So he is coming back from Iraq, (his second tour) and we will resume with our life, marriage and all. We have had some issues together, and seperately. I think we should go to couples conseling…but would that counselor be able to address the issues we’ve had seperately? For ex, what he has seen in Iraq?




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We as a couple have deep relationship problems that includes sex as well. We want to get help from a counselor. Now what exact is Couple counseling and sex counseling. Are these two different things? Also how do you differentiate between them. When I looked for couple counselors in my area on Google, I found quite a mixed results.
Please guide me to search what I need. Thanks in advance.




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do parents deliberately try to be assholes to each other during divorce ? all they end up doing is making an ass out of themselves my mom is a bitch she is getting married to a man I dont like my dad is a dick bc he likes to treat me as his counselor. all they keep doing is making me not want to live with either of them btw my mom and dad haven’t even been split up for 3 months lil soon for my mother to get engaged eh ? yeah so I think they try to make each other sad but all the hell they are doing is hurting me !!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do ??????




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does anyone know a good, free, online counselor that wont call you just email you?

please i really need one my best friend just started drinking 5 days ago and now is going to jail becuz he got drunk and broke into a store. so please i really want a counselor for not only thing but all the stuff that goes on in my life. please please please! help me.
by the way my friend is only 15




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My husband and I have been married for nearly 3 years. He lost his job; suffered the loss of 2 close friends; and has had several operations (3 rotator cuff operations). During all this, we have lost our sex life and sense of joy and fun. What do I tell him to get him motivated to get help and see a counselor together?




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My husband I have been separated for over a year, My counselor said that thee is more domestic violence in the marriage than the biopolar. He says things to me that sound threatening and then apologizes. I would like to get out of the marriage there is property involved but I cannot afford an attorne. I have been working on my credit and would like to protect myself from liabilty since there are things in both our names.




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I am currently getting counseling with a general counselor for Panic Disorder. I am on Lexapro and Xanax, which i am reducing my dosage of (xanax only) to see how i do on just the lexapro. I am hearing more about Cognitive Therapy and am wondering what the difference really is. I am alot better since my panic attacks began in April, but am worried about coming off my meds. Any advice on the cognitive therapy?




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My husband of 7 yrs has recently "come out of the closet" and we are in the middle of a divorce. I am seeing a counselor and on medication, but feel like I need to speak to people on a daily basis just to get out of bed. We have two children who are caught in the middle and don’t know the truth about their dad. Every day I get slammed with more bad news and discouragement that I find it hard to get out of bed for fear of what the day might bring. I called on support group that I found on line but they said that they only meet for death purposes. Is there a support group for people going through a divorce or even more specific to my cause in Duluth, Minnesota? Please advise.




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I live in CA and my wife and I are going through a divorce.We are also going through a custody battle our our 2 daughters(3&4)I have two prior misdemeanor domestic violence charges.The first one was 4 years ago and the most recent was this past February.Neither incidents were serious hence the reason they were dropped to misdemeanors.I am going to the classes,completed my community service and paid all my fines.I have not gotten into any kind of trouble since.My counselor wrote me an excellent progress report and I am half way to completing my classes.

Today we went to mediation and I mentioned a drug abuse problem my wife has had for at least the past 2 years.She was ordered to submit to a drug test and she did not show up.We have court on the 9th of November and I am extremely worried about the outcome.Do I have agood chance of gaining custody since she automatically tested positive by not showing up?Or will they take them away from both of us?Or do she have a good chance of keeping our kids if she does not have a bad record?I don’t mind if she has full custody I only hope they don’t take them away from us.Please help!Thank you!
Thank you for the answer, although Social services is not involved, it’s all through he court so the judge will have the last word.I’m just very worried because you are right,I did open up a can of worms and I regret it so much.I just want to hear some opinions.
Thank you jusjokin, I feel so sad because I love my kids so much that I don’t want them exposed to drugs but at the same time I feel extremely worried about the outcome because like you say they are the ones that suffer, again thank you.
Thank you cstina, I am really trying to better myself in every way that I can for them and for myself also.




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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 years now. We have a house, business, and 2 yr old daughter together. A lot of strain has been put on our relationship for a while now because of money and his family living with us for the last 3 years. For the past 3 months he has said that things are not working out. He says that he still loves me but just can’t live with me. At first he wouldn’t agree to go to a counselor because he said it didn’t work for him and his ex-wife. After explaining that I wasn’t his ex and that I committed to improving us, he agreed to go to counseling while on a trial separation. We both agreed that we would NOT see other people while separated. So my question is: Is it ok to keep having sex while we are separated? Is it ok to call each other endearing terms and to tell each other I love you?
Please only answer if you have been in this situation, know someone in this situation, or are a therapist.




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