My mom says no I can’t have it (she doesn’t like me very much lol) and dad payed for it…he says yes but they are going through a divorce so technically right now it’s a marital asset..dad said i could have it when divorce is finalized (house will go into foreclosure in december and he says he’s going to have an estate sale) but i wanna just take it now…what are the chances of my getting arrested for stealing my own furniture???
im tellin you guys the lady is nuts she will call the cops..she’s one of those people that swears they are above the law and that everyone answers to them…the cops have been to our house so many times and usually they laugh at her but with my luck they’ll arrest me lol…things always seem to go wrong when it comes to me if its not one thing its another…but im pregnant so maybe they’ll be sympathetic
im tellin you guys the lady is nuts she will call the cops..she’s one of those people that swears they are above the law and that everyone answers to them…the cops have been to our house so many times and usually they laugh at her but with my luck they’ll arrest me lol…things always seem to go wrong when it comes to me if its not one thing its another…but im pregnant so maybe they’ll be sympathetic
im tellin you guys the lady is nuts she will call the cops..she’s one of those people that swears they are above the law and that everyone answers to them…the cops have been to our house so many times and usually they laugh at her but with my luck they’ll arrest me lol…things always seem to go wrong when it comes to me if its not one thing its another…but im pregnant so maybe they’ll be sympathetic

Me and my husband have been married since December 2010, together for about two years. We have a son together and I am pregnant with our second child.

There is a lot to how he got addicted and how it has affected him now.
His parents split up because his dad was addicted to porn and how he was very lazy. In my husband’s teenage years he lived with his dad and basically all he had was a computer and a dog as his best friend. To keep himself occupied he used the computer all the time. That is when he started to become reliant on porn to help occupy his time.
There is more to it than that but that is basically what started his addiction.

I found out after we got married that he watches porn very often, I admit I over reacted at first. I talked to him and explained my thoughts on porn in marriage. He said he would stop but that was a lie. He constantly lied to me about it and continued to look at it.
He did start to realize how much he ruined my trust and how I was beginning to feel about him. He realized if this continued then it would ruin our marriage. That is when he started to work on actually stopping. He has been a lot more open with me about it things and I know there is basically no way he has looked at porn in the past few months. His phone that he used to use is broken and the only computer we have is my laptop and I know he has not used that.
We had a talk yesterday about a lot and he admitted that he still has "cravings" for porn and it has been getting to a point where he almost can’t stand it. And basically if he had a chance he would probably end up giving in. He also has admitted that he is addicted and can not get rid of the want for it.
I realize porn is not always that bad but I still have my views on it in marriage. And the fact he is reliant on it does not help.
I want to be with him, I don’t want all of this to ruin our marriage. And I know he wants to be with me, he wants to get past this it is just hard for him. If things continue to be how it has been then I am afraid it will end up tearing us apart. I love him very much but this side of him I do not like.

Does anyone know any thing that could help him and help us get through this?
I want advice, not anything negative please.
I am actually wanting to help fix problems in my marriage, so if you have something negative to say please don’t say anything at all.
I plan on sticking by him and being there for him. I have told him that he has to want to. I honestly do think he needs to talk to someone, he just has to get to the point where he is okay talking to someone.

So my parents married for 32 years divorced in April. Basically all of the friendships they had were maintained by my Mother and so now my Dad is pretty much alone. My Husband and I spend time with him (I see him everyday at work) and we used to spend Saturdays over at his house or invite him to ours and usually do something another day throughout the week. My Dad is a great guy but has been going through a depression since he and my Mom split. He is taking new meds that seem to be helping but I worry about him being alone so much. He seems to want to spend everyday with my Husband and I, which would be fine except now it’s hard to get things done around the house and spend time with my Husband. I suggested a support group for divorced men but he didn’t seem to want much to do with that. I don’t mind spending so much time with him, but how do I encourage him to get out and make friends and start doing some things for himself? He’s 54 and a really fun guy, but shy and having a hard time making decisions for himself since not being with my very controlling Mom anymore. Anyone been through this or have any advice?

I recently just got a new bf. I like him so much, he understands me, and he always knows what to say. My parents arent to happy with me for havin a bf. The other night they got into a huge fight about it. They hardly let me spend any time with him, and Im afraid hes gonna break up with me because of this. My parents claim that they trust me, but i kinda dont think so. I really dont wanna break up with him or have him dump me. Any advice on what to do???

O btw Im 14 and hes 13
i dont know why im not supposed to have a bf either, cuz im a really good student, i usually do what Im supposed to, and I’m a good athlete (sports are really inportant to my dad).

My parents are 60 and preparing to get divorced. They’re sort of separated. My Mom left Dad’s house and came to my town to find work as an in-house babysitter. She’s desperate to "live a little" so she ‘s into dating sites and agreeing to even spend the night at men she barely knows.

She’s not at all the sexy Pamela Anderson type, she’s a modest looking woman who has neglected herself all her life because of my Dad.

Today she asked me on the phone to pick her up tonight from a guy’s place. But when I get to his building, I call her to get out and she tells me she can’t leave, when I insist she tells me she’s ok and she’s staying the night cause she wants to…

She wants to come to my place tomorrow and when I told her i don’t want this stranger to give her a ride to my home address, she just laughed at me. She doesn’t understand that as a 28 y.o daughter, I can’t trust a 50 y.o man that my mom met on the Internet a week ago.

My brother offered to pick her up tomorrow morning from this guy’s flat and my mum still insists that this man bring her to my house with his car.

I believe I have the right not to let a stranger know where I live and I am very worried that my Mom might get herself in risky situations, but she just acts like a rebellious teenager, lying to me and my brother several times.

She is not open to seeing a counsellor or a support group for divorced women, that would help her be more confident and balanced… She just wants to find another boyfriend fast.Another man to depend on. She also has no savings, no place to go except this family she’s a babysitter for and my grandparents house 200 miles away. I live with roommates so I can’t tell her to come live with me on a permanent basis.

If I lived with her I’d be worried about the men she’d bring to the house.

How can I detach myself from my Mom’s crazy dating situation?

I have a temporary court ordered visitation for my daughter to visit her dad on weekends. I live in NY now, can i move out of state if i choose to?

i just became engaged.i’m 33 never been married or have children,worked all my life at a good job.i have multible stocks,bonds,and savings accounts that = over 100k.my bf is divorced with a child a huge debt(30k) from his exwife with no other savings.he is a very "devoted" dad(what his son whats, his son gets) and has already told me his son is his 1st priority and he will never love me as much as his son.now add a very controling,money loving exwife to the picture that guilts my bf into giving her anything she wants.he already gave her more money/personal property than the courts ordered and continues to do so.i have played with the idea of a prenup with my bf but hes not for. its a trust thing he said.if i pushed it he might do it but it would damage our relationship.i love my bf and he loves me but i will allways be second to his son and if push came to shove i don’t know what would happen.what can i do to protect my money other than a prenup?

My daughter chose to live with her dad when she was 12 because she knew she would have more freedom. She has been with him for 3 years now and he is neglectful. I can prove he is unfit. I cannot afford an attorney. What steps do I need to take? I do not know what forms to fill out and how to figure child support he will have to start paying me.

ok so my parents are getting at divorce and ya it really sucks and i am upset about it. my dad want me to go to like a support group. i am 14 and i was wondering if there is anyone out there who has or is going to a support group for a divorce??

Do i have a say in court? Im 14 years old in New York state. I want to stay with my mom. Do i have to see my dad if he gets visitation rights? For some reason im really emotionally unaffected by the divorce but im angry at my dad for hurting my mom.