Monday, August 29th, 2011 at
5:54 am
My husband and i been married for 3 years the last 2 years of my marriage life is hell on earth …
he’s not willing to compromise for anything .
our problems and fights mainly consists on life basics needs he never gives me any money to buy clothes for the kids emotionally abusive and very controlling .
i had put up with him only for the sake of our 2 kids .
ive tried everything with him talking nothing seems to work
we live in one bedroom apartment (me /him and my 2 kids sleep in the same room )he has been promising to move to a bigger apartment for the last year now
i have endured his imaginary promises but i can not take the emotional abuse anymore
he owns a real estate company and he can still find a decent apartment for the same price yet he does nothing
i’m not allowed to work or do anything i live in different country
every time we have a fight he tells me to pack my bag and get the FCUK out of the house still i hang around for the sake of my kids
nevertheless i can live much better with my parents back home
the last incident when we had a fight and he threat me with divorce and call my parents he told them that he will send me back home
after all of his manipulative emotional abuse than he acts like nothing happened
the last 2 days he raised his hand trying to knock me out in my face he didn’t touch me but he wanted to i guess the only reason because he knows that i can call the police
this is the first time i told him i’m done with his emotional abuse he doesn’t respect me at all adding stingy bot good in bed and the list goes on
i can not continue with him or even for the kids i will take the kids now and leave
he tells me that im a bad woman because i didn’t standby his side when he is in crisis not like he gave a sincere apology
he never apologized for anything he buys him self a 1000 dollars shoes and drives a 2010 car i know he is not in crisis as he pretends however he wants his 6 month old baby to wear the same clothes since newborn it’s killing me to see my babies living less than they deserve
finally i came with a solution with him that i cant take it anymore and i’m leaving just like he says to pack my shit and fuck off
because ei know deep inside that nothing well going to change i can live with a poor person if he is good to me but there is nothing positive about him
social life zero love life zero
i need advice if i’m taking the good decision or should i wait more and give him a chance after 100 chance or am i just wasting my time
and just today he told me that he will not move to a bigger apartment just because he doesn’t want to .
i strongly believe that marriage is for good and for worse
im just want to give him a lesson that he i will not allow him to terat me in this manner he says if i leave he will not have us bacj anymore still i want to leave nothing will change
any expeience or advice would be helpfull thank you in advance