I have a wonderful girlfriend- I foresee us getting married one day. But I am thinking that I would like for her to sign and agree to a prenup agreement. You see, I want to have money saved up for the car of my dreams. I have already told her that part.

I don’t intend nor hope that the marriage fails- but it could happen. You just never know. Hence, I want to know for sure that she wouldn’t try to take away that money that I save up, if we ever decided to go our separate ways. Does that make sense?

I am reasonably sure that an attorney would be able to find out about my secret account- certainly if she informed him/her of its existence. I hope and pray that this never happens- but I can’t predict the future.

So, I feel reluctant to talk to my sweetheart about this. If I try to see things from her point of view, I can understand why it may bother her if I wanted to have a prenup. It may even suggest that I feel that we may not stay together forever.

What do you think?

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Man thinks son would have a much better life with him. Does the man have to pay the girlfriend child support in order for him to have custody of the child?

He wants to have parental custodian and she will have visitation.

Which party gets child support? They reside in New Jersey

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Okay, so I am 16 years old and I have a girlfriend I have been with for almost 3 years. If we make it, we plan on getting married somewhere when she turns 18. What I want to know is, where is gay marriage legal in America? I also want to know if I get a marriage license here in Mississippi, would I be able to get married in another state? Or would I have to get a marriage license in the state I’m getting married in? If so, would we have to live in that state that we got married in? If all else fails, we plan on getting domestic partnership, and I want to know where this is legal? I apologize for asking so many questions.. I just want to be prepared because we’ll both be turning 17 next month, which leaves us and our families a year to plan for the ceremony. Thank you so much for taking your time to read this, and please give me the best answer you have! Any information would really help me. P.S. Do any of you know if Obama is going to try to make gay marriage legal in more states? Thanks!

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My sister’s husband of 11 years has decided to abandon her and their 3 children. 1,3,8. He has a new apartment for himself and a girlfriend. He is not paying her anything for the kids and has not paid the mortgage for the past 6 months. When the bank takes the house in a month or two, she will be forced in the streets, with no money and 3 kids He does not file for divorce, so he doesnt have to pay for child support and attorny fees. The husband has his own business and makes great money. However, he refuses to help the family. Is there any suggestions you might have. What options does she have? What services are available? What can be done to force him by law to help his family.

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I am a student at the U of Alabama and I am planning to propose to my girlfriend at the BCS National Championship game in Pasadena, CA on Jan 7. Any ideas on how to do it?

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Me and my girlfriend have been together for a little bit over two years. I am 20 and she is 21. We used to be perfect but since our 1 year anniversery she has been getting angry at every little thing. It is starting to annoy me to a point where I cant take it anymore. I love her and I want us to be together but she is annoyed by everything I do even the stupid things. Is there anywhere I can get free help to save our relationship?

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Several months back - like in October or November - I came out to my mom, handed her PFLAG’s glb-mychild.pdf information package and had like a 3 hour conversation with her about it to try and get her to accept it/have things go well. During the conversation, she obviously was bothered by it, and kept doubting that I was gay. At the end of it, though, it seemed like she was ready to look over the bible again and investigate the possibility that being gay is natural and OK or that the way Christianity is practiced today it is unjust to reject gay people while many other rules are not followed. Now it’s February and we haven’t said A WORD about it ever again - I still don’t have a girlfriend (duh) after a smashing 5 years of not expressing a lick of interest in such, though I think she still thinks I’m just confused/affected by a social justice group I’m in and I’ll suddenly realize I’ve been confused the whole time or something.

As you might suspect, my parents are VERY non-confrontational - it would help a lot if they constantly asked questions so I didn’t have to go through trying to work this out myself. I’m also very unbrave and don’t have a lot of willpower to just go up to their face right now and work it out, so I was thinking of mediation. Is it expensive? Is there services by nonprofit groups or societies that give out mediation services to people who fit certain criteria? What I’m hoping to get from mediation is to reach an outcome where my parents are supportive and accepting or will be set on the road to a positive attitude.

Opinions/comments of the non-homophobic variety would be much appreciated

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well me and my bestfriend who is also my girlfriend yes we are bi well we are of the E-M-O sort and we have cut ourselfs and stuff and she wrote this in her diary and she has some really baad stuff in her diary like blood and stuff about us and how she wants to die somdays. Well she called last night and told me that her parents found and read her diary and she is going to have to go to therapy and spend somtime in a hostbitle and she can’t come over for awhile because we are together and her dad said "i don’t think there is enough super-vison over at her house" and he was talking to her about us and stuff and now i’m just shaking and thinking about her constantly. what sould i do……I Love Her
the thing is she dosn’t want to die she just gets a little on the depressed side somtimes and i really want to be there for her and if it turns out the way some of you are telling it…i can’t live with out seeing her and talking to her….if she goes to the hosbitle its not cause she is suisidle her cuts arn’t that bad most of them are over the fact her parents don’t exept her and this whole thing is makeing me feel like i need to come out to my parents but…idk

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There was a time when any other guy flirting with my girlfriend would set me off, now I just laugh about it.

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Brian Henderson and his wife, Toni, have been coming to see me for counseling. Their problem isn’t an uncommon one. He isn’t aroused by his wife so he claims impotence. She doesn’t know that he has had a girlfreind on the side for about a year and a half. My goal is to get him to drop the girlfriend and become interested in his wife once again. The major difficulty in this is that they live in the small town of Cole Camp, Missouri. There aren’t really any viable dating options in the town. And he doesn’t drive due to a DWI suspension that he got a few months ago. They have a suitable house located at 1251 S Montgomery in Cole Camp, Missouri( I can’t disclose the zipcode due to patient confidentiality laws). It is about three blocks from the local park. What suggestions would you have for this couple?
That makes more sense. Awry.

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