Does anyone experience a break up that your bf disappear totally out of your life? Why does he do that? How do u deal with it?

I want to break up with my bf. we used to be really good friends but the longer we’ve gone out, the more tense it has become. he never really talks to me, he just stands behind me with his arms around me or hugs me. i do all the talking. ive tried asking him questions, but he answers with yes or no to everything. when we do finally have a conversation, we disagree and argue about it.

i just feel bad, because i know that he likes me A LOT, but i don’t feel the same way about him, i liked him more as a friend. he is going to be crushed if i break up with him, but meanwhile i am going to go crazy!!

Should i break up with him? How should i tell him if i do??
I need HELP!!!!!!

Thanks : )

My Mother has been and still is Harassing Me, My Family and My Bf. She sends emails and leaves messages. I have blocked her from calling me and I don’t return any of her emails.I need to know how to get a restraining order to keep her away and to stop her from contacting Us. What do I need to get this order, can I file for it myself and how much might it cost, any ideas? Thank You for any help you can provide in this situation.

I recently just got a new bf. I like him so much, he understands me, and he always knows what to say. My parents arent to happy with me for havin a bf. The other night they got into a huge fight about it. They hardly let me spend any time with him, and Im afraid hes gonna break up with me because of this. My parents claim that they trust me, but i kinda dont think so. I really dont wanna break up with him or have him dump me. Any advice on what to do???

O btw Im 14 and hes 13
i dont know why im not supposed to have a bf either, cuz im a really good student, i usually do what Im supposed to, and I’m a good athlete (sports are really inportant to my dad).

i want to do something cute for my bf on valentines but i dont know what i could

does anyone have any ideas that they are doing for there bf’s on valentines???

thanks

i just became engaged.i’m 33 never been married or have children,worked all my life at a good job.i have multible stocks,bonds,and savings accounts that = over 100k.my bf is divorced with a child a huge debt(30k) from his exwife with no other savings.he is a very "devoted" dad(what his son whats, his son gets) and has already told me his son is his 1st priority and he will never love me as much as his son.now add a very controling,money loving exwife to the picture that guilts my bf into giving her anything she wants.he already gave her more money/personal property than the courts ordered and continues to do so.i have played with the idea of a prenup with my bf but hes not for. its a trust thing he said.if i pushed it he might do it but it would damage our relationship.i love my bf and he loves me but i will allways be second to his son and if push came to shove i don’t know what would happen.what can i do to protect my money other than a prenup?

I’m 37 & my bf is 40. We’ve been dating almost 1 year. When we started dating I was married- but legally seperated. My divorce is still not final because of some marital assets we are fighting over. I realize this divorce is taking forever. I’ve not lived with my ex for over 1 year. My bf’s not the reason we are getting a divorce, just wanted to clear that up. My bf suddenly started saying we are committing adultery & reading bible verses to me everytime we talk. He lives 500 miles away, so we don’t see each other but about twice a month, although it has been nearly a month since we’ve been together. He thinks we should wait until my divorce is final before we continue seeing each other. I think that’s bull!! Sounds like an excuse to get out of this relationship to me…btw, i have a steady decent paying job, my own house, car & my kids are still in school here, He doesn’t really have a job at the moment, lives with his dad, has nothing to leave behind. His kids live in 2 different states. What do you think?

i just became engaged.i’m 33 never been married or have children,worked all my life at a good job.i have multible stocks,bonds,and savings accounts that = over 100k.my bf is divorced with a child a huge debt(30k) from his exwife with no other savings.he is a very "devoted" dad(what his son whats, his son gets) and has already told me his son is his 1st priority and he will never love me as much as his son.now add a very controling,money loving exwife to the picture that guilts my bf into giving her anything she wants.he already gave her more money/personal property than the courts ordered and continues to do so.i have played with the idea of a prenup with my bf but hes not for. its a trust thing he said.if i pushed it he might do it but it would damage our relationship.i love my bf and he loves me but i will allways be second to his son and if push came to shove i don’t know what would happen.what can i do to protect my money other than a prenup?
i met him after he left his wife

Some people like to act terrible to get their bf or gf to break up with them. Why are these people too cowardly to do it themselves? If your not happy, your not happy and should break it off.

I am in a really uncomfortable situation right now. my bf is away out of the country, so I have no way to contact him except through email. He is going to be away for another six weeks.

Problem is, I am going out of my mind. I love my bf but i don’t think he cares about me the same way. I feel like he is avoiding me. He hasn’t called since he left 2 weeks ago, or responded to my email (i only sent just one). And I just am getting a negative vibe from him, if that makes sense. I can’t just sit here for another 2 months questioning in my mind whether a breakup is the best thing for me, for us. But i can’t break up without talking to him first, and i refuse to do this in an email. It is so hard, i cannot just sit here and wait. i am losing it and its getting harder with each passing day.

I need advice/opinions!?
**we have been toghether for a whole year and a half..
don’t answer if all you can come up with is "no"..