My Fiance and I have been together for 2 years and we are really starting to fight and argue constently. We are both really stuborn people so that makes it worse. We have tried many times to make things work by ourselves, but we are now at wits end and need someone else. We have four beautiful kids not only do we want to make it work for them, but for ourselves.We love each other more then words could explain, and we want to make it work, but does counseling really help? Is it worth it? Will it help? PLEASE HELP!!!!!




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My fiance has been paying child support to the county in New York for 18 years, due to his mother being on social services. Now his son no longer lives with his mother and my fiance wants to prove that so he no longer has to pay support , or can change the support to go directly to him. Any information would be helpful.




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I was just notified by a woman I dated a little over a year ago that contacted me when she was 4 1/2 months pregnant to tell me so. She stated she wanted nothing from me but always wanted a child. She is 35 and stated when we were together that she couldn’t have children and wanted to adopt. She has now notified me (baby is 4 months old) to tell me she wants support. I have a 5 year old son that I pay 0 a week for since his mother doesn’t work and I live with my fiance and her two children. I make about 65K a year as does my fiance’. My question is this 1. Besides taking a DNA will my child support be 0 for one and an additional 0 for the other or does my fiance (soon to be wife offset the formula since she will eventually be a dependant and effect what they call the cost of living) or not considered?. I appreciate an advice or something to soothe me.. I don’t know if a attorney is necessary with this matter or if it is about formula and I feel taken advantage of by this woman and worry that my current fiance and her children will now suffer due to this situation. What is included in the formal to insure we don’t end up homeless because an old date deceived me very badly. Thanks in advance.. Losing sleep . The lady has not filed yet and paternity will be completed first. However, it is the next step that worries me plus her uncle is handling and he is an attorney or is requesting I complete a CSI form now or when he does file with the courts I will pay his fees. Can he do that?

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My friend is getting married this summer, but thinks that her fiance is still married. Where can we get a copy of his divorce papers online with out it costing us money? Any help would be appreciated!




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and how to ask my fiance for one




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my fiance pays child support (they were never married) and owes some back support which he with my help has been paying off. He just lost his job and is having trouble finding another one, what will happen to him in regards to his child support penalties? Will the usual monthly amount still keep adding up? Is he still expected to pay the same amount even though he has no income coming in right now? And can they come after my income after we are married if he still does not have a job?




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I don’t have anything yet, house, car or bank acct. But I would like to have a prenup in case if in the future I make my own money and I would like to keep it and same thing with my fiance, but he has a car and bank acct. All I need to know is if we can just do it on own own, no lawyer and notarize it, and have the notary as a witness?




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My fiance and I are planning to get married next month in San Diego, CA. He was divorced 09/30/2009 in RI. Would I have to get a copy of the divorce papers or do we not need them since more then 90 days have passed? What i’ve read online seems to make me think you only need to bring them if the divorce was finalized in the last 90 days.




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Me and my fiance would like to write a prenuptial agreement before marriage. We don’t want to use a lawyer because we only have a very few things to agree upon and we are very clear about all of them.

What is the easiest way to write the prenuptial agreement? Is there any template available online so that we can just put our agreements in? What should we pay attention to ?




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Hello, I was married into a scam marriage several years ago in Vietnam. Anyhow as it turned out, I was able to get a divorce in 2007. I have since misplaced the papers that show proof of divorce, but I need to obtain an official copy of them so that I may marry my fiance in the Philippines. I live in Canada. Can I obtain them through the Vietnamese Embassy in Ottawa?




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