So i want to break up with my boyfriend, and have been somewhat giving him the silent treatment.
We have been together since December of last year.
I have only been able to see him like once or twice a month since we have been together.
My mom and I also talked this over, and she decided I should just break up with him.
But here is the problem…. Like I mentioned above I only see him like once or twice a month, and since I am currently home bound (brooding some baby chickens, and preparing to brood baby quail, then after that brooding some more quail) I probably won’t actually see him in person at like another month.
I want to breakup in person since it is more mature, but i don’t know how much longer I can wait, especially since he keeps badgering me with texts asking what’s going on with me lately, and how I am driving him crazy, and asking if there is a problem he is unaware of.
Since he sends these like three times a week I am having a hard time not replying to him that I want to break up….. Please some advice.
The reason I am asking this now is because he just sent me a REALLY badgering text, and I want to know if I should just end it here and now, so I can keep my sanity.
Thanks.
Hahahaha your answer made me laugh… And its probably true… if I choose birds over him… Then there are defiantly some issues.
17, so yes still pretty young. And the birds are my only thing I do for money right now, so i have to be sure they are all healthy before they go off to their new homes.
And when i say badgering, I mean that if we go one day without talking he askes me if something is wrong. I don’t like clingyness. :/
Also we did see eachother all the time before we got together, then it got restricted because of my Mom not trusting him, then once she did trust him, I had begun getting preoccupied with other things.
Though yes I agree. I do suck.

come from a family of 5 kids. A 40′s 50′ and 60′s brood. Mum and dad loved each other, working class people, three of the siblings are older now in the late 50′and 60′s me and my brother are children of the 1960′s.
Out of all of us, 4 of our lot have had wives or husbands that cheated on them, of my siblings 1 cheated on the partner.
Isn’t this a scary set of figures? All of us were equally devastated by their partners infidelity, (but only the one that was cheating got a divorce years ago)…
I am now in my 50′s also got divorced (making 2 of us now)and wondered if there is any such thing these days as a sacred relationship like my parents had? What is in store for naive people who grew up in a fairy tale example of two loving people who toiled and raised their kids with values and moral, and above all, to be loyal? Sorry to go on, but my heart saddens more and more as I read about all these hard stories and lack of hope situations people find themsleves in…
Your a total ar$e ‘Keeping it Real’…