My BF has 20% custody of his son (He gets him every other weekend) He recently found out that his ex wife is living back with her parents (mom & step dad) even though her step dad has been sexually abusive to her.
What can my BF do to gain full custody if there’s no concrete evidence of the sexual abuse? Note: The family of the ex-wife is one of those families that sweeps problems under the rug. It’s really sad and definitely not an environment for a 7 year old boy to be around.

My BF and I are looking to get into couples counseling to work out somethings before we dive head first into a future together. But just picking a name out of the phone book feels a bit odd.

What are some criterea, besides education and license, should we be looking for?

If you have any insight into this maybe you are a counselor or have been to counseling, would love to hear from you.

i was thinking about getting my bf a professional massage for our anniversary. Do you think i should just get him the massage or would it be more romantic if i got a couples massage? I don’t want him to think im being selfish by getting me the massage too. Which one do you think would be best?

Have been married 6 yrs getting a divorce not a good relationship hubby cheated and got his ex. wife pregnant our first year of marriage along with another affair. I had a long standing on and off affair with an ex.bf that resulted in my 3 yr old son(hubby new this) and to my suprise i just found out my ex.bf fathered my 5 yr old daughter(i had no clue).The divorce has the potential to get very nasty.To avoid this i am considering hubbys deal to liquidate all marital assets?I would be walking away with nothing but a check and personals but i would also have to drop hubbys name from kids b-certificate?He said he would be willing to give alimony for 6 months but wants nothing to do with my kids. Take the deal or not?
Everything would be split 50/50.I have not worked in 3 yrs so i need money too get back on my feet.

does it mean that your husband doesn’t trust you, or the marriage? or are you showing "faith" by signing one?

(my bf is a lawyer and is constantly saying EVERONE should have a prenup, regardless of how much they make right now). what do u think?

I just broke up with my bf of 5 months. I really liked him. how do i deal with it?

Have been married 6 yrs getting a divorce not a good relationship hubby cheated and got his ex. wife pregnant our first year of marriage along with another affair. I had a long standing on and off affair with an ex.bf that resulted in my 3 yr old son(hubby new this) and to my suprise i just found out my ex.bf fathered my 5 yr old daughter(i had no clue).The divorce has the potential to get very nasty.To avoid this i am considering hubbys deal to liquidate all marital assets 50/50?I would be walking away with nothing but a check and personals but i would also have to drop hubbys name from kids b-certificate or else he will sue me?He said he would be willing to give alimony for 6 months but wants nothing to do with my kids. Take the deal or not?
I had no clue till after the paternity test that my daughter as not my hubbys .

Have been married 6 yrs getting a divorce not a good relationship hubby cheated and got his ex. wife pregnant our first year of marriage along with another affair. I had a long standing on and off affair with an ex.bf that resulted in my 3 yr old son(hubby new this) and to my suprise i just found out my ex.bf fathered my 5 yr old daughter.The divorce has the potential to get very nasty.To avoid this i am considering hubbys deal to liquidate all marital assets?I would be walking away with nothing but a check and personals but i would also have to drop hubbys name from kids b-certificate?He said he would be willing to give alimony for 6 months but wants nothing to do with my kids.
Should i take the deal?
Everything would be split 50/50

my boyfriend and i just broke up a few hours ago. i was the one that did it. he was a really sweet and compassionate boy who would do anything for me and made me feel like an angel at first but then he became overbearingly sensitive, criticized a lot of the things i wanted to do, made me sound like a rotten boyfriend (eg. told me i treat him like a disposable bf when i so did not) and became so concerned about how he felt and what I was doing to him (like when i wasn’t ready to have sex, he flipped at me). he liked to guilt trip me about a lot of stuff. and i was trying to take things slowly because of past experiences (i attempted suicide twice over my ex) and i wasn’t ready to rush and ruin us and he didnt understand that. he even threatened to kill my ex. plus, he told his ex he might have sex with him if we broke up, while dating me. i was slowly starting to love him, but he just made me feel awful. i know i did the right thing because we fought way too much and he treated me like a child, but i still am kind of upset because i didn’t want to hurt him… can anybody give me some help?

i know its a while away.. but what do i get my 16 year old bf for valentines day?