me and my ex wife are going thru a custody battle for our daughter. i make twice as much money, own my home, she now lives with her friend and my daughter in some apartment in a poor neighborhood when i had offered to leave her the home she didnt take it. i have no custody over my daughter and i want my daughter to come live with me because she’s got a better living condition here, near better schools, what do you all think? will the judge allow me to get custody over her?

Well, my parents are divorced and my dad lives in an apartment. It’s just missing those little things that make it a home- magnets on the fridge, pictures on the walls, etc. any ideas how I can make it more homey for cheap? Oh, and we can’t paint the walls.

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You’re confused with Barney Frank DEMOCRAT, still serving, who ran a male prostitution ring from his DC taxpayer paid apartment

What do i do when i find out that my girlfriend was the cause of a divorce and slept with the husband and is now living with him in an apartment.

Ok,people I started out by just confusing everybody the first go around with my quetion including myself.I think I just made more statements about what my problems were and not what to do about them.
I have been married to a man for 12 yrs. and lived with him for 2yrs. befor we married.I am 51,he is 53.The first 8yrs. of our relationship there was physical abuse from him.I have always worked,went back to school to further my education to make more money.I stood up for myself and filed for a divorce in 1996 and rented myself a nice apartment and in the meantime he was getting counseling.We continued to see one another even thogh we lived apart.I got some help for myself also.
We thought things were better,we got along better and the physical abuse stopped.We have been back together since 2003,now I am unable to work due to health issues and he tells me when I can go where I can go and I only have money when he lets me have some.I live like a hermit,I always wear the same thing.
Please don’t tell me to go to a shelter and please answer this question only if you have had a simialer problem.I have no where to turn and don’t know what to do.Waiting for an answer from SSI during this wait I am afrais I am going to lose my mind. No funds,no other housing oppurtunities.Help,what do i do?

About 6 months ago, my husband came home after a session with his therapist and said he feels suffocated in the marriage. Since then, it’s been an emotional roller coaster – from I love you to I want out, all in the same conversation. We saw a marriage counselor which did not help. He tells me he loves me but feels he needs to find himself, while at the same time, he blames it on the marriage. He wants to separate but can’t seem to make that decision (part of suffocation). In any case, he might be deciding on an apartment today. He cannot tell me if the separation is permanent or temporary. Should I wait for him to come out of this crisis, not knowing if he will come back, or seek a divorce lawyer? I love him even despite his hurtful behavior. We live in CA. Any advice will be helpful. Thanks.

hi, i need alot of advice.
my girlfriend is coming home on leave in a couple of months and we want to get married. Her unit is already planning on deploying and we dont know for sure when she is leaving but we want to get married before she leaves. We know it will be soon so I know that after we get married i cant move up to her duty station with her. The only problem is she lives in the barracks and if we get married she needs to move offpost. shes trying to find an apartment currently so she can get a roommate and still try to help me with bills on our old apt down here in new mexico. Will she get bah & bas after we get married? we are in our early 20′s and dont know much about marriage so any and everything would really help us out. she is an e-3 and has about a year of training under her belt so i know she doesnt make much. financially im a little worried. but i love her and im trying to do anything in means to make her the happiest woman in the world. would i have to go up to her duty station after we get married to get me enrolled in deers ? to turn in the marriage certificate? her sgt told her to get some papers for me to sign before we get married saying i wont leave and and take off with her money while shes deployed. i will sign those no matter what jsut so she knows i wont leave with anything of hers. hes just tryin to be cautious and look out for her because his first marriage failed when he got deployed. can you help me figure out what papers we need to have or should have? some advice on marriage. i understand it will be difficult because she will be in a whole other country but im more than willing to stick by her side! please help outt ASAP

My friend has four children with her husband of 12 yrs. She is now wanting a divorce. The problem is she has no job and cannot get one until she has child care (which she can’t afford til she has a job). She also cannot afford a lawyer for the same reason. She has never held credit to establish a credit history so moving into her own place is out of the question. Her husband doesn’t want the divorce, won’t cosign for an apartment, won’t move out and won’t get a lawyer. So my question boils down to: what does she need to do to take the kids out of state so she can move in with family and file from another state?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Im 18 and he is 21.. I moved into his house within the first 3 months due to some family issues on my part. His family welcomed me in with open arms and I fell in love. With him and every single person of his family… they are have been more of my family than my own.

Ever since then, we where stuck at the hip. We where best friends and did everything together. Had some amazing vacations.. had some fights.. but ALWAYS got through everything. We both enjoy the same things and we both love eachother VERY VERY much.. heres the catch:

I am young.. I found an amazing paying job.. and found the cutest apartment.. and moved to the other side of town. Hoping he would follow. For the first few months, he was with me still side by side.. bonnie and clyde, haha sounds cliche but its true. we bought 2 kittens and we became a family all in our own. But soon enough the issues started to come about the past 3 months.. I have always been all about his sports, and his number one fan. Lately after he began riding with a new crew of guys who are all sponsored.. its been riding non stop. which I am fine with! I just want time for me… I started to feel like we where falling apart and I was being put on the back burner. One day, he didnt come home and was working on his bike… I broke up with him.. in hopes he would stop me and he didnt. We have been broken up for 2 weeks. I finally went to his house at 3 in the morning un announced last night just to be next to him.. I cant stand not having that feeling of us going to bed and waking up together every day for the past 2 years. Im madly in love.. MADLY.. I would do anything for this man and I do believe he is mine forever. We made love for the first time last night… but there is still this distance.

How do I get him back? How do I go back to normal with the love of my life? 2 weeks has felt like 2 years and hes all I want. Iv written him a letter, texted him, cried to him, taken up hobbies to keep my mind off of it.. but I sit here at work for the next 72 hours straight and thats all I can think about..
He is out riding and all I want is to be there,,,
Where do I go from here? How do I draw him back in? He still loves me… but we are on a "break".. I dont want to let go:(

Hi everyone,

I recently got divorced and I have met some new people at the divorce support group here in my town. One of the guys at the divorce group seemed like a nice guy and we had a lot in common so we paired up in the buddy support system so we could call one another if there was a problem. Well, it has been a couple of months now and he calls every night and I go to find out that he also is attending other support groups such as the cancer survivor group, the addiction support group and some others. I dont think he actually ever was married or has any of these problems and is just looking for people to latch on to at this point. How should I deal with this individual. I have tried not answering the phone and the door but he persists and has waited for up to 6 hours for me to leave my apartment to go out.