Alright..so this guy asked me out a couple times and about 3 weeks ago I said yes. All summer he was acting and telling me how much he wanted to be with me but it seems like once we started going out he’s been pushing me away. I found out he still likes the girl he’s liked for a looong time but he says he likes me too. he also always acts like he likes other girls….so what should i do? Do you think its time to break up? or should i just give it some more time and see if things change

I been single for 3 years, seems hard to find a good girl were I live and I go on a date a couple times a month. What do you all suggest as a good dating site to choose from and why?

Me and this girl had sex a couple times and she said she might be pregnant earlier and later said she got her period..IF she is pregnant and has the baby, would I owe allimony if I stop talking to her? could she go after me for money?

My wife and I when we were dating couldn’t seem to go more than a day or two being around each other with out wanting to have sex. We were creative and had fun with it. Now we have been married for almost 7 years and for the past 4-5 of that time we go weeks and sometimes months without having sex or being intimate. I feel like my wife does not want to be with me anymore because when we do get intimate I always have to initiate it…I can not remember the last time she came to me and wanted to be with me sexually. What should or can I do to help the situation?
Some good advice so far but just to help everyone to help me I am a good husband I do what I am asked to do I am very loving and treat my wife like gold…also, I have spoken to her about this and let her know how I feel about it a couple times and things get better for a week or so then it is back to the same old thing. I do not feel I should have to start things up all the time. It makes me feel like I am not wanted or that it is more of a chore than a want.

Me and my boyfriend of 2 years just broke up Friday. We’ve always been really happy (we’ve argued over dumb pointless things of course but we’ve never gotten in a fight and broken up) So he broke up with me in texting Friday..really randomly. Thursday we were just talking about our 2 year and everything was so normal. He was giving me hints to what he was got me..(being sent to him in the mail he just ordered it this week) and everything was so happy. we we’re taking pictures and went out and hung out. Friday i was really sick so we didnt see each other. It was in texting which i said if we were going to have a serious conversation that could change our relationship (i got the hint that he was going to do this by the way he was texting me all of a sudden) that it should be in person or at least on the phone. He said he wanted to in person but i was sick and didn’t go to school. What theres no after school all of a sudden? He waited to do this till 9 oclock.I offered that we talk saturday morning/afternoon but he refused. And he refused to talk on the phone and ignored my calls after i called a couple times. Then he said if he didn’t do this now in texting, that he’d never explain to me why he was breaking up with me and our relationship would just end without me knowing why or anything. Which is really unfair. So i said fine. And he broke up with me and said hes not happy with the relationship anymore..we have been fighting lately but because hes starting a new job..my grandfather just died..my whole familys stressed out and trying to handle things. Things were finally getting in control and settling down and he randomly does this. Why would we be so normal less than 24 hrs before and then this? He ordered me a gift in the same week and then this? We talked in person today but i didn’t get many answers and im still left confused..well not really. I’m thinking its another girl that he likes. But i have no proof only lots of signs showing this. I love him with all my heart..we’ve been through a lot together. And today we hugged and kissed for the last time and said i love you and he said he wants to be really good friends with me and he just wants to be single for a while. I handled it pretty well during the break up. I told him i want him to be happy..i really do. Just things are still really hard for me to get used to. I ended up breaking down at work and i can’t concentrate on anything and he keeps confusing me. He puts things like how sad and ashamed he is as his mood on myspace and then puts in those bulletin questionnaires "if someone asked you out would you say yes" and he said "if the right person asked" and "if someone liked you right now would you like them to tell you" "if the right person told me". And theres a lot of other signs that aren’t just over the computer that i feel this. He says he loves me..he still wants me to wear the ring he gave me..i love him so much and i hate to just throw this away ..but i think we’re both confused..or he’s just being a jerk and telling me what i want to here so he can act like he can move on and be happy and i won’t bug him..we have classes together and he still wants to be bestfriends and everything. But yet he said he deleted everything from myspace but he said he still wants to hang out…i’m so confused..and i really just wish i had someone to talk to. I’ve talked to my friends but they just want to get me a new boyfriend, and i’ve already been asked out twice and i’ve only been single for a weekend! I don’t want anyone else though, i love him..is it possible to love again? I feel like i’m going to feel like this forever. And guys do you think its another girl? The sudden-ness of it and signs..or is he confused?
Holy crap i didn’t realize it was so long! Sorry!