them)Total Due to Henry Sarja: ,100.00 Ms. Dahl’s share is 50.00 due to Henry SarjaChristopher Dahl will also relieve Ms Dahl of her responsibility to Henry S Sarja for personal loans made to Christopher and Ashley Dahl during the marriage.Ashley Dahl agrees to sign a quit claim deed to Christopher Dahl within the next 30 days on the property known as 71 E. Ilex Court Milliken, CO 80543 if needed.2.The 1998 Dodge Stratus is also of negative loan to value which is approximately –0.00 1/2 of which is Ashley Dahl’s responsibility (0.00). This vehicle is now in need of significant repairs which are Steering pump and HVAC control module. Christopher Dahl will keep the car and accept the financial responsibility for Ms Dahl’s amount owed.3.Christopher Dahl will accept responsibility for all medical bills for Ashley Dahl and Wyatt and Nichole Dahl for the entire length of marriage and up to the date of divorce filing provided that all dates of service (appointments) must be prior to date of filing of divorce December 13, 2008 and must have been from an approved Medical provider through Mr. Dahl’s health insurance plan.All other medical bills after December 13, 2008 for Wyatt and Nichole Dahl will be split equally between the parties, Mr. Christopher Dahl and Ms. Ashley Dahl.Ms Ashley Dahl also agrees she will make sure that any medical necessary treatments, and check ups for Wyatt and Nichole Dahl shall be from medical providers through Mr. Dahl’s health insurance plan.All medical and dental bills for Ashley Dahl incurred after the date of divorce filing of December 13, 2008 are her responsibility in their entirety. All medical bills incurred after December 13, 2008 will be split equally between Mr. Christopher Dahl and Ms. Ashley Dahl provided they are for Wyatt and Nichole Dahl only. All medical and dental bills for Ashley Dahl incurred after December 13, 2008 are entirely Ashley Dahl’s responsibility.4.Christopher Dahl will continue to provide medical coverage for the children Wyatt and Nichole Dahl as long as he is continually employed and it is available at reasonable costs.5.Both parties agree that no maintenance payment shall be made to or from either party.6.In return, Ashley Dahl will release all interest in the house at ******************, and the 1998 Dodge Stratus and all interest and/or amounts due her from the Profit Sharing account at R&R Engineering under Christopher Dahl.

Respectfully yours,Chris Dahl