I am currently deployed and going through a divorce with one child. I was told that I will be paying child support since I am here and they are there and that I would pay 20% of what make for child support. So I was wondering what part of my pay do they determine that from is it base, bah and bas or just base. I also was wondering how is bah determined after the divorce for me? We are going for joint custody but I’m not quiet sure as far who is getting primary.

My wife filed divorce 2 years ago. The judge ordered 50/50 custody and ordered me to pay child support. Since then, we’ve been working things out and neither of us have persued completing the divorce in over a year.

How do we stop the divorce, and do we have to go back to court to stop the child support?

Also, if we split up again will he have to fight for custody all over again?

My ex wife and I are tryng to get divorced, long story short there was a family law standing pretrial order saying a bunch of stuff about not being able to get rid of stuff, add debts…etc. However, she went and moved down to south florida with her parents where she lied and said she was a single person and was put on the mortgage with her parents. Now I know she is not a "single" person as we are not divorced yet becasue she wont file necssary papers..but isnt that contempt..I mean she went out and got in on this debt with her parents..which I have no idea how she got approved since she does not work! Meanwhile I am stuck waiting on a divorce hearng in Aug. to deal with the fact nothing is being done. Should I have my lawyer file contempt charges? How do I notify anyone of her fraud saying she was a single person… technically that is a marital asset right?
All Iknow is after we went to mediation I we agreed would pay her 2 years back child support and let her dad adopt our child.. that was the last time I saw her. She packed up and moved with her parents. I looked it up on the internet where her and her parents are on the mortgage… but only the parents are on the deed. But the family law order said neither her nor I could incur unreasonalbe or unnecessary debts until the divorce in final. I would not be out for blood, but I went to mediation last year and once I agreed to let her dad adopt the child between us and she split town, her and he lawyer have iled to file necessary papers so we can get divorced and her lawyer will not communicate with mine… so it is back to court and I KNOW she will not be at the hearing in Aug. She isnt going to drive 8 hours for that. I am sure she will come up with some lame excuse and just have it drug out longer.

My wife filed divorce 2 years ago. The judge ordered 50/50 custody and ordered me to pay child support. Since then, we’ve been working things out and neither of us have persued completing the divorce in over a year.

How do we stop the divorce, and do we have to go back to court to stop the child support?

Also, if we split up again will he have to fight for custody all over again?

So my roomate has 2 daughters with his ex fiance. She has 3 children all together 2 of them are his. He wants to claim only one of his daughters and let her claim the other because he thinks this is fair. She refuses and says if he tries to claim her that it will fall back on him and the IRS will come after him. He pays a week child support. He has never missed a payment and is completely up to date. He has custody of them on every other weekend. If he claims one of his daughters will he get in trouble?

My wife and I just recently agreed upon a trial separation. I could go into a lot of detail about it but i’ll just ask my question. She is the one who wanted to separate because she says she wasn’t happy with the way I treated her and my son. I don’t hit her, demean her, drink too much, stay out too late, and never cheat on her. It’s just some little issues that I think could had been worked out by trying but she said she has been unhappy for a long time with me. She never let me know this so I could try and fix it. I thought she was always happy. Anyways she has moved out and she told me she wasn’t in love with me anymore. She also told me that she woke up one morning and just felt like she would be happier on her own with her and just the baby. I ask her if she thinks the separation will help. And she says she doesn’t know and I have also asked her if she wants to get a divorce and she says no. She moved back home with her parents and took the child. She is trying to make a living back at home living with her parents so she can get her own place and just raise our son on her own. I help her out with child support since she is not in the same state anymore. I want us to work out especially for our child but just the same I want us to work out because I think we still have something together even though she does not see it.

My questions are:
1. How am I to know what she wants?
2. How long should I wait before moving on?
3. What are some questions I should ask her to see if she does want to get back besides the regular "will we ever get back together?"
4. We have been separated for about a month now. What should my next step be in my situation.

Thanks for the help.

Hears my case; I would like to add my name to my husbands bank account but I worry child support will take his money. I have a child from a previous relationship which I am surrendering my rights over to her aunt. After words if I add my name to his account will child support take his money for my arrears? No current child support.

I am in the military and just relocated from TX to SC, but I am still a resident of TX.. I took a paycut on this move as well of 0 a month. Would I be able to request a reduction in the amount of child support that I pay. Currently I am paying 35. My rank is SFC with 15 years of service. I pay for 3 children at a rate of 31%.

I am court ordered to be paid, but he has not filed a tax return in over 10yrs and gets paid cash where he works as an apartment maintenance worker and gets free rent. I am owed over 30,000 in child support, any suggestions? When I contact child support they tell me there is nothing they can do.

My boyfriend is in the military and stationed overseas. He and his wife have been legally separated for 9 1/2 years. A year ago he filed divorce papers, so that we can get married. She has the papers, but didn’t sign them. They have a daughter together, and he pays child support, and says that he has agreed to alimony. However, she has refused to sign the papers, and won’t give an explanation as to why.
So my question, can the marriage still be completely dissolved, even if she refuses to sign?