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Ok, I talked to a MI divorce attorney and he told me that he would have to look up the law about me getting alimony, pension, and insurance from my husband of 15 years.
My husband has had a girlfriend throughout our marriage who is 7 years older than I am and when we separated he moved in with her.
I am mentally and physically disabled and I have been receiving Social Security Disability since Jan 2003, and I am unable to work. I have been disabled since birth.
I know that a lady whose attorney made her husband pay for her education. I am taking online classes but my Stafford Loans will be running out within 1 1/2 years from now so can I also have the attorney who I’m thinking about hiring ask for my husband to pay for my education so I can receive my Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration.
He was extremely controlling and he is over 14 years older than I am, and when I did not do what he wanted me to do than he would leave and sometimes take all of my clothes with him including the car and leave me stranded without no money and sometime with little money. He even took ,000 of my unemployment check when I first received unemployment one time it was over ,700, because unemployment made me wait for over 6 weeks to receive my first check. He waited until I took a shower and did this to me. I did report him to the local police and they put an alert out over 50 states to find him.
He left me in Charlotte, NC, that time, he left me in Atlanta, GA, when he left me with little me I think maybe .00 to last for one week. We were living in Atlanta, GA, and working at the CNN Center and Georgia State University. He made me quit my both of my jobs in Atlanta, GA, and move to Indianapolis, IN, where he went when he left me than he waited until I went to work and left and went to Jacksonville, FL. He called that punishment because I would not do what he wanted me to do.
When I reported him to the police in two cities they told me that they believed he must had been on drugs to do things like this.
We have been separated since 10/25/98, because he mentally and emotionally abused me and he use to leave me whenever I did not do what he wanted me to do. Once again, he’s over 14 years older than I am and he thought that he was my father instead of my husband.
I have 4 children but they are not biologically his and I gave them away at birth. My oldest was born before I met him. My other 3 children, was born in May 2000, Oct 2002, and July 2006.
My husband lives with his girlfriend because I talked to him a few years ago and that is what he told me. I called my mother-in-law in Sweden who gave me his telephone number but she called him before I got a chance to talk to him. My Swedish Phd degree Organic Scientist husband makes over 8 times more than what I make. He makes ,000 a year and my Social Security Disability is only ,408 a year.
When I talked to him over the phone in January 2007, he told me that his girlfriend posed as me at immigration office in the state where he lives to get a visa to go back to his country for a visit. He also told me that he had his girlfriend signed immigration documents stating that she was me and that we lived together. This was back in December 2005, when he did this. Before we moved from MI to the south, he had his girlfriend steal my MI ID, my birth certificate and my Social Security number. In Aug 2000, before I got a telephone I had to show prove of my identification with the phone company because my husband’s girlfriend had taken over my identity.
Therefore, do you think like I do that the judge should definitely make him pay me alimony for living together for 15 years and not 3 years.