I can no longer pay Alimony as I have been out of work for close to a year. If I stop paying can my SEP or Rollover IRA be attached or garnished for non payment of Alimony by the Family Court if she files a contempt of court motion? The divorce decree was in CA and X lives there but I am out of state.




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Me and my husband are having an uncontested divorce in Florida (broward), I’ve got a court date set. What do we do in court? Do they want to hear why we’re divorcing? My husband origionally tried to serve me with alimony papers, and i ripped them up. Can he try and do that when we’re in court on an uncontested no alimony divorce???

What happens in court?




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She wants to move out of state and live with a family member to help with her finances. Can she still collect alimony?




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Im in the military, weve been married a year june 29th 2010. Before we got married he didnt have a job or any place to live. he was living with his brother. he now has a job at home depot. im still in the mmilitary for 5 years now. would i be required to pay him alimony? please help. i havent filed yet.




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My marriage is going really badly, only been married a few months. I make much more money than my husband even though I am in a lot of debt and struggling myself. If we get a divorce, will I have to pay alimony to him? We don’t have any children. He is not an American citizen either. What will likely happen in this case?

Would it be better to just separate for now?




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My friend makes very little money and receives financial assistance each month from his parents to pay the bills. He wants to divorce his wife but feels that between alimony and child support he will be left with nothing each month (and he will need a place to live). If he is making about ,000 per year and married 25 years with 2 kids still at home, how much could he expect to pay in alimony and child support each month? Would they factor in the extra parental financial support in to the calculation?




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Please do not judge me. I have had years of fighting a man for a divorce when he is way too hard to find and really don’t need anymore.

Here is the short version:

I married in November 2006 and husband decided to up and abandon me in March 2007 in Fort Bragg, NC after changing his mind about having children and wanted to party instead…Just never told me and up and poof disappeared and has remained unreachable for the past 3 years.

I have since then been fighting to get a divorce from him and when he wanted to come out of the woodworks he claimed he had divorced me…I and my lawyer both separately called his so called lawyer and the county clerk where he was to have filed and there has never been anything filed in his name or ssn…

So, I filed once again…Myself!!! We have contacted his lawyer as well as him and his family and all have remained unreachable once again. We have even sent out both the Marriage Dissolution Agreement and the Divorce papers both to his lawyer and to his last known address…The MDA still has not came back and supposedly his lawyer was to have him sign it a few weeks ago seeing as I never filed for alimony or anything; just a divorce. It still has never made it’s way back to my lawyer and my lawyer has decided to go and publish in the newspaper since this jerk off wants to remain unserved!!!

I finally decided to move on this year just like my husband has been with his gf for the past I would say 2 years now. I am now currently 3 months away from giving birth to my daughter. The father did the same thing my husband did so he will not be actively involved in my child’s life unless he pays support.

My Questions:
1. Seeing as how my husband has been unreachable and everything for a divorce for 3+ years now for a divorce…Am I to have to deal with him on the topic of child support too? or is there some way to deal with that matter without him being involved since his abandonment and my knowing of who the father is even though I will have a hard time contacting the father as well?

2. In TN, do you have to have the father there to sign the birth certificate when you name him?

3. In my situation, in TN, who do I name as the father on the birth certificate? The bio father whom I know is to be correct or my husband because of some stupid law? When my husband and I have not cohabitated together or even seen or talked to each other for over 3 years and he is unreachable as well as noncooperative in any situation here.

4. Who will the state go after for child support?




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Please read all below thank you!

Ok, I talked to a MI divorce attorney and he told me that he would have to look up the law about me getting alimony, pension, and insurance from my husband of 15 years.

My husband has had a girlfriend throughout our marriage who is 7 years older than I am and when we separated he moved in with her.

I am mentally and physically disabled and I have been receiving Social Security Disability since Jan 2003, and I am unable to work. I have been disabled since birth.

I know that a lady whose attorney made her husband pay for her education. I am taking online classes but my Stafford Loans will be running out within 1 1/2 years from now so can I also have the attorney who I’m thinking about hiring ask for my husband to pay for my education so I can receive my Bachelor’s degree in Business Administration.

He was extremely controlling and he is over 14 years older than I am, and when I did not do what he wanted me to do than he would leave and sometimes take all of my clothes with him including the car and leave me stranded without no money and sometime with little money. He even took ,000 of my unemployment check when I first received unemployment one time it was over ,700, because unemployment made me wait for over 6 weeks to receive my first check. He waited until I took a shower and did this to me. I did report him to the local police and they put an alert out over 50 states to find him.
He left me in Charlotte, NC, that time, he left me in Atlanta, GA, when he left me with little me I think maybe .00 to last for one week. We were living in Atlanta, GA, and working at the CNN Center and Georgia State University. He made me quit my both of my jobs in Atlanta, GA, and move to Indianapolis, IN, where he went when he left me than he waited until I went to work and left and went to Jacksonville, FL. He called that punishment because I would not do what he wanted me to do.

When I reported him to the police in two cities they told me that they believed he must had been on drugs to do things like this.

We have been separated since 10/25/98, because he mentally and emotionally abused me and he use to leave me whenever I did not do what he wanted me to do. Once again, he’s over 14 years older than I am and he thought that he was my father instead of my husband.

I have 4 children but they are not biologically his and I gave them away at birth. My oldest was born before I met him. My other 3 children, was born in May 2000, Oct 2002, and July 2006.

My husband lives with his girlfriend because I talked to him a few years ago and that is what he told me. I called my mother-in-law in Sweden who gave me his telephone number but she called him before I got a chance to talk to him. My Swedish Phd degree Organic Scientist husband makes over 8 times more than what I make. He makes ,000 a year and my Social Security Disability is only ,408 a year.

When I talked to him over the phone in January 2007, he told me that his girlfriend posed as me at immigration office in the state where he lives to get a visa to go back to his country for a visit. He also told me that he had his girlfriend signed immigration documents stating that she was me and that we lived together. This was back in December 2005, when he did this. Before we moved from MI to the south, he had his girlfriend steal my MI ID, my birth certificate and my Social Security number. In Aug 2000, before I got a telephone I had to show prove of my identification with the phone company because my husband’s girlfriend had taken over my identity.

Therefore, do you think like I do that the judge should definitely make him pay me alimony for living together for 15 years and not 3 years.




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In Kansas. Is it necessary to complete the financial breakdown for divorce papers if the divorce is uncontested with no request for child support or alimony?




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Just wondering if I have to supply mortgage company with my divorce papers when the home was bought 2 years after my divorce was final and has nothing to do with my ex.
Maybe they need to know whether I owe alimony or not…..but that would be on the debt ratio paperwork I think. I can’t figure it out.




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