Saturday, May 7th, 2011 at
2:36 pm
well a lot. It was his idea and says he is suggesting this because i am sometimes unable to perform sexually due to illness…but i do perform 4 or more times weekly. I am still grieving the death of my lover just 5 months ago and dont feel i am ready to commit to one on one serous relationship. I was hopeing to have a friend with benefits but sometimes i hurts when he sexes others. Any suggestions? I did sign up for relationship counseling.
Monday, May 2nd, 2011 at
12:12 pm
ok im 15 my boyfriend is 18 we have been dating for 5 months valentines and i want to get him something really special that he will really like. we both know that someday we are going to get married. i asked him what was the best valentines present was and he said a card with 20$ in it……….i want to get him something that has our names on it and like something that has a 5 month marker or something but im stummped, im not very good at getting gifts…please help…….
also to add to my question we dont wear jewlrey…srry
Sunday, May 1st, 2011 at
2:36 pm
my husband and i both are in our early 20s and we have been together for a little over 6 years but only married for a year. When we first started dating we had sex on a regulary basis and both reached climax, after about a year he got involved in some drugs for a short period of time, he is now clean but blamed the lack of sex on that. he has been clean for over 3 years and up untill recently used his past drug history. he now has some many reasons its overwhelming. we have not had sex in 5 months and i was understanding up till now when i noticed he was watching a large amount of internet porn. porn dose not bother me as long as the sex is still in the marriage, but its not. when i try talking to him about it he get defensive and blames me for what ever he can.
Some one help if i cant fix this soon divorce may be the only answer I know its not all about sex but a little is. Help please
Monday, April 11th, 2011 at
9:32 am
My girlfriend of 9 months called it off with me as she is going travelling for 5 months and then starting a masters and didn’t feel a relationship fitted in. We are clearly both crap with break ups and kept texting each other now and again, eventually she came down for her last night in the uk with all her friends (who are my friends) the first night, we all got drunk, she got with me in a club and asked to come back to mine.
We both knew it was wrong and the next day she made the express point of saying that in text. The next and last night we all went out, and she got with some guy infront of me and all our friends, which is absolutely heartless. She said she was drunk and we weren’t together, but how could she move on that quick? its just awful, i think she did it to spite me. Its just very disrespectful considering she told me she really cared about me etc.
We argued about it alot the next day over text and in the end she started going kinda mushy on me, she started saying that it was so hard for her seeing me, it brought all her feelings back and she made a mistake doing what she did with that guy. "I seriously messed it all up and i’m so so sorry." and then a plating of "you’re the nicest guy i’ve ever met" and "i’ll miss you".
I just don’t know how to handle this. I’m new to a break up really and i’m devastated, i still care for her even after what she did to me. I even left it on a civil note saying that we may speak again sometime in the future as i didn’t have the heart to cut her out of my life.
Anyone got any worthwhile advice on what I should do? I’m so confused. I guess I should be glad that she realised I am the better person and that she was the one that fucked it all up. It puts me in a better position to get over her but i still love her
Sunday, April 10th, 2011 at
12:13 am
We have been together for 4 months and it will be 5 months a week after valentines day. I have no idea what to get my boyfriend for valentines day. He is my first real boyfriend and I want to show him how much I truly love him. Please give me some ideas.
He is 21 and I am 20. We are in college. And we are both limited on funds.
Saturday, April 9th, 2011 at
11:55 am
Long story short.
I was with this person for a long time. I gave them everything.. Cared and loved them so much. They left me. Moved on. Saw myself spending the rest of my life with them, come to find out they are now engaged to someone else after only 5 months and after being with me for 5 years. Now they say they miss me all the time, and wish we could remain ‘close friends.’ Seems a little messed up to me..
I’ve never felt this way before in my life, to give my all to someone just be thrown away and replaced in such a short time.. Although i know everyone experiences break ups, its hard to imagine anyone else feeling this way..
Any advice, or personal experience how to move on..?
Thanks..
Tuesday, April 5th, 2011 at
9:32 am
I’m 17 and me and my ex have been broken up for 5 months now but it’s very complicated and I want this book to see if I can fix things before it’s too late. But I don’t want to use my mom’s credit card because I don’t want her to know I bought it, so is there any way I can get a hold of this ebook?
Monday, April 4th, 2011 at
12:13 am
This is an amendment to an earlier question, but I live in PA and my wife and I split 5 months into the year. Going over the IRS website she should be considered the custodial parent this year, however that stipulation is under the legally seperated and divorced parents section. Does this change as we are not yet divorced and there are no legal separation documents drawn up?
Sunday, April 3rd, 2011 at
7:05 am
My husband and I have been married almost 2 years now — however we’ve been together for almost 5. I was a single mom when I met him with a 2 year old little boy. He came into our lives and just filled in the gap. He is a wonderful man and I don’t think I could have found anyone better to help me raise my son. When I met him he was 28 with no kids and had never been married. I have been married once before and it was a very emotionally abusive relationship — I got pregnant and @ 5 months I left. My son doesn’t know his biological father — my husband is the only daddy he’s ever known. So needless to say my new husband was a breath of fresh air. He took on the daddy role with no questions asked and has done a wonderful job. We had a great relationship until we got married. Our first year of marriage has been a whirlwind. We got married in August and in October I found out I was pregnant. Which was GREAT — we would not change that for the world. I was so sick — I was ill the entire time — I had to be taken to the hosptial for excessive vomiting and dehydration. So, that was rough. Then 6 months ago I gave birth to our daughter and found out I have post partum depression — which has been nothing but rough. I struggle everyday — I just recently got put on medicaion for it a week ago. Through all of this my husband has gotten very distant and just doesn’t seem to care. I try and talk to him and he doesn’t talk back. He just gives me one word answers like: yep, uh huh, okay. I never get anything out of him. I don’t feel special anymore. He used to be crazy about me and I could feel that — not anymore. He always says "I need some space", "I’m sexually frustrated", or "Your driving me crazy". That’s all I get. I am so lost. I cry all the time. I don’t mean to drive him crazy – I didn’t know I had a problem until recently and I went to the doctor for help. I’m trying here and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I love him and I don’t want to loose him. He’s not cheating I know that — he’s home all the time — doesn’t have time to do that and he wouldn’t anyway. I know him good enough to know that. I just don’t know how to get us back to good. To get us back to the way we used to be. I know the love is still there I just don’t know what to do to bring it out. It’s like we’ve lost each other, ya know. We need to rekindle what we had. Has anyone ever been through anything like this before?? What can I do or what could we do together?? Any advice would be great??
Thanks!!!
I feel so alone — I just tried to talk to him and he doesn’t want to so he just left. He said he needed to clear his head and that he didn’t know where we we’re headed. He’s confused. I have no one to talk to about this.
Thursday, March 31st, 2011 at
12:12 am
We have been together for 5 months. Things are going very well. I want Valentines day to be special, but money is somewhat of an factor. Also since this is the first Valentines I am not sure how far to go. I think a weekend getaway is too much, but is a romantic dinner too little?
Thanks for your help.