Friday, September 9th, 2011 at
8:57 am
I have close friend who’s been married to her hubby for 6 years. They married young (19) and have 2 little girls (aged 4 and 18 months). About a year ago they were having a rough patch and had a trial separation. During the separation my friends hubby got involved with his boss, an older woman (she’s 49 and he’s 25). He’s known this other woman since he was 16 since his mom also works for the same business too. The affair was apparently very passionate. He was open to my friend about the affair but they decided to try to make things work for their kids since their youngest was an infant at the time. He also told her he’d ended it. Then about 4 months ago my friend discovered many sexual emails between her hubby and his boss. His phone records also indicated that he was calling and texting her on her personal line. She then decided to confront hubby and his boss. This woman then told my friend that she wasn’t good enough for her hubby and was a bad mom, ect and that she and my friends hubby would always be together. My friends hubby said nothing and then left work with his boss leaving his wife behind. They are in the process of filing for divorce. My friend is upset as is and now her husband is suing her for full custody of their girls. On top of this his boss is harassing my friend saying how she is going to be her kids new mommy and if she puts up a fight in court she’ll be sorry. My friend is devastated and at a loss as what to do. What are the chances she will win custody of her girls against her soon to be ex and is there anything she can do about his mistress harassing her? What sort of action would that require and could it help her win full custody?
Thursday, September 8th, 2011 at
4:07 am
I am seeking to obtain full custody of my 10 month old baby. Her father left about 6 months ago. He stop calling me and I tried to get of hold of him but been unsuccessful. What can I do?
Monday, September 5th, 2011 at
4:51 pm
My husband file the divorce for third time,2 times he reconcile as both times I won the case.But this time he is saying he don`t have any money ,has huge million dollar loans on him and might show bankruptcy.
He is the sole owner of a very successful business,earning millions from the Business but I don`t know how he do the paper work provided to the court showing his business in a loss and hiding all his money in lock boxes or might be sending to his father`s account in home country ,this is what he did with his ex- wife too.But he was not very rich that time,whatever he has ,he gets everything after my marriage to him.I am the mother of his 3 little kids and pregnant again.And I am a full time mom ,I sacrifice my all carrier for my kids and helping him in his business,I am a doctor but has not taken my license exam yet as kids are my priority,they need me and I love them more than my life.
He never give them time ,also brain wash my 5 year old son against me and now threatening me to take his full custody.He is not letting me pick and drop him from school.Showing his good side to him.But infact he is very abusive,controlling person and has sexual harassment case on him,he fire his 40 employees in just one year with no serious reason,he has taken 18 weeks of battered spouse intervention classes,violate my rights and force me to go through three psychological evaluations by using divorce cases and cps agency,my all reports came normal,but he keep on harassing me all the time for blaming me crazy in front of people and our children and extremely stressing out by saying worse things for my family and died sister putting my life and the child in my womb life in danger just to do my recordings,and also destroy my personal things,he is also responsible for death of two patients and is a diagnosed anxiety disorder patient ,and has hysteric personality.
I always wanted my kids to raise in a happy family as divorce bring them a lot behavioral problems but this time I give up I will never reconcile with him ,I will apologize my kids but I don`t have more energy to take his abuse.He is an extreme greedy person,he make my life hell for his money,but I`ll not let him do what he wants this time,I need your help,if anyone knows how to rule out his fraud of hiding his money from his wife and court,please help me,thanks
Saturday, September 3rd, 2011 at
9:39 pm
My husband file the divorce for third time,2 times he reconcile as both times I won the case.But this time he is saying he don`t have any money ,has huge million dollar loans on him and might show bankruptcy.
He is the sole owner of a very successful business,earning millions from the Business but I don`t know how he do the paper work provided to the court showing his business in a loss and hiding all his money in lock boxes or might be sending to his father`s account in home country ,this is what he did with his ex- wife too.But he was not very rich that time,whatever he has ,he gets everything after my marriage to him.I am the mother of his 3 little kids and pregnant again.And I am a full time mom ,I sacrifice my all carrier for my kids and helping him in his business,I am a doctor but has not taken my license exam yet as kids are my priority,they need me and I love them more than my life.
He never give them time ,also brain wash my 5 year old son against me and now threatening me to take his full custody.He is not letting me pick and drop him from school.Showing his good side to him.But infact he is very abusive,controlling person and has sexual harassment case on him,he fire his 40 employees in just one year with no serious reason,he has taken 18 weeks of battered spouse intervention classes,violate my rights and force me to go through three psychological evaluations by using divorce cases and cps agency,my all reports came normal,but he keep on harassing me all the time for blaming me crazy in front of people and our children and extremely stressing out by saying worse things for my family and died sister putting my life and the child in my womb life in danger just to do my recordings,and also destroy my personal things,he is also responsible for death of two patients and is a diagnosed anxiety disorder patient ,and has hysteric personality.
I always wanted my kids to raise in a happy family as divorce bring them a lot behavioral problems but this time I give up I will never reconcile with him ,I will apologize my kids but I don`t have more energy to take his abuse.He is an extreme greedy person,he make my life hell for his money,but I`ll not let him do what he wants this time,I need your help,if anyone knows how to rule out his fraud of hiding his money from his wife and court,please help me,thanks
Saturday, September 3rd, 2011 at
1:26 am
he left then started zoloft 3 weeks later..hes also slandered the courts and admitted hes crazy on face book…should I be worried at all that I will loose in court for full custody?
how about living in a hotel room? think the courts will like that…admitting hes crazy on facebook?
Thursday, September 1st, 2011 at
5:37 am
If you have primary custody already and the father is wanting to win full custody of our child… How can he win? Anyone been through this before? Besides the normal causes.
Thursday, September 1st, 2011 at
1:25 am
My ex failed to pay her attorney and he stepped down. Now she is being miserable and my 12 yr old son wants to live w/ me rather than going week on, week off like we are now. I want to continue to go for full custody but how will it work if she does not have an attorney?
Tuesday, August 30th, 2011 at
7:15 pm
my husband is looking to file for divorce and go for full custody on our two young children. I work full time and watches them during the day, after that Its pretty much me watching them. He doesn’t work, he got injured a few years ago at work and was let go but never qualifed for disability so we are living off my income. He wants me to be removed from the property, we rent the house from my inlaws, and he is seeking to and considering putting a restraining order out on me saying im an unfit mother. I’m not unfit, I love my children very much, I dont drink, smoke, do drugs, I dont hit, hurt, or harm them. Yes like everyone out there, we make dumb choices and decsions and kids do fall, trip, get bumps and bruises but i’m not unfit. He said he has 4 years of evidence and witnesses saying otherwise. I tend to think he’s just scaring me but I dont know, i’ve been an emotional wreck over all of this. I dont want to lose my children! He;s making my life hell right now and I dont want to just up and leave and take the kids because isn’t that kidnapping them? Im scared he’s going to do something to me. He got so mad yesterday…my son was playing with the garage door remote and I didnt know he actually opened the door I went to bed and my husband went out to walk the dog and saw it was opened. he left a note to me saying that I will be paying a huge price for this and threatened that one day i’ll come home from work and see that him and the kids are gone, or he’s going to trash the crap out of everything I own. He’s making me a prisioner in the house. I have to walk outside and around the house to enter into the kitchen, he uses my purse as his garbage can, he dumbed ice cubes in my purse yesterday and took all my underwear and stuck it in a tuperware bowl with water in it. He’s doing such silly childish things. He did email an attorney and is likely going this week to file. WHat do I do? I’m scaredd if I try to go file first, hell will be paid. I mean what if he’s been bluffing this whole time? He’s threatened divorce numbers or times before and yet we stayed together for 5 and 1/2 years. Can I still see an attorney and document everything and tell them to hold off on filing till then he does? I should be allowed a counter agreement or something right? Thanks
Friday, August 26th, 2011 at
12:49 am
My sister keeps telling me she doesn’t want her baby anymore and ask me will I keep her but I wont unless I get full custody. She treats the baby like crap. Chocking her. Telling her to get away from her. She around drugs and she doesn’t have her own home she goes back and fourth to other ppls houses in the hood I mean straight killin hood.
Monday, August 22nd, 2011 at
10:25 am
Me and my boyfriend have two kids (7 years old and 18 months old), we’ve been together for 8 years but we never got married. Maryland does not recognize the "common law", and the little assets we have I am sure there will not be a problem (I hope) when we split. I need to know IF in order to get child support from him (I want to inforce that) I have to have full custody of the kids and if so can I arrange that when I file for custody or do I have to do it separetely?
Thank you.