me and my bf just broke up. it would have been 11 months on friday. i love him so much. and we had plans to move out after he graduated this year, and like talked about the future, together. And he broke up with me yesterday before school started.
i love him so much, and i dont want to lose him
so any advice about how to deal with the break up?
or on how to win him back?
he told me that he still loves me. and that even though we are broken up he doesnt want anyone else.
but thats just making it harder for me to deal with it
thanks in advance!
the how to win him back would be great as well, thats what i want more than coping with it. i want him back!
he tol me he needed time to think, he just left but he said while hes gone he will consider going back out with me. what should i do about all this?
well, i live with him, long story about y that is. but so it just started out as a bad day, for both of us. and we were in a bad mood cuz we were late getting up, and so walking up the hill to school i was carying alot of stuff; my backpack, my gym bag and my purse. adn he was like y do u carry ur purse to school and i was like cuz if my makup smears i can fix it and he was like well thats just proof that ur to ugly for makup. whcih was what started the whole blow up thing. and i no he said it out of anger, but it stil hurt, he even told me that he didnt mean it and that i was the most beautiful thing in his world. but it started a fight about everything bad that has happened so while remembering all the bad he broke up with me, without even thinking about the good!
its not that hes scared of a commited relationship, i asked him about that, and he said hes sick of the fighting, which theres not much of, but there is fighting!, gut its fighting over stpid stuff that ends at the first chance we have to talk about it and to understand.

What are the odds of a partner finding out that their partner cheated on them in the past? Does the partner/spouse ALWAYS find out eventually, or can someone truly keep it a secret? This involves someone who cheated in a long-term, commited relationship, and later went on to get engaged to the person they cheated on. He’s never shared the fact that he cheated on her…Will she eventually find out, and is it better for her to find out before marriage and kids???

What are the odds of a partner finding out that their partner cheated on them in the past? Does the partner/spouse ALWAYS find out eventually, or can someone truly keep it a secret? This involves someone who cheated in a long-term, commited relationship, and later went on to get engaged to the person they cheated on. He’s never shared the fact that he cheated on her…Will she eventually find out, and is it better for her to find out before marriage and kids???

Do you feel that it is wrong to chat when playing games or on Yahoo Messenger when your in a commited relationship?

What has been the average grieving period for the breakup of a commited relationship? I kind of feel bad because I have given up any hope of getting back together and, in my mind, have moved on. I am not angry. I am not actively seeking a new relationship, but I have let go.
I didn’t mention she initated the break up one short month ago.