My girlfriend’s birthday is coming up and I want to make sure it’s amazing. There’s been a lot of stress for her lately and she’s been dying for a getaway. Unfortunately, I’m 18 and am also in the middle of saving for a nicer car so I can’t spend a lot of money. I made a 2 night reservation for a suite at a nice hotel in Stowe VT. It cost about 0. And I’d like to stay less than 0 for a couples massage. However, I can’t seem to find a place cheap enough in that area! Please help, I just want everything to be perfect.

my boyfriend of a year dumped me at the end of january, the first few days i was really upset but after that i felt happier again and was completely fine about things.

however, the past two weeks or so though i’ve been feeling really upset everyday about this guy breaking up with me and i miss him loads and still do love him. i feel so incredibly lonely and i loved this guy more than i’ve ever loved anyone.

we haven’t spoken since a week after the breakup and i know it is for the best as he didn’t appreciate me and love me for me, and was always trying to change me e.g. ‘you’d be the perfect girlfriend if only …’ etc but the way i felt about him was so genuine and i really don’t understand what i did wrong for him to breakup with me.

does anyone have any tips on how to not be so sad?

How does the transition take place between just dating and girlfriend?

I think about things, I’m very logical, and I don’t understand it

I notice that some people try really hard to get a girlfriend, mainly because they strongly desire that form of intimacy. At what point does this desire for intimacy become creepy? What would you recommend said person(s) do to deal with it?

Thanks for answering.

I am looking for a girlfriend that is a christian and also for teens i am still a teen and it is hard finding a nice christian girl. I have heard that there are ones for teens but never heard the names please help

I notice that some people try really hard to get a girlfriend, mainly because they strongly desire that form of intimacy. At what point does this desire for intimacy become creepy? What would you recommend said person(s) do to deal with it?

Thanks for answering.

i’m a paranoid person. and my girlfriend is a very on and off person. we want to get married but i’m thinking a want a prenuptial thing. i’m going to be honest. i’m a selfish person and i think that maybe one of my ideas might just shoot off and i don’t want her at some point to want to end things and get half of my earnings and property. the reason i’m so worried is because even tho she loves me and i love her is that she asks for us to be in an open relationship fairly often. she wants to be with other guys while with me but doesn’t want to say so. when i ask her about it she says she wants to experience things and if i ask with who she just ends the conversation. its really more of an insurance policy for me so that she doesn’t feel tempted to stray during the relationship. i feel bad about bringing it up. i don’t want her to think money is more important then her to me. i just don’t want her to think that if everything goes bad that she can leave this relationship on a free ride.

Going with g/f in OCT. Not looking for a very expensive place. My girlfriend expressed interest in looking up some info about couples massages.
1. What hotels would be best to go check out for their Spa/massages?
2. What price range am I looking at?
3. Anyone have experiences of a good place or deal?

My wife and have been seperated since August of last year. Before she left SHE typed up a marital settlement agreement. I was to give her half of the money I had been saving which half was ,000 plus I had to buy the furniture and appliances in our house from her. I know that sounds like I am the dumb ass. But I am in the military and she would have gotten alot more. Well she has primary custody of our two children and they are 2 & 4 years old. She continues to cut off phone calls and webcam sessions with my kids. I started a business after our divorce was filed and she is trying to take that from me. I went from paying 0 a month to over ,000 a month. She has a masters degree in Social Services and she is working temp jobs so I would have to pay more in child support. I don’t mind supporting my kids, but I shouldn’t be supporting her since she is the one that left. I do have an attorney but she is screwing me over. Please give me some advice.
I have also had to put myself in therapy for all the mental anguish she is putting on me, as well as financial burdern. All she wants is more and more money. She started all this wanting more money because I now have a girlfriend and I bought a house. How can I stop her from getting more money. She can work, there is nothing wrong with her but pure laziness. She works a couple hours a day and leaves the kids in daycare all day only for me to pay even more. In our agreement it states that both parties must agree with which daycare the children will attend. She never even asked which daycare, buy when the kids came down here I asked her. The one I picked I really liked and just because the lady got her license in 1995 and wasn’t a facility she didn’t agree with it. The one they are in now are not cooperative with me at all and I have let them know I do not agree for them to be there. My attorney along with everyone else is telling my I have no say in what goes on anymore.
I am currently looking for an attorney who will be willing to take payments. With all the money I have already been paying in attorney fees and child support I can’t afford to pay the entire retainer fee at once. I still have to pay ,000 for a parent coordinator
ARON1968, thanks for your advice. I just e-mailed the attorney I currently have, I will have to wait and see what she says. I will be speaking with another attorney tomorrow, my attorney called me a few minutes ago and said she was filing the contempt charges today and a motion to modify child support.

As in breakup with your girlfriend to set a good career for you? Do you consider her as an extra person you need to worry about if you are not set with your career yet?