I have some divorce papers that my spouse had signed and at the time I was unable to file because some things came up. I still have those papers can I use those? It has been 7 years and I can not find him so he can sign new ones and I don’t wanna go through the hassle of what is required for something like that.
Please do not judge me. I have had years of fighting a man for a divorce when he is way too hard to find and really don’t need anymore.
Here is the short version:
I married in November 2006 and husband decided to up and abandon me in March 2007 in Fort Bragg, NC after changing his mind about having children and wanted to party instead…Just never told me and up and poof disappeared and has remained unreachable for the past 3 years.
I have since then been fighting to get a divorce from him and when he wanted to come out of the woodworks he claimed he had divorced me…I and my lawyer both separately called his so called lawyer and the county clerk where he was to have filed and there has never been anything filed in his name or ssn…
So, I filed once again…Myself!!! We have contacted his lawyer as well as him and his family and all have remained unreachable once again. We have even sent out both the Marriage Dissolution Agreement and the Divorce papers both to his lawyer and to his last known address…The MDA still has not came back and supposedly his lawyer was to have him sign it a few weeks ago seeing as I never filed for alimony or anything; just a divorce. It still has never made it’s way back to my lawyer and my lawyer has decided to go and publish in the newspaper since this jerk off wants to remain unserved!!!
I finally decided to move on this year just like my husband has been with his gf for the past I would say 2 years now. I am now currently 3 months away from giving birth to my daughter. The father did the same thing my husband did so he will not be actively involved in my child’s life unless he pays support.
My Questions:
1. Seeing as how my husband has been unreachable and everything for a divorce for 3+ years now for a divorce…Am I to have to deal with him on the topic of child support too? or is there some way to deal with that matter without him being involved since his abandonment and my knowing of who the father is even though I will have a hard time contacting the father as well?
2. In TN, do you have to have the father there to sign the birth certificate when you name him?
3. In my situation, in TN, who do I name as the father on the birth certificate? The bio father whom I know is to be correct or my husband because of some stupid law? When my husband and I have not cohabitated together or even seen or talked to each other for over 3 years and he is unreachable as well as noncooperative in any situation here.
4. Who will the state go after for child support?
i need help on how to serve my husband with divorce papers i went to file twice already but he never opens the door for the police officers that go and serve him with the papers. he called me and told me that he’s never going to open the door. i need other options because i need the divorce asap and he wont get served help plese
In Kansas. Is it necessary to complete the financial breakdown for divorce papers if the divorce is uncontested with no request for child support or alimony?
Just wondering if I have to supply mortgage company with my divorce papers when the home was bought 2 years after my divorce was final and has nothing to do with my ex.
Maybe they need to know whether I owe alimony or not…..but that would be on the debt ratio paperwork I think. I can’t figure it out.
I live in California and I was served with divorce papers for my brother. I have been estranged from my brother as I believe most of my family are too. I have no idea where he is, so I can’t even contact him to let him know. My brother has never lived with me and I am really not sure it is legal for them to serve me with his papers. Although my brother and I don’t speak, I don’t want him to get a contempt charge or lose future parental rights because they served me. Is this legal?
I have divorce papers from the 1950s…one spouse alleges the other didn’t cook meals, one spouse was uneducated, wife entertained someone not her husband, etc. How much of this is reliable as the truth and how much do you think was fabricated by the attorneys to justify the divorce?
My friend is getting a divorce and she said her husband is being served the divorce papers tomorrow, what does that mean exactly…like who serves them? Where do they serve them at?
Would her husband have any idea it will be happening tomorrow?
I got married 7 years ago & that lasted about a month & now I’m trying to get a divorce. I have no contact with him & don’t want him to know anything about me. When he gets the divorce papers will it have my address on them? If so, is there any way around that? He’s a piece of sh*t & I know he’s been in jail since we broke up & I don’t want him to know where we live. Thanks for any help!
I live in Broward County Florida. I had an attorney and he didn’t but he was fighting everything. I am now unable to pay my attorney and she will no longer represent me, so I am doing this myself. My husband has now decided to sign the divorce papers and brought them to me. I do not know what to do with them. Do I have to fill out a form and take them to the courthouse to file them?
