I feel a moral responsibility to rescue men from their sexless marriages.
I’ve always wanted to help other people. I am very compassionate.
Even to the detriment of my own marriage, I will have sex with every needy man I can find.
How can I reconcile my giving nature with my husband’s desire to have me not screw other men?

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Me & my husband have been togather 4 years and married three. We have a 13 month old. Me and my husband have faught alot in the past & he has put his hands on me. I have been feeling weird these last couple of months towards him. I don’t have the desire for sex nor’ do i enjoy it anymore. & i don’t feel anything special anymore when we cuddle or spend time togather. I dont want to be with anyone else or if i were to become single i wouldnt wanna date for a while. I just don’t think i am happy anymore. sometimes i dread for him to come home from work. He is constantly putting me down since i am a stay at home mom. He doe’nt want me to get a job or anything. a stay at home mom is what he wants me to be. He is a sub contractor for a construction company that builds buildings. And he’s always telling i would get fired if i had a job and espeacialy if i had to do his job. He comes home telling me what to do and demanding that it gets done right then and there. But the confusing part about all of this is that for some reason i dont wanna leave him.And i know thats what i should do. But i am just not sure what it it is yet that holds me back. I dont know if i still love him or not because i dont have any romantic feelings for him anymore. I only know one reason why i am still trying to act like everything is okay between us and that would be my 13 month old daughter. Please help me out and give me advice and tell me what you think might be going on with me in this relationship and is there anything i can do to try to fix this. & what should i do for my daughters sake. thanks so much!

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Having trouble communicating with daughters 12,15 & 18. I’ve been living by myself for the last year. Told I ask to many questions. Just trying to find out whats new in thier lives. Am I out of line ? Asked the 15 y.o. "how her sister was tonight" on the phone and she got lippy. 12 y.o. says she glad we didn’t get 50/50 parenting time over attemping to help her with homework. 18 y.o. suggests maybe everybody is stressed, final orders is 3 days away after over year of lawyers etc. 18 y.o. says I ask same questions"like how is everybody". I learned from that to talk about something else. still feel alot of resentment or something. Suggestions are welcome !
I didn’t and don’t want a divorce. Parental evaluator lists 4 causes of failed marriage. Communications, peri-menipause,my drinking and failing health of our mothers(both requiring lots of help (stress).
I made some poor choices drinking to cope with stress and physically assualted wife once in long, long term marriage. I’m accoutable for my choices and kids see I got help for anger, depression and alcohol (haven’t drank in 13 months, no desire). Wife just gave up, won’t even talk about reconcilliation. Justs wants divorce and vindictive and greedy. Not feeling self pity any longer, I changed because, I WAS WRONG and still love her. I know this isn’t the right thing to do, it’s out of my control. Just have faith some day she’ll talk and maybe. Any comments now ? Just want the best for kids and wife.

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Last night I went out and lots of guys hit on me. It felt great, but when came down to conversation I found it so difficult to open up. I just got out of an emotionally abusive relationship, and I think it killed my desire to open up and let someone into my life. I’m going back to school, and my mom is helping me pay the bills. I am totally revamping my life and starting anew, so how do i find a new boyfriend in this process?

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I have known my boyfriend for 5 years and have dated him off and on several times throught the 5 years. We’ve never been intimate-NEVER. I think it’s weird. He says he has desire for me and that he just wants to be really close first. He also says he wants to be intimate. I asked him if he had a "normal" relationship with his old girlfriend and he said "yes". I’ve never met a guy like this. I need ideas on why he’s acting like this. No- he is not gay.

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I feel bad because I have absolutely NO desire whatsoever. My husband has talked to me several times about it and I think "Okay…tonight I will or when the kids are sleeping" but then by the evening, I’m tired and don’t want to. I usually sleep when our 2 year old is napping. I know it is bothering my husband and I hate being neglectful. My breast hurt beyond belief and being intimate right now while I’m pregnant, I just am not feeling it. Any suggestions or thoughts?

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