My mom says no I can’t have it (she doesn’t like me very much lol) and dad payed for it…he says yes but they are going through a divorce so technically right now it’s a marital asset..dad said i could have it when divorce is finalized (house will go into foreclosure in december and he says he’s going to have an estate sale) but i wanna just take it now…what are the chances of my getting arrested for stealing my own furniture???
im tellin you guys the lady is nuts she will call the cops..she’s one of those people that swears they are above the law and that everyone answers to them…the cops have been to our house so many times and usually they laugh at her but with my luck they’ll arrest me lol…things always seem to go wrong when it comes to me if its not one thing its another…but im pregnant so maybe they’ll be sympathetic
im tellin you guys the lady is nuts she will call the cops..she’s one of those people that swears they are above the law and that everyone answers to them…the cops have been to our house so many times and usually they laugh at her but with my luck they’ll arrest me lol…things always seem to go wrong when it comes to me if its not one thing its another…but im pregnant so maybe they’ll be sympathetic
im tellin you guys the lady is nuts she will call the cops..she’s one of those people that swears they are above the law and that everyone answers to them…the cops have been to our house so many times and usually they laugh at her but with my luck they’ll arrest me lol…things always seem to go wrong when it comes to me if its not one thing its another…but im pregnant so maybe they’ll be sympathetic

My wife has lied to state police to have me arreststed, lied to dyfs about her crack use – she was found out when she failed piss test, lied to every one that i beat her when it was self defense( i called the cops to get her off me). i feel as if i have to prove my innocence. she even has some dirtball living in my house. my current attorney is not aggressive. can anyone please help me with a lead on a "dirty snake" type attorney that will knock this liar down to human level. at my witts end. she even is now brainwashing kids. me and my kids are begging for any help with a good attorney.

We have been married 9 years have 3 boys but he went behind my back n rented a house after he left me last year after a argument over him not coming home,he was supposed to ve staying at his dad house to cool down but didnt come back and when i went to his dad house to gt the biys i noticed all 4 of his tires on flat and i asked him what girl did that bt instead he blamed me,i was so hurt bc i have never done anything to hurt him,so i got the boys n went home then a month later found out he moved in a house i was upset but i didnt leave him and everysince then,it only got worst,he has been hitting me for anything one min he tells us to come over and when he doesnt want us around he tells us to leave n not come back,so last week i had surgery on my back because i got bit by a poisonus spider,and the day i got out the hospital he kept callin me telling me he hate me he dont want me so i said ok,,i will just tell ur mom to bring the kids home he got upset bc he wanted me to come i told him i couldnt because i was to sick to drive so he got mad and wouldnt talk to me for a week,so friday the boys were at my husband father house and they call me and tld me to come get them bc their papa kept hitting on them n cursing them, so i asked them to call their dad since he lived around the corner and when they did their dad told them he was asleep,so they kept calling so i went to get them n took them to their dad house to get their clothes n he refused to give it to them so i asked him to give tthe clothes because they needed them,he got up cursed me punch me choked n threw me to the floor head first,he sat on me and wouldnt let me up after i screamed he let me up in my back was covered in blood bc i had just had surgery i have cuts on my arm n legs, so the police took him to jail n he bonded out..but i feel bad for calling the cops,why do i feel bad when he has hurt me? he has been convicted before for assault with a gun on me,i feel like i shouldnt have call the police,but why do i feel like this,..every other week he tells us not to come then he says he wants his family..i dont know why i keep allowing him to do this,he doesnt take care the boys at all or spend time with them,i dont understand why i feel guilty..i filed for divorce n havent spoken to him since..Is this the right decision or will he change?..Will he ever regret how horrible he has done me?Will he even care i filed divorce?

i have had two women tell me that by my filing divorce before my wife,although she had tried to hire an atty,but i filed the divorce myself,in her mind was me leaving her,even though she tried to have me sent falsely to prison.Does this make sense,that a woman would quit her job,try to have the child’s father falsley imprisoned (telling the cops i am a convicted felon with firearms,when in fact i was never legally found guilty)
but then getting irrate that i filed divorce successfuly first,tryig to stop her from divorcing me?I filed with the intent to stall the divorce,but 7 times in 8 mths she has tried to have me arrested,like sedning herslef emails and claiming they are from me,claiming i have threatened gher for sex after she had told Legal Aid i have not abused her in 12 mths,so they wouldnt represent her,etc.
Does this sound like a woman simplywanting "control" in a marriage?or a woman that seriously wants to be divorced?
i have never abused my wife,it is the length of time that Legal Aide asks you idiot

First off,please no bashing and don’t suggest counseling-been there done that. I know I have issues …Am legally separated but he is still in the picture,for the kids. I am nurse,surprised that I’m codependent-ha!ha! Husband of 11 yrs, unemployed more than not-currently working.He got into crack,bankrupted us,in and out of rehab 3 times.A week in jail a yr ago finally helped set him straight,I think he’s been clean since.While using(this has been a 5 yr ordeal) he got physically and even more verbally abusive(always was arrogant).I started drinking to kill the pain/cope( I know better… but everywhere I turned to for support backfired on me and…. he is a great b.s.’er,so cops and everyone thinks he is wonderful.Went to Salvation Army when he tried to strangle me,they threatened to take away my kids…) I have had the same fulltime job for 11 yrs,but most of my friends are gone due to down sizing.My kids all have been in counseling and are happy that dad is"clean" and mostly being nice now,so at the last min I stopped the divorce and kept separation.I can’t help but resent him,afraid he’ll relapse,afraid of his temper,refuse to confide in him cuz he uses anything I say in confidence,against me.Threatened me and family when I filed for the D.Dad is real sick,so I won’t leave the area. He just can’t understand that intellectually I KNOW he is trying,but my heart and fear hold me back from trusting. Whacked isn’t it? Are there support groups on line that are completely confidential that he can’t track?? Thanks

Divorce on hold? Is this normal?
Hired this paralegal, who’s dad is a lawyer to do my divorce for cheap. He began it in Oct. He got my ex’s county wrong and the cops for serving sent it back. He wanted to serve him via certified mail, but now says they will serve him afterall. He keeps sayin the cops will serve ine week, then the next, etc. My mom says he is a con artist. He says that the attorney general are dragging their heels for a court hearing to sue my ex husband for child support, we are waiting for that and they are sticking their nose in my divorce case business.

He was planning on me being divorced late Dec but it might not end up being till after that.

Does this happen alot? My ex wasnt paying CS so I turned him into my state attorney generals child support division. Supposedly I shouldve done the divorce first?

My brother is going through a messy divorce. He has custody of the two children and he and they have been living with me for 1 and a half years. I’ve put them to bed, fed them, read to them, picked them up from school and helped with homework, and I’ve pretty much been a mom to them. Their mother is a real piece of work. She abandoned them for a week to go to a guy she met on the internet to only find out he didn’t make as much as my brother so she went back to my brother and said she wanted to "try again." What a joke, (she only ever cares about the money) stupidly he took her back, and now it’s a divorce to end all divorces with a custody battle to boot. (she’s only in it for child support $)
Now my brother had to go away on business for 5 months. So he tried to set up a pretty reasonable schedule for the kids to see their mom (they do see her plenty.) (We haven’t received and answer to this request yet, and now I doubt we will) Well, she took them for Christmas break with the knowledge that she was supposed to return them to me the day before school started and she never did. I waited for them and when she never showed up my brother called her for me and after a dozen phone calls she simply said, "I’m not bringing them back." I called the police and they wouldn’t do a thing because "she’s the mother." Even though she is the non-custodial parent! My brother was on the phone with the cops telling them he didn’t give her any more permission to have them longer then Christmas and they STILL wouldn’t do anything! Even though I had all the paper work stating that he is the custodial parent!
There’s a custody date a few days away, so the cop actually said "Well, what’s a few more days?" She kidnapped them, she won’t let them call and she won’t answer my calls, and I miss them like crazy and the law won’t help! I’ve scoured the internet but I can’t find a support group for AUNTS in this situation. Please, does anyone know a real website I can go to? I miss them so much and really want to talk to someone who’s going through something like this too.

My wife is a (legal) immigrant from mexico that i met in 2003. We got married in 2004 and I thought i had married the woman of my dreams. Apparently, this was not the case…

Initially, our marriage was amazing. The sex was in constant supply and she was a wonderful cook and homemaker. But now, things are fast turning sour. Seemingly out of the blue my wife now wants a divorce. She was screaming the other day about how she would divorce me and take the house and half my possessions. When i gently told her about the prenuptial agreement that we signed, she went ballistic! She was hitting me and throwing such a fit that I almost had to call the cops.

She still somehow thinks shes entitled to some monetary reward by divorcing me. She now acts completely disgruntled and is on the phone all day with her lawyer.

What should i do?

ok now i have been a lurker on here for a LONG time and recently off and on during my issues post questions. now for every question i asked, for every god dern question anyone else asked.. majority of it is someones opinion based on the first emotion when reading and then the rest MARRIAGE COUNSELING!

please oh dear people, why do people suggest such retarded ridiculous thing to do? and i would really like why that is even an occupation, because did you not infact get together on good terms all by yourself, had relationship all by yourself, but now because its hard, trying, lets go pay some stranger to fix your love life? how in the hell does that make any sense???
HA, damn it people make me laugh! HAHA

I understand what all of you are saying however i just didnt feel the need to write out all the crap yes all marriage counselors are for. no crap to the unbiased non side taking personi get it.

my question is still un answered because that still isnt justifiable when you can argue over something and make up thats not different then a major meltdown and talkig it out and fixing. no difference!

and to be blunt, damn right there shouldnt police officers, i dunno how many times i watched my mothers house get vandalized, broken into by a crazed boyfriend and the cops DID NOTHING, and made her wait before letting her have restrainging orders, cops are good for nothing! especially protection which is there motto right!

yay to the peeps whom agree with me… you understand what im getting at.
dr. mike … that was good dude!

Recently we had a domestic dispute. Cops were called. Now my husband is receiving an Article 15. Even though charges will be dropped and he will seek personal counseling and marriage counseling. Will he be discharged? If so what type of discharge? He does have bit of a record.. And also had a previous Article 15 for something else. Is there anything I can do to help? Please no negative feedback. I just want to help.. Thanks!