So my Sim has a boyfriend and they’ve been together for about a day. She is turning an adult so i need her to hurry up and get married. The option to propose is up but he rejected me (i asked him the first day of being my boyfriend). How long does it take for the sims to be bf and gf until the bf will say yes to her proposal!!! she is all sad now cuz he said no. how long do they have to be together until the guy will accept and they get married!

Hurry! cuz my sim is getting old. she’s already an adult and not married!

I’ll give you 10 points if you give me the answer that helps!!!
THX!

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My Bf who is in BMT right now just found out he has something wrong with his back. They sent him to the hospital over there and they did an MRI and found that he has a bulging disc and I think something wrong with his vertebrae. Does anyone know roughly how long it takes for a medical entry level separation? They did say he would be going home but not how long it would take. He’s waiting in the 319. Thanks in advance!

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I played a (non-funny) joke on my bf. I told him I had leukemia and that I needed a bone marrow transplant and that I will lose my hair within the next 5 years. I don’t know why I did it and I apologized like 100 times. I feel so bad. I want to make it up to him. How do I do that? Can anyone explain to me why I did that? Help me please.

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i have been in my own counseling for sometime now.my bf has been in his own as well. his therapist retired and he has since picked up a new one recently. i suggested couples counseling as we have many conflicts. he was verrry hesitant about it due to fear of of a bad experience in counseling with his former wife.

i am not the same as her. i explained that counseling is not about being right. we cannot work things out on our own and need some help.

he came to me last week and asked me to see his therapist with him at her suggestion because this is the area he wants to work on.

i dont think i have alot to loose. if she is professional she will just assess the situation probably and try to help. i just thought we should have a therapist outside our own individual help.

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i have been with my bf for a little over a year…and i hardly want to have sex anymore…its been this way for at lease 4 months…does that mean its over for me?

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I think/feel like I’m going crazy. My bf moved out of state. We agreed on a trial separation b/c the job market here is so bad. Well, he’s not doing much better there. He has a job, but it doesn’t even cover what he pays out, so the plan to get financially ahead is dead in the water, unless he finds a 2nd and/or 3rd job too.

I’ve asked him to return. I’ve moved into a MUCH smaller space, and have gotten a promotion since he left. We’ve been in this relationship for almost 10 years and I love him dearly. I don’t know how to carry on without him, especially when our plan doesn’t seem to be working. He’s only been gone 2 months. I have days where I can’t think of anything at all. My heart just aches. He says he doesn’t want to return until the financial mess is cleared up because he wants us to have a future together. That if he were to come home to soon, we may begin to argue again and it may lead to a permanent break.

I trust his feelings for me. How do I cope with the loss? I have a 14 year old son, and no family here. I actually moved here to be with him. (ironic) and only a few friends at work, but we don’t see each other socially.

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My bf has this great natural sent and sometimes after I wash I’m alone I can smell him on me. I know it sounds crazy but can anyone relate? I know everybody has there own natural sent, but is this possible, please explain.
What if I still smell him after almost a year, its like his bodily chemicals are intertwined with mine.

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I have a problem regarding to sex in the relationship. i was in sex less marrige for 7years and that gives me huge impact to my sex life after divorce. it makes me feel that i’m not wanted at all, not attracteve to my partner, i can’t initiate sex becasue of fear of rejection, too much frustration and anger occur when my partner is not willing to have sex.(i think i have a high sex drive) i always feel so insecure about if my partner is bored with me and lose interested in having sex with me someday soon, and since i have pretty high sex drive, i always get depressed too much when my bf didn’t want it.

I am currently dating with this man and he has lower sex drive than me. i need to make love to him as much as possible(we see each other 1 or 2/week and im happy if i get 1 or 2) but sometimes he is not in the mood even that number so it makes me really dissapointed.

then even though i don’t want to but we start argue about sex. then our sex get awkward…

should i seek sex therapist to get an advice or should i stick to looking for a man who fillful my need?

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See my previous ? for more info:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvsXr.PYHfFJwolB.uquo3bty6IX?qid=20070520201211AArmguh

So I finally was able to get my boyfriend to make us a couples’ counseling appt which is free thru his work. We’ve been to 5 weekly sessions and I feel that we are getting nowhere! Instead of working on concrete problems (he’s irresponsible and it stresses me out) we spend half the session doing silly worksheets like "the 10 myths of love" and talking about how bad our childhoods were. Worse, I feel like whenever I do bring up an actual problem, the counselor turns it around and explains that my bf acts this way because he’s still acting out rebellion towards his alcoholic father. I think she’s enabling my bf to act like a child instead of taking responsibility for his actions in the present! Is it a case of "you get what you pay for" or is this how counseling really works? What should I say? Our last "freebie" appt is Fri.

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I have heard people say that they had sex on the first in person date with their now spouse or bf/gf and it shocks me until they also add that they initially met online and chatted for like 5 months before meeting in person.

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