Please help long story about this guy I have been talking to for a while and he wants marriage but this is the story.
In 2008 we had a casual fling but still there was a strong friendship still(although I think there were more than just friendship feelings. At the time he wanted kids and I can not have them and his family wanted him to get married and his work visa from u.s.a expired so he had to go back to India and the feelings at that time were not strong enough for us to marry anyway. In 2008 we did everything together went everywhere together. Then when he got back to his country and was still trying to find jobs abroad in any country he kept saying I want you to go with me where ever he went but still did not want marriage. 3 years have passed and he did get married and for the first 10 months of his marriage he still tried to contact me but I refused to talk to him until one day he told me he got separated from his wife so I started talking to him then they got back together and separated twice they are now separated again and will probably divorce. Also in 2008 when he had to leave me he cried a lot I know because I saw it. Now the closeness we had before is not there but still is strong because we always want to talk because we feel so good when we talk to each other. I have told him many times and am very strong about this i will not just marry him for a green card. The feelings I have now are if he stopped talking to me tomorrow I would be disappointed but would not cry or anything.
He said he wants to marry me for a green card but I told him we did not just have friendship feelings before there is no way and he agreed that before in 2008 it was more than those feelings.
Also when I go out to dinner and a movie then he says in a possesive voice WITH WHO? I told him friends are not possesive in this way. Also we went into a virtual room the other day and all these guys tried to flirt with me and he starting to say to the other guys "STAY AWAY FROM MY GIRL"

He knows I will never marry for green card only this is very clear so if he only has friendship feeling why is he so possesive and is it just that he does not want to admit he has those feelings?
Thanks for helping me and please I want a guys point of view
Also if a guy does not want to admit is what would the reason be for a guy thanks for helping

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My friend made a confession to me a while ago. To make a long story short, I have a friend who cheated on her husband with another man and got pregnant. Her boyfriend said he wouldn’t take care of the baby unless she got rid of her husband. He pushed her to press spousal rape charges on the husband so they could move on with their lives. He was convicted and she ended up with all marital assets, all because she wanted a new life with her boyfriend and their baby and didn’t want to lose him.

When she admitted it was a lie, I felt bad that he was convicted, but he was a pretty bad husband. He was even abusive at times. That’s why she cheated. But he’s innocent of the rape charge, which is what he was convicted of. What can I do? Should I tell someone? I don’t have actual proof and it might just make it worse. It would definitely end our friendship. Should I mind my own business?

My friend made a confession to me a while ago. To make a long story short, I have a friend who cheated on her husband with another man and got pregnant. Her boyfriend said he wouldn’t take care of the baby unless she got rid of her husband. He pushed her to press spousal rape charges on the husband so they could move on with their lives. He was convicted and she ended up with all marital assets, all because she wanted a new life with her boyfriend and their baby and didn’t want to lose him.

When she admitted it was a lie, I felt bad that he was convicted, but he was a pretty bad husband. He was even abusive at times. That’s why she cheated. But he’s innocent of the rape charge, which is what he was convicted of. What can I do? Should I tell someone? I don’t have actual proof and it might just make it worse. It would definitely end our friendship. Should I mind my own business?

I think it must be hard for couples without children to understand that parental responsibilities come before friendships.

My kid is needing more of my time, and is expressing it in the usual way kids do. It does not seem my friend understands that and seems angry that this issue limits my time for friendship.

Frankly, most of my time is taken up with various endeavors. I hardly have time to myself.

BQ: Where do married couples find good, understanding friends who are also married couples?

Disclaimer: I am married.

I used to have an immature view of rushing things with a woman, going from A to Z instead of going A,B,C, etc. Now, I see how vital it is to give friendships time to grow and I’m understanding that it could take months, even years to grow. From your standpoint, what does a guy has to do to earn your trust, friendship, and maybe even……. I like to hear your views on this matter. Thank you ladies for viewing my question

my husband and i are going through a trial one-month separation. i was tired of him sleeping in another room and barely saying anything loving or nice to me so i left him a note one night saying i was leaving. that was almost 3 weeks ago. we have talked since. he said we need to work on being friends. during that time, i realized how much i love him and want to be with him. when i say these things, he ignores and does not acknowledge them. not even "i love you." i know we’re working on friendship but i’m still his wife!

valentine’s day was the worse. we ended up together and afterwards, the only thing he could say was that i should take some of my stuff with me.

the month is almost up and i still have no idea what he’s thinking or feeling. he doesn’t contact me unless i initiate. is this guy speak for he’s ready to move on? is he really mad and needs more time to cool off? should i just give him space and not contact him at all unless he contacts me?
also, we have a joint e-mail account for friends and family. he uses it more than i do. i needed our friend’s e-mail address, so i accessed the account and noticed he kept every single e-mail i wrote him, even if it was silly or dumb things he could have deleted. i don’t get it. if he doesn’t make an effort to contact me, why would he keep these e-mails?
no, we don’t have kids. yes, he moved to be with me. all of my friends and family are here. his are in another state. he is a little shy and is starting to become more social with people at his job.

so, he was going out with this girl.
he was 15 she was 13.
they never talked in person.
she always ignored him.
held hands once, hugged rarely.
so then we were like best friends
and i liked him.
i told him i liked him.
he liked me too, so he broke up with her and went out with me.
(it was wrong for me to tell him i liked him when he was with her)
we went out.
we were happy for a while..
held hands, hugged, kissed, i was his first..it was great.
we broke up because he still liked her for some odd reason.
so now he’s with her again
and she’s changed.
and everything is "fine" with them now and they talk.
and it’s really hard for me..
i need some advice please, anything..
& today is his birthday and he’s with her right now which makes me even more sad..
thanks..
oh, we were like best friends before this all happens & like i miss that friendship but i know i can’t get it back now cuz i have deep feelings for him.
& our drama club is going to new york next weekend (valentines weekend) and that will be really hard for me too cuz we were supposed to still be together..

2 years ago I was immaturely looking for love and attached to anyone who would give me attention. A guy in one of my classes rejected me, but we became good friends anyway.

After a long term relationship ended on unexpected terms a last year I decided to stop dating for a while. Months passed and my friend and I were talking in the park after finishing a project. It was rare for us to be alone because his parent figures hate me for whatever reason. But suddenly there was a click in my mind and I liked him again for whatever reason. I ignored it, but the feelings persisted and I still ignored it. But whatever I do I can’t get him off of my mind almost a year after that moment. It doesn’t help that I’m getting a bunch of weird signs like fortune cookies saying "Reveal what’s in your heart" But I feel like it doesn’t make any sense to my brain, but to my heart it makes perfect sense.

I just don’t want to do something stupid to ruin our friendship.