my husband is unfaithful due his fear of loneliness after our long-term marriage. how can i save our marriage and stop him from straying again?

How do you get over the terrible fear that you will lose the close relationships you have built with your young boys (10 and 5) after you divorce (due to her infidelity) and have to move out and as a result are subjected to once a week dinner and every other weekend visitation? If you are a child of divorce in a similar situation, what did you feel about your father and your relationship with him afterwards? If you are a parent in this situation, did these feelings subside over time? I plan on making every effort to stay close to them and see them as often as possible, but I have no idea how a boy handles losing being with his father every day…

everything very hard for the father, what can be done about sharing PASSPORTS? The father is afraid to book a cruise for the children in fear that the mother will not hand over the passports to spite him at the last moment.

i need serious help just don’t know where to start!
im trying to get out of danger i dont need ridiculous answers

im married now for 6 months my husband is controlling abusive mentally physically verbally im pregnant and scared for my baby’s life i cry a lot cause we fight and its just bad. hes put his hands on me a lot of times i havent called the cops cause im scared but now im fed up w it and tired he keeps me from doing a lot of things like spending time w my mom my family and i are very close he says that i have duties adn responsibilities we live far from home and visit once in a while and the time that we do we stay at his moms house i dont mind but i want to see my family w out him sometimes cause i mean what is he gana do w a bunch of girls wanting to spend time and get their nails r something done? i feel like hes suffocating me i feel like an object hes manipulative and plays the roll of the husband trying to change the day my baby kicked for the first time i got slapped in the face and pushed and fell to the floor i have a rug burn
i wnt to know how a lawyer will help me?
where do i start looking?
if i leave our place and go w my family will it affect me while filing for divorce or child custody?
hes a marine should i be scared of going to court and fear that the judge will be on his side?
if i have proof of this on text msgs and pics do i have a chance ?
all i want is full custody of my child for the baby’s own safety and supervised visitation and child support.
i dont need anything materialistic out of this i just want to be safe!

I am a former wife of a law enforcement officer. We dated during the police academy and married right after he was hired by a police department. It was during his second year as a cop that I noticed a change in his attitude and behavior at home. I can remember at one point telling him to stop treating me like I was a criminal. When I filed for a divorce, I was worried about what he would try to do to me and our daughter. I received primary custody and out of fear, declined seeking child support. Over the last two years, I have grown stronger and smarter. My question is this, male or female, what is your story when you divorced your significant other whom happened to be a law enforcement officer? Did his or her career make a divorce harder (knowing the judge who signed your divorce paper, tight with all the attorneys in town, et al). Thanks!
Just for clarification … I have been divorced for two years, seperated for three. I did have a great attorney but simply wanted to know other people who found it hard to leave their spouse because of his or her career as a law enforcement officer. I know some cops are retarted and corrupt, I know the pig jokes and donut jokes, so no need to post.
Okay- my divorce is over and really not the point of my question. I want to know if…
1. You divorced a law enforcement officer.
2. What kind of obsticals did you encounters during your divorce because of his or her career as a law enforcement officer.

My wife and I have decided to divorce. At present, it is amicable. We have already sold our house, and divided all assets and furniture. The only issue remaining would be how much and for how long I would pay her alimony.

We had planned on "sharing" an attorney to save money. But, I have been advised against that because I was told that in reality the attorney can really only work for one person. My fear is that if I tell my wife I have gotten my own attorney, the divorce will no longer be amicable.

Does anybody have any thoughts or similar experience and what did you do?

Hello, me and my ex did get a divorse 5 years ago through a paralegal and final by a judge. We agreed I would pay for alimony for 10 years and will be done paying in 5 more years. My question is will I have to continue to worry the rest of my life for fear of paying more alimony? Can she refile in court yet again?

Thanks

My husband and I have been married 3 months. During most of our engagement he was gone due to the military. Now that I am settled in here at his current base and we are together everyday I feel insecure. I try to keep it to myself but sometimes I have to sit him down and talk about it because I hate the way it makes me worry. I feel that things happened that I don’t know about while he was here but I was living in another state. His dorm mates and friends tell me I’d be stupid to think that he ever did me wrong and that he is a great guy. I just can’t help feeling like something went wrong behind my back or something will go wrong in the future. We have a very open marriage, it is easy to talk to him about these things but the thoughts never fully leave my mind. I grew up being taught that men can be dogs. I always guarded myself for fear of being hurt. Now that Im married I just want to be 100% happy but can’t because I feel insecure. How can I overcome this? Advice from a military wife would be amazing.

At what age did your children develop separation anxiety and stranger fear? Or did they develop it at all? If they did how long did it last?

When I was 12 years old my mom and dad got a divorce and I am 23 years old now. I never thought this situation would effect me in the long run but I now find out that it has. I can’t seem to want to marry anyone or be with anyone in a serious relationship because I have a subconscious fear of marriage or anything that will lead to engagement because of the experience I went through with my parents. What can I do to help my problem?