Thursday, September 15th, 2011 at
6:14 am
I filed divorce papers bout a month ago in california and am wondering is ther any kind of legal papers I can get my soon to be ex husband to sign to say I can remarry now. My dad got my mom to sign a paper to allow him to remarry before there divorce was final and he did, this was in Montane
Tuesday, September 13th, 2011 at
7:58 pm
My ex wife and I are tryng to get divorced, long story short there was a family law standing pretrial order saying a bunch of stuff about not being able to get rid of stuff, add debts…etc. However, she went and moved down to south florida with her parents where she lied and said she was a single person and was put on the mortgage with her parents. Now I know she is not a "single" person as we are not divorced yet becasue she wont file necssary papers..but isnt that contempt..I mean she went out and got in on this debt with her parents..which I have no idea how she got approved since she does not work! Meanwhile I am stuck waiting on a divorce hearng in Aug. to deal with the fact nothing is being done. Should I have my lawyer file contempt charges? How do I notify anyone of her fraud saying she was a single person… technically that is a marital asset right?
All Iknow is after we went to mediation I we agreed would pay her 2 years back child support and let her dad adopt our child.. that was the last time I saw her. She packed up and moved with her parents. I looked it up on the internet where her and her parents are on the mortgage… but only the parents are on the deed. But the family law order said neither her nor I could incur unreasonalbe or unnecessary debts until the divorce in final. I would not be out for blood, but I went to mediation last year and once I agreed to let her dad adopt the child between us and she split town, her and he lawyer have iled to file necessary papers so we can get divorced and her lawyer will not communicate with mine… so it is back to court and I KNOW she will not be at the hearing in Aug. She isnt going to drive 8 hours for that. I am sure she will come up with some lame excuse and just have it drug out longer.
Sunday, September 11th, 2011 at
8:38 pm
My Dad is getting a divorce from my step mom and is going to move closer to me and my mom and due to his mental health I want a restraining order so he can’t be anywhere near our street. How far can a restraining order be?
Saturday, September 10th, 2011 at
10:54 pm
Just wondering if anyone can help steer me in the right direction.
My mum has depression/anxiety. Like really big problems. Psychiatric hospitals/overdoses/police being called all of these are a regular occurence. I am 38 and have 2 children (6 & 7). She has been sick for a long time. She divorced my dad, and whilst my dad and siblings are supportive, as her daughter I wear the brunt of it. This weekend she has told me she cant cope with being a mother anymore and is ‘retiring’. Those words felt like a sledgehammer, but i kept it together to get thru my husbands birthday, kids sleep overs. Its Sunday night and i guess I am just feeling it now.
Are there support groups out there for me? I am having trouble ‘processing’ it all. Coping with it. I mean my day to day life will proceed, i have the kids and work etc etc, but there is a hole in my heart, a sadness that is unending. I wish I had someone who understood.
Saturday, September 10th, 2011 at
10:53 pm
how can she get custody back if mediation at the end of that summer the dad doesn’t agree to give child back, and the mediator never scheduled them for another court date at the end of summer.
Thursday, September 8th, 2011 at
7:35 pm
I’m 13 years old my dad has mentaly and physicaly abused me but he is very clever and doesnt leave evidense. My mom drinks alot and comes home drunk and i dont eat hardly at all. My bestfriend’s mom wants to help me divorce my parents. By the way my parents are divorced and i have a younger sibiling who lives with my dad but she is perfectly fine i am not. I need help please help me!
Thursday, September 8th, 2011 at
9:02 am
Is it pretty normal for a grown adult to deal with depression and anger brought on by a parents divorce?
There is more to it then just the divorce. My sister (31yr) and I (24yr) caught my father (55yr) cheating on my mother. The women he was with was 35yr who has kids the same age as some of my nieces and nephews. He has moved this women into our house, spoils her children, and doesn’t really give us kids (5 kids) the time of day anymore. He told one of his confidants that if it wasn’t for my sister and I, he could still be married and have his mistress. He hasn’t tried to contact me in a while. I know he has a lot of anger for my sister because she got my mother a lawyer and blames a lot of things on her. I really don’t know how to deal with this situation. I feel that we have been replaced. ( Side story, My father had a child before i was born. He knew about him but never claimed him. I found out when i was 18 and my other sister and I found him. This forgotten child is now part our lives) So, I know my dad is capable of ignoring his kids. I never thought this would happen to me since i thought i shared a pretty good relationship with him.
Saturday, September 3rd, 2011 at
1:26 am
The judge ordered the life insurance to me and my brothers in my parents divorce but my dad at some point changed the benifciery to my aunt who has taken everything in my dads passing and I mean everything we didnt get 1 thing of our dads is there anything I can do is she aloud to take everything? I have the divorce papers and death certificate i had to pay for Please looking for some help on this issue thanks
Thursday, September 1st, 2011 at
6:44 pm
My mother has been acting like a child with my dad and new stepmom. It’s like she’s back in highschool. Anyways i called her on it. she flipped out about how she’s my mother and can’t tell her what to do( i’m 22) then she decided to tell me that it was my brothers, sister and my fault for my parents divorce ( she had an online affair and she was the one who filed for the divorce 2 years ago). now i’m just curious. Would you ever blame/tell you children, no matter how old they were, that they were the reason for your divorce?
Tuesday, August 30th, 2011 at
5:01 am
I’ve had a rough childhood, and I really need to talk to someone. I have asked my dad several times to put me in counseling, but he always gets mad. how do i convince him to let me go?
i have to convice my dad because i kinda need him to help me pay for it.